Fine, I'm a wrist-slitting emo over this. I should just completely shrug it off. Thanks for the advice.
ok, i get it. you care more for her than she does for you.
look, i think it's possible that she doesn't have any serious feelings for anybody, and doesn't actually acknowledge anyone's feelings. it may not even occur to her that she might be hurting someone's feelings.
Strongly agree. Communication -- preferably in meatspace -- is key if you want a solution, findog.
It sounds like there's a crucial difference in the expectations each of you have, that could point to a problem of suitability.
If so, the smart thing to do might be to walk away. There's plenty of fish in the sea, even -- no, especially! -- for wrist slitting emo s.
Sounds like she sees you as just a friend...I think it is time to move on unless you are willing to just be friends with her also...
I've got the same problem.... !!
Then don't act like one. Asking her out on a date after she's telling you about the difficulties of accessing some other dude's cack with a cast on? For real?
Walk away if you're looking for something other than an occasional post-midnight hookup. This girly could give two s about you.
Basically she's telling you that you've been kicked to the curb. Happens to all of us.
Apparently you are.
And be sure to let us now how the other's guy tastes after your goodnight kiss.
I once got a bj from a married women at a party and not 5 minutes later I saw her kissing on her husband. Thats pretty gross. Noway she had a chance to brush her teeth.
This is pretty much the response I was looking for. Thanks.
move on to the next catch....you cant make a ho a housewife....so stop trying to get married and just keep banging em out!!!!
seems a little silly.
1. Your questions to her lead the the handjob disclosure. If you don't want her to tell, don't ask.
2. All this over one unreturned phonecall over Christmas? It is possible that she had a ton of stuff going on - it was Christmas after all - and missed/forgot it.
3. Ask her if she ever thought about something more serious. You'll find out where you stand pretty quickly and then can move on, one way or the other.
4. We're all s to a certain degree.
Good luck, man. Either way this turns out, you come out ahead. Worst case: you got to spend some quality time with somebody you enjoyed being around.
wow. now that's a straight up .
Chances are you accidentally landed in her friend zone. Not sure where you went wrong but perhaps she was looking for something more during this exchange:
That sounded like she may have wanted something more concrete than your general answer. But whatever, can't really blame yourself for getting friend zoned.I go home after last call and get a text at 4 in the morning from her: "It was so good to see you again! Now that we're neighbours we need to get together soon..." So I texted back something like "yeah, that sounds good. Good to see you too..."
However, there's a small chance you aren't in the friend zone and her latest move is an attempt to make you jealous. It's a ty way to go at it but it's a classic move. She might be hoping that listening to her exploits jolts whatever emotions you have for her to the surface.
Either way, if you are still interested, you should act fast. Either you can verify your friend zone membership or she'll be happy that her plan to make you jealous worked. If you wait she will know without a doubt to move on and really start loosening up that arm. . .
yeah, right. then you can find out how she s with your head over other topics.
Yeah, I thought I made it explicitly clear we were on the same page. I mean, it was 4 am and it wasn't a booty call bc she was spending the night with a friend. I figured there was plenty of time to get together in the near future and I called her a few days later on Christmas Eve. It's not like I was dragging my feet.
Yeah, I have to hurry up and or get off the pot.However, there's a small chance you aren't in the friend zone and her latest move is an attempt to make you jealous. It's a ty way to go at it but it's a classic move. She might be hoping that listening to her exploits jolts whatever emotions you have for her to the surface.
Either way, if you are still interested, you should act fast. Either you can verify your friend zone membership or she'll be happy that her plan to make you jealous worked. If you wait she will know without a doubt to move on and really start loosening up that arm. . .
Don't agree that you can assume the last part. It's certainly possible that she doesn't care about him. Maybe even probable. But not automatic.
Shocking as it may be, us girls sometimes have a fear of appearing too vulnerable or fragile. Especially with the stigma of being emotional wrecks to worry about. If her suggestion to get together was meant to fish for a specific response and she didn't get it, maybe she's worried about appearing too clingy or too needy by going any farther?
I've got a friend who is locked in a tremendous batch of dysfunctional goodness for exactly that reason -- she's head over heels for him, has convinced herself he doesn't feel the same way, so instead brags to him about her sex life as thoroughly and as often as she can.
Actually, the more I think about it, Cucking and timvp have fished the needle out of the haystack. My reply back via text was really brief, like "yeah that sounds good." I didn't think there was any ambiguity and we were on the same page but it looks like there was. So I'm guessing my text back came across as lukewarm.
And I guess it just makes me look old-fashioned to say that if you want to court someone, you should try to do it in person. At least sometimes.
I think you should whistle for a cab and head towards Bel-Air.
I have a piece of cheap-ass factory phone. I don't generally text, so I don't know the etiquette of it.
I bet the next time she will tell you how she went ass to mouth.
You should try the popcorn trick
Touche', Fin.
I don't think the popcorn trick is necessary if they've already slept together.You should try the popcorn trick
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