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When I was in the military, single living off base, my friend and I had a live in maid. anyway you get the picture......... 35 years later I get a call and a woman asks, "ARE YOU MY DADDY?".......
Women experience the effects of oxytocin when they have sex, it's a chemical that causes her to bond with the partner (it's also what causes women to bond with their children when breastfeeding). So, they have an extra hurdle with which to contend when it comes to buddying.
And I've also seen men get more attached to the woman than vice versa, but yeah, it's usually a prospect that's harder for women.
When I was in the military, single living off base, my friend and I had a live in maid. anyway you get the picture......... 35 years later I get a call and a woman asks, "ARE YOU MY DADDY?".......
yup, they can work, usually for about 6-12 months before the chick wants more
then you find another one!
I had an F buddy for about 6 months just after high school. Things were cool for the first 3 months until she started wanting more. I wasn't down with another relationship and told her as much. Around month 4 she said she met someone and wouldn't call me anymore. I said cool and went about my life. About a month after that she called me crying saying her boyfriend dumped her and she wanted a booty call. Fine by me, I said. A nice emotion free month went by until the same "I want more out of this" came up. I ended it and that was it.
In my case, it worked for a short time until the girl got too attatched. I have a buddy who's had the same F buddy on the side for a few years now. They hook up when his wife goes out, leaves town to visit family, etc. I've met her and she seems like a cool chick, and my buddy has no complaints.
I guess it's a crap shoot.
Three words:When I was in the military, single living off base, my friend and I had a live in maid. anyway you get the picture......... 35 years later I get a call and a woman asks, "ARE YOU MY DADDY?".......
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buddies are great if both of you understand that the sex you're having is a natural response to human urges. Everyone gets horny and wants to get laid, some people just don't want to have to move in with you, meet your friends, or have to call back the next day.
Well then that's too much like "anonymous sex". Not too many women are gonna go for that.
You guys suck!
Actually I was the "head" soloist
Just go down to the Cattleman's Bar downtown and you will find plenty of those type of females.......
depends on how much you have to pay them...
do pros utes count ?
People that work for you can be friends. I say yea.
I have had a few and hey all ended bad, They wanted more and 1 of them even told me lets go further your daughter can call me mom. She got the boot stat and couldn't understand why I was so piss.
I think it can be fine if everyone involved is on the same page, but I also think some people just aren't built for it. Some people just really can't separate sex from love, which is essentially what has to happen in a FWB situation. Ultimately, though, it requires honesty -- be honest about only wanting sex, be honest about starting to want more, be honest about noticing that clinginess (instead of ing out and either breaking contact without warning, or becoming cruel as a defense mechanism), and also be honest with yourself about what you're really looking for.
That's a long way to say, "No, it rarely works out."
Well... but because people are flawed, not the buddy system. I, personally, have had much success in that area.
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