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tell your wife.
This girl I used to work with about 4 years ago emailed me asking how things were going and left me her cell and work #. This girl was incredibly hot and nicest girl I ever met. We we were somewhat good friends at work but did not really hang out except for a few times outside of work. I haven't seen or talked to this girl since she quit 4 years ago. I emailed her back and she asked me to go with her to lunch. So I am going to go meet her for lunch but I am married and she knows this. I would feel rude not going to lunch with her because it is probably nothing, but I don't want to tell my wife that I am going to lunch with her because she has heard me talk about how pretty she was. I don't think I would ever do anything but this is one girl I would have trouble turning down if she tempted me. I am just puzzled this came out of nowhere and is probably like I said harmless I just don't know what to think or do.
tell your wife.
pics biatch....post it, b4 we can give you any advice.
Dont do it.........she is probably testing to see how far you will go and what you would do if she came onto you. Allot of women now adays like to have affairs......because they can keep the guy, yet not have a commitment......or they can break up you family to try and land you.
Me personally, I never, EVER go to lunch alone with a female. Its just trouble waiting to happen. If you do decide to eat lunch with her...........bring another male or a group would be even better. Good luck!!!!
If you can't tell you're wife, then it's not innocent.
The real question isn't what her intentions are for calling you but what your intentions are for accepting the meeting and meeting up with her. That's something you need to ask yourself.
she doesn't look the way she used to or she has a VD
its a trap man
ur wife has you ready on 'cheaters'.
I know it's gay but I agree. If she really does have the hots for you then just have her e-mail you nudes and post them on here.Me personally, I never, EVER go to lunch alone with a female. Its just trouble waiting to happen. If you do decide to eat lunch with her...........bring another male or a group would be even better. Good luck!!!!
I know myself and no girl would be worth messing up my family especially when things are going really well with my wife. If this had happend 2 to 3 years ago I would be wishing this is more than it probably is. Sorry I don't have any pics. Myspace and Facebook are blocked at my work so I can't check for pics. I was just curious if any other girls had done this or thought about this not necessarily with a married man but an old friend and what were your intentions. This is actually the second time this happened to me but last time it was with an old girlfriend and I knew her intentions and she was not nearly as hot. I told my wife that time and invited her to go along with me. Needless to say after I told my x girlfriend my wife was coming along too we never did meet up.
damn straight.
nothing good can can come of this.
Last edited by fatsack; 12-23-2008 at 01:41 PM.
I know it's gay but I agree. If she really does have the hots for you then just have her e-mail you nudes and post them on here.
This would actually be the best scenario if I had my choice.
It sounds like you like this gal, so if you go to lunch you need to tell the Mrs. about it beforehand. If you don't, it's like a cheating test-run.
look man
if you see her and premature ejaculate in ur jocks? thats also cheating.....check the odd news thread what happen to the wife when wanting to sniff the husbands jocks suspected of cheating......she got more than she bargain for...hahahahaha
Did you ask her what her intentions are? It's possible she only wants to chat and catch up. We girls like to do that sometimes, but men don't understand that. They always think we are fishing for something else, and when it's not delivered then we are teases and s!Either way, it sounds like you have already decided what it may be about and you know it's dangerous, so don't do it. But what you could do is invite her over to your house to visit with you and your wife. Her response will pretty much tell you what her intentions are.
Last edited by mrsmaalox; 12-23-2008 at 01:38 PM.
If she lets you perform the shocker on her after lunch...........she probably wants to hook up.
Did you ask her what her intentions are? It's possible she only wants to chat and catch up. We girls like to do that sometimes, but men don't understand that. They always think we are fishing for something else, and when it's not delivered then we are teases and s!
This is advice coming from a poster who advertises that she is a from her avitar and sig pics!!
mrose I say dont do it. Women are scandalous and her intentions dont sound like a "friend" thing especially since you said you never really hung out. Does she know your married?
she's probably having issues with her current boyfriend.
you're the emergency behind the glass,
but i wouldn't expect her to actually break the glass unless she's a woman scorned and looking for revenge...
she's probably after an attentive ear and a self-esteem boost.
good luck. don't let your wifey find out! wear a rubber dude!
You just never know.
I call BS. Yeah sure I think that people can be friends without having to bone but c'mon. If you know your husband is spending time with a hot piece of ass even if it's the occasional lunch it would get to you.We girls like to do that sometimes, but men don't understand that. They always think we are fishing for something else, and when it's not delivered then we are teases and s!
I say don't even put yourself in a position that could get you in trouble. If you have to ask if it's ok then it probably isn't.
But that wasn't the question! The question was about the girl's possible intentions. Sheesh.
Bigzax, you stole my thoughts. So I added some to yours....
she just wants a free lunch! so
Your heart is telling you not to do it, your is saying you better. By posting this thread we all know its your thats in charge. Like Hustle said if you have to ask then its prob not ok.
Even though I believe that her intentions could possibly be innocent, Bigzax and Twisted_Dawg are most likely correct. But even so, she may not necessarily have seduction on her mind, maybe just some attention for a little ego boost.
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