thanks for all the advcie and some of that was not too far off. I would love for her to get to move back in with her parents but there in idaho so thats not going to happen.
we have both been wrong in this i dont help around the house enough and she dosent ever wanna have the date night we had a long talk about it last night and are going to do the church counsleing i called them this morring
thankyou all
well most of you lol
and if we do end up divorced i am going to throw a divorce party at one of the strip clubs in town your all invited
Yo man......dont puss out!
See in my house I run thangs........my wife cant say as to what I do, I run the show. I do what I want when I want and she better not even say anything!!! And further more! ............Oh , here she comes man.....gotta go!
you should probably skip the divorce party at a strip club and take your kids to chuck e cheese instead. just a thought.
Blasphemy.
Both can be done on the same day.
i feel chastened for my lack of foresight.
chucky chees is this weekend it's the boy's birthday he will be 3
well is birthday is friday the 13th but i have to work that weekend
Marriage is a two-way street and it can be very hard to make it work. All I can say is ask yourself if you are still in love with her. You may still love her but are you IN love with her still?
I wish you all the best and I can totally understand where you are coming from when it comes to your kids.
i was thaniking about ordering her a vermont tebby bear for v-day has anyone done that
I have to work one weekend a month and that is the one for feb. and theres no way out weekends are blacked out
but i dont want something to be sent to the house for her and flowers are played out
Maybe you all need to go out on a date and talk. Communication is the key. You can't deal with the issues if you don't talk about them.
That's a GREAT idea for a more personal Valentine's Day. I got one a couple of years ago and just loved it.
Are those Vefmont Teddy Bears expensive?
I must have missed the memo.
theres no thanking behind flowers. So i was trying to come up with something a little more out side the box
Tupperware???
then instead of buying her crap that will get thrown in the back of the closet in a couple of days, how bout cooking her dinner......or if you have to buy her something, get her a massage gift certificate and you watch the kids while she goes.
My wife would much rather go to the massage place than get flowers or bears or any other crap that comes with V-day.
cant do the dinner am working that day as i said before
how come you haven't went and picked her up some ice cream? try it and come back and post.
don't wait for a in holiday to do something, that's expected. dude, you're going to have to be gay because u don't get it.
either you are dense or you are just looking for an excuse to get out.
enjoy the single life.
Is your wife sentimental? Do have any keepsakes from your dating days or that have a special meaning for the both of you? Create your own gift basket and put some real thought into it. Include her favorites, and you'd better know what they are, items that she enjoys. Be it beauty products, snacks, books, perfumes and include some nice personal love notes about maybe a great evening you all had or a nice picture of the two of you during better times. Something that you've put some time and effort in could work wonders and show her how sincere you are about your marriage. Good luck.
everyday since i started posting on here i have brought home little thing for her. until last night at about 830 last night i got a call from the wife shr had let my 2 year old son play with a glass candal, my daughter who is 4 wanted said candal the fought over it and the candal broke my daughter the fell into the candal and i came home early and took her to get stiches (becuse the wife would let a family meber or freinds watch the kids) now i got home at 300am from the er so i put the kid to bed and slept on the couch. This morning i asked nikki (the wife) what happened she told me and i then asked why they were playing with it she said becuse when she told them no the cryed. So I then told her she has to be more firm with them at that point she blow up and said she has been thanking about it and can't forgive me for the last 6 years and will not go to counsleing and is filing for divorce. she already has a lawyer.
also she takes care of her best friends kids and this 's oldes daughter is 4 and she asked my when Madison (my daughter) is getting a new daddy this was before the wife told me she dident wanna work on things
Sorry to hear that. Glad your daughter is all right, though.
If she has a lawyer, you need one. Get yourself to family court and make sure you get a fair custody agreement.
Sounds like she wants out. I truly wish you all the best with your children. I can't even imagine what you must be feeling right now.
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