"nursing a few sick babies..."
You say that as if there is something that would, in your mind, make up for all of that.
How about nursing tens of millions of sick babies? hundreds of millions?
Since we are playing the moral equivalancy game, we need to know the rules, of course.
The rules are, by your own implication:
1) We can assume religion is good if we can name the things it has done that are good, and they outweigh somehow the bad things.
2) We can assume religion is bad if we can name the things it has done that are evil, and they outweigh somehow the good things.
You cannot logically have #2 without logically having #1. If you want to admit that your position isn't logical, say so now before we begin, so I don't have to waste my time on someone who admits they are being irrational.
Do you accept that these are the rules, and say that your position is a logical one?