What was your worst and how do you do it?
When I was single and “in the mix” I was horrible at breakups. If it was less than say 6 months I would just cut off all contact. The only thing that sucked was most of them knew my hangouts. When I was in highschool it sucked because I would see them everyday.
It hit me in the face though because when I got married (the first time) she decided that she wanted to go out all the time without me and staying with “friends”. First thing I thought was yeah she is cheating. Well I was right but not in the way I thought. She was hooking up with chicks. Sounds hot huh? Nope! She left me for a chick. At first she was still the same person as far as looks and now the went full blown bull . To see her now you would not recognize her. For some reason when they do that they age horribly. I guess it helps with the whole trying to look like a guy thing. I don't think anything could top that.
The worst, best, and only break up on my record was a pretty painless dumping. I'd been with this chick for about six weeks. Went to see her one night and she was acting kind of aloof. Few hours later she says, "I can't do this anymore." No hard feelings, no big scene. And then we had sex one last time. I started dating easjer about 3 months after that.
So I'm pretty useless when friends call after nasty breakups. All I can ever really offer, "Dude, that sucks."
I stopped reading at "in the mix" because that is gay
I threw that in for people like you. I swear I made it interesting.
My first wife was was also my first lay and my highschool sweetheart. I met her when I was 15. We got married when I was 20 or 21. She spent our entire relationship from the first day I met her talking about what a great life and family we would have together and how we should get married right away. So we finally did and over the course of our 1 year marriage she aborted 3 possibly 4 of her pregnancies while becoming an alcoholic and X addict. She told friends and family that I abused her...roughed her up, even though I never laid a hand on her. She made the stories up because it made me out to be the bad guy and this supplimented her guilt for being a baby murderer and cheater. Yeah she was ing other dudes and thankfully me penis hasn't fallen off. Come to find out that she would her guys in the morning while I was at work and then me in the evening :barf:. She took my Z-28, my bed, my real arcade sized Mrs. Pacman, my TV, half the furniture, all of my CD and some of my clothes. She stopped paying on our joint debts except the Z-28 so I was railed with bad credit. I was left with a futon and a playstation but no TV.
Explains alot!!!
Worst for me was a on again off again relationship that lasted 6 years. We always seemed to find each other again. She broke up with me to get back with her x our first year together, but strung me along and like an idiot in love I let her. Then I moved to Austin and she followed. We were back and forth until she was ing me and her boyfriend that I never knew about. When I finally busted her with her new boyfriend she said it wasnt serious and she didnt love him. 2 years later she is common law wife with him with a baby (which I thought was mine) and she is still telling me she doesnt love him and still loves me.
DAMN you should have beat her
Damn, she took the Mrs. Pacman?
That's harsh.
Dude, don't you know there's a stigma about being the last guy to ever be with a chick before she goes lesbian? You're the one who turned her off of dudes, dude.
My natural impulse is like yours, to just run and cut off all contact. But that doesn't work anymore. When I was 22 I went out with a chick who was 27 for a few months and tried to end it immaturely in a drawn out process. Needless, she was really cool and mature about it to my face, but I later heard she was just crushed about what an asshole I turned out to be and in turn I felt all the worse because of how cavalier I'd been in the breakup. It sucks, but I've learned that in the adult world, you're a lot better off when you consider other people's feelings and all that .
Don't forget the sweet, sweet memories you were also left with.
Almost makes it all worth it.
No I loved that game. Nothing beats original full size arcade games.
No . Still should.
ok I read it and I don't want to talk about it .......
Oh I left out a lot. I didn’t mention how she was an amateur boxer and how all chicks that “box” think they can beat up anyone. One of our last nights “together” she shoved me and told me to try and hit her. She knew that I trained to so it wasn’t like it would have been hard. She was punching me in the chest and stomach and I would move out of the way at the ones at my face. She was getting mad that it wasn’t hurting me and really tried to hit me. So I grabbed her by the arms picked her up and threw her on the couch. Then she started saying like she never thought I would hit her and crap. I told her I didn’t I just pushed her away because she was a psycho .
Before that here I was working all kinds of overtime paying for all the bills and expenses and her only bill to pay was her car. So the rest of her check was for things we could do together and stuff like that. Well I started to struggle a bit because my OT was drying up at work and asked her to help out. She had control of my account and was supposed to be paying the house payments. Well would pay them 2 or 3 months late and she jacked up my credit. Then as I was throwing some trash out I found receipts of her for 100, 200, and even 300 at different bars. So while I was struggling trying to figure out how to pay everything she was out buying the bar.
There is a lot more.
Last edited by I. Hustle; 02-17-2010 at 01:13 PM.
You let a woman who isn't your wife, and even then it's sketchy, control your finances?
That fails on so many levels.
Probably feels pretty liberating not being envolved with someone like that.
I thought I threw in there that she was my first wife
My reading comprehension is off.
My bad.
For all the ladies reading this thread feel free to make us feel better by PMing hot nudes to I. Hustle or myself.
yeah! After I got over the initial shock a whole new world opened up. It makes me appreciate my wife knowing what I could have still been with.
No joke. I am still a little tender. Some Boobies sure would help.
hey I've been feeling bad for some reason I can't remember. Can I get into this distribution list ?
I. Hustle's story is up there but at least he still has his Mrs. Pacman.
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