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    GFY I. Hustle's Avatar
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    I think about baseball

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    Bad Pooch Rising Triumph's Avatar
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    have you ever thought about xanax my portly friend.

    pop those like m&m's and you are home free.

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    ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ TheSanityAnnex's Avatar
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    So how do you keep yourself from getting too excited.
    Try going on more than one date per year.

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    i support single moms tonylongoriafan's Avatar
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    Just relax and slow down. I'm not sure what happened with you and the A&M girl, but you thought you were talking about marrying her just a few months ago. Now after one date, you think this girl is something special. They aren't all special and marriage-material. If you get excited and think every girl is "the one", then you are never going to be able to recognize the real one when you actually do find her. Just date and see what happens. And don't buy her anything except for birthdays and Christmas. Good luck.
    that's horrible advice...you have to go all in, that's the exciting part...just try to stay down a little at the beginning

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    I just think about baseball.

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    I have to laugh every time I read the le of this thread.

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    I have to laugh every time I read the le of this thread.
    My first thought was "I'm sure they make some sort of lotion for that, don't they?"

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    I just think about baseball.

    I just think about T Park playing baseball. Does the trick every time.

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    Chopper Ed Helicopter Jones's Avatar
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    For some reason now I'm picturing 2Blonde playing baseball, and I can't get the image out of my mind...wth?!!

    She's playing second, and just scooped up a hard shot past the pitcher, Renee Russo. She underhands it to the short stop, Sandra Bullock, who throws a bullet to Leonard Nimoy who's playing first, just beating a head-first diving Pete Rose.


    Nice double play, guys!!!


    Of course, everyone's naked.

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    Except Pete...that would have been too painful...for both of us.

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    try practicing in front of a chocolate cake...

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    If I could have just one wish this Christmas season it's that Ed becomes the GM of the Yankees and puts Steinbrenner's check book to good use.

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    Is this guy talking about squirting to fast or he is giddy like a lil girl because he went on a date?

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    Is this guy talking about squirting to fast or he is giddy like a lil girl because he went on a date?
    The latter

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    Xanax?

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    try practicing in front of a chocolate cake...

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    Eh, Fuck It. easjer's Avatar
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    to this thread

    TPark, in all seriousness, I would echo Kori's advice. It's ok to feel excited and look forward to seeing her again, but you don't want to come off too strongly, nor do you want to let your excitement form a glorified opinion of her in place of actually getting to know the real person. One date at a time, and take it as it comes. Then you get to know the real person and form a real connection based on an actual relationship rather than the butterflies in your stomach. The butterflies don't last forever, and if you base a relationship on that, you'll always be looking for a new one once the illusion you created shatters and the human comes through.

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    Thanks for the great advice.


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    TPark, in all seriousness, I would echo Kori's advice. It's ok to feel excited and look forward to seeing her again, but you don't want to come off too strongly, nor do you want to let your excitement form a glorified opinion of her in place of actually getting to know the real person. One date at a time, and take it as it comes. Then you get to know the real person and form a real connection based on an actual relationship rather than the butterflies in your stomach. The butterflies don't last forever, and if you base a relationship on that, you'll always be looking for a new one once the illusion you created shatters and the human comes through.

    Thank you to you and Kori for the great advice.

    I appreciate it alot and I will try that.

    Were going out again tonight. I dunno, theres just this, click that we have that is unexplainable.


    I understand what your saying and will follow through.

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    Thanks for the great advice.

    Did you really expect serious advice from this group?

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    Damn You Commies T Park's Avatar
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    Did you really expect serious advice from this group?
    It happens once in a while, but my faith in humanity and its maturity extended foolishly to here apparently.

    I took yours into consideration as it seemed more mature and at least more givea than the others.

    Some were kidding I know, but some were just straight jackasses.

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    Iron Butted Warrior ORION's Avatar
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    It happens once in a while, but my faith in humanity and its maturity extended foolishly to here apparently.

    I took yours into consideration as it seemed more mature and at least more givea than the others.

    Some were kidding I know, but some were just straight jackasses.
    Its hard to give advice when we don't know the chick. Sometimes love blinds you and you over look some bad qualities. I say if you really like her let her know. If she gets scared and takes off them let her go. If she is as serious and feels the same way about you then she will stay.

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    If it means anything, a few years ago I got all geeked up over even having a really good conversation with women I found attractive -- much less having great dates with them. I was told by one who eventually felt I was a little too, um, enthusiastic at such an early stage, that I was coming off as more desperate than interested. Even if it didn't clearly reflect my own intentions, it was the perception -- and one that I'm sure was shared by other women I encountered at the time.

    I'm not saying this is true of you, TPark, by any means, but in my case, it took a 6-month relationship with one of those women (a Miss Right Now) and a realization that there's a significant difference between giddiness over a good time and happiness with a good partner. For the record, I'm not saying that's the case for you. But it was certainly the case for me, at a time when my self-esteem was largely in the crapper.

    With that said, I think from a guy's standpoint (and to be a bit callous about the whole thing), I think you have to evaluate the way you would an athlete. If a great young player that you know little about bursts on the scene with a monster game, your evaluation isn't to immediately ticket him for the Hall of Fame. It's to say that there are some good signs there and to look forward to seeing him play again to see if he continues to show those signs. But I don't think you, TPark, would make a player evaluation based on seeing him play one time. With that said, it sounds like you've seen this girl once and things went really well. There's promise there -- signs that things could go well -- but there probably isn't more than that. Think of her as the unheralded rookie who has been a pleasant surprise and enjoy yourself as you take the time to assess whether her first impression was a breakout game or sign of great things to come. The big thing, though, is to just have fun at this stage and to be yourself.

    I can assure you that you'll know the right woman when you find her.

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    If it means anything, a few years ago I got all geeked up over even having a really good conversation with women I found attractive -- much less having great dates with them. I was told by one who eventually felt I was a little too, um, enthusiastic at such an early stage, that I was coming off as more desperate than interested. Even if it didn't clearly reflect my own intentions, it was the perception -- and one that I'm sure was shared by other women I encountered at the time.

    I'm not saying this is true of you, TPark, by any means, but in my case, it took a 6-month relationship with one of those women (a Miss Right Now) and a realization that there's a significant difference between giddiness over a good time and happiness with a good partner. For the record, I'm not saying that's the case for you. But it was certainly the case for me, at a time when my self-esteem was largely in the crapper.

    With that said, I think from a guy's standpoint (and to be a bit callous about the whole thing), I think you have to evaluate the way you would an athlete. If a great young player that you know little about bursts on the scene with a monster game, your evaluation isn't to immediately ticket him for the Hall of Fame. It's to say that there are some good signs there and to look forward to seeing him play again to see if he continues to show those signs. But I don't think you, TPark, would make a player evaluation based on seeing him play one time. With that said, it sounds like you've seen this girl once and things went really well. There's promise there -- signs that things could go well -- but there probably isn't more than that. Think of her as the unheralded rookie who has been a pleasant surprise and enjoy yourself as you take the time to assess whether her first impression was a breakout game or sign of great things to come. The big thing, though, is to just have fun at this stage and to be yourself.

    I can assure you that you'll know the right woman when you find her.
    Basically...think of George Hill every time you see her.

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