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People who have been romantically involved with your friends should always be off limits. Always.
Even if it's been years and years since they've gone separate ways. Never do it.
If you're a real friend anyway.
If you didn't bang her it means nothing to me. Don't talk to me about chicks you couldn't score with.
People who have been romantically involved with your friends should always be off limits. Always.
Even if it's been years and years since they've gone separate ways. Never do it.
If you're a real friend anyway.
I personally would never ever do this to my BFF. We have different tastes when it comes to men.
The with that. If she's hot I'm going for it and any real man would.
I've found that women have different tastes too..literally.I personally would never ever do this to my BFF. We have different tastes when it comes to men.
To me scoring with my friend's ex doesn't do it for me. I need to scale a mountain that my fellow "climbers" haven't
Unless she's a virgin...you are climbing down hill.
Yeah thats different. Thats more like Open Season, but if your friends are good friends they will give you their notes to help you out.
end of the day? depends how hot she is.
no man turns down hot tang. NO MAN!
L to R JC / JC's BFF
...and also, WTH would I want to go out with my friend's cast off? He's a cast off for a reason, and it's usually not a good one. Duh.
I got your back JC.L to R JC / JC's BFF
The woman who is the ex is already married and has a child. It is time for her to get over it. Any of you are welcome to my ex-- you can have him.
Lesson of this thread :
Never be JoeChalupa's friend or he will want to F your boyfriend/girlfriend.
Only EX girlfriends who are hot.......and if I were single.
dude thats nothing, peak of the mountain lies MFHMILF
First off, if you're a true friend you would never ever go after your friend's ex. Obviously for the emotions involved and also there's just so many people in the world!! Find somebody else..
If they didn't date long or it wasn't serious I doubt I would still want the person because something made them not "long-term material" but that's just me..
But about this story, where the other girl is already married... she needs to think about why she has such a problem with it now. It's not like her friend just wants a fling with this guy, they want to marry.. And it's not like she has a chance to get back with him because she is also married. Once you're married, you have to be able to let those ex's go. It's a tough situation but I think she should just be happy for her friend... happy that she found true love, not happy that she stabbed her in the back.
Surprised no one has brought up this angle before. Maybe the friend had an acrimonious breakup, and never wanted to see her ex again. Now, he's being dragged back into her life, courtesy of her (now former) friend.
I gotta go with JC on this one....
For real men that is....
I say no but thats just me. She and the friend may be better suited for each other.
As with everything else that gets reduced to absolutes on this board, it depends entirely on the situation. Communication, on all sides, is the most important thing.
For example, I have a male friend that I've always gotten along with extremely well and a few years ago we decided to make the leap from friendship to dating. We stuck it out for a few months before it was time to admit that we just weren't compatible that way, but we always remained really close friends. In fact, I ended up introducing him to another friend of mine that I thought he'd really connect with and the two of them are still together. There were no hurt feelings or jealousies and everyone is happy.
On the other hand, I think I would feel extremely betrayed if a friend started dating/ ing someone with whom I had an especially bad break up. I like to think that my friends are on my side in that situation. It would also be pretty selfish on their part to not consider how uncomfortable it would be for me to potentially have to socialize with an ex again. I'd be bothered by a random hookup, too. Maybe even more so. Provided the ex wasn't a complete jerk, I could see myself possibly getting over hurt feelings and being happy for my friend if there was a legitimate connection. But if they were just drunk and horny? There are plenty of people out there without resorting to my castoffs.
Although that gets mathematically harder with every passing week.
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