I am sure you don't want to be the one to help her stoop to his level.
Help her keep being the better person.
I am sure you don't want to be the one to help her stoop to his level.
Help her keep being the better person.
So I called this guy to set up an interview for our tax site...we posted the classified ad a second time and he sent it to us a second time.
"Can I please speak to Chris? This is Ashley from San Antonio ACORN...."
"Who? For What?"
"Ashley from ACORN we wanted to schedule you for an interview on Thursday for our site coordinator position...."
"Oh. yeah. *in nasty tone* So when are y'all going to be making a decision?"
"I don't know I'm just setting up the interview. I called you for an interview once and you didn't come."
"But you're the one calling me."
"Look Chris, I'm just scheduling the interview. Those are all great questions that you can discuss with my boss during the interview..."
"I's been up for a month...do you call anyone who sends a resume?"
"We had a site coordinator, but things fell through...look do you want to come in for an interview or not?"
"When?"
"Thursday between...blah blah blah blah blah."
"I already have a job offer that starts on the 19th so if you aren't going to make a decision by blah blah blah blah I won't come..."
"Okay. That's fine..."
under his breathe...idiot...
He's the who didn't come to the first interview and then sent the resume a second time. Oh my god! I wish someone would call me for a second "first" interview. He can go to ing with jman for all I care.
I would have called him back and told him you guys have no intention of hiring him. I would have said by law, we have to interview ' s to.
wth? she should divorce his sorry ass... the only reason she hasnt is because he's away right now. getting married @ 19 is probably a bad choice about 85% of the time.
But that's not your problem now is it? Quit thinking with your and just butt the out! She's using you.
that's always true 85% of the time.
She's in control of her own actions. If she's actively propositioning jman, she's already stooped.
and 60% of the time it works every time.
The marriage isn't his problem either. If he chooses to continue this, then it isn't wrong, IMO. Once the guilt passes, and it will, it's a free for all.
See how that works?
Was that after the hooligans GTG or the wing place?
We are ALL in control of our actions. Messing with a woman who has a man over in Iraq is not a smart decision. Not using the big head to do the thinking for the little head will make this a easy decision for J.
Unless we're talking love, does he love her?
My last post didn't make much sense, eh?
Continuing the relationship, at whatever level, with a married chica is no different than any other broad. It's all feel and I'd advise you to follow your gut.
I've had a touch of experience in this area of expertise.
that's what i meant.
Jman's in control of jman's actions, though, not hers.
I get annoyed by the suggestion that women can't make their own mistakes, as in the post that inspired my response.
This 19 year old better not be 17 and this guy who is in Iraq better not really be at Ft. Sm and this girl better not be my sister who just got married three weeks ago.
I say no. My wife and I met while she was still married. I didn't try anything until they were legally separated. He thinks she cheated on him but I know better. I kept it safe and cool and never crossed the line. They weren't even living together when we met. She was at her mom's.
I thought you didn't want her to be married. He's helping out.
I don't want her to be married, but the fact is, she is married and that's just not cool to do..what he's doing.
Tell your sister not to be sleeping around then. She threw it at me but I turned it down. I knew you wouldn't approve.
Much better.
no doubt...
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