if you say so.
Right on the money. She could have already broken up with his ass but hasn't gone through the trouble to remove him. OR maybe she just doesn't want to appear to be some single looser without a boyfriend, or maybe she is with him but since he's across the country, well you guys know the rules about cheating when you're in another state...
ask her about her facebook status, the whole boyfriend thing.
if she says she has a boyfriend and wants you anyway, then you know you can never have a serious relationship with a backstabbing like that.
Thats the ing problem. i want to go to see a movie with her and then actually get to know her or something, because we barely have time to talk during class or after. But if she be cheating on him, its gonna happen with me.
WASTE OF TIME AND MONEY
If you take her to the movies, you know what to doPopcorn trick.
she wants ! plain and simple...
i'm the same way as you bro... i don't look to anyones relationship up but on the flip side i have seen it happen to me first hand with the hot es i have dated who end up cheating on me and trying to act like i pushed them to that point when in reality they are just s i shouldn't had stayed with and just hit it and run instead.
do yourself a favor and hit that and be done with it.
ps: don't waste your money either!
yes, I say so.
what are you, like 18 or 19?
you honestly think this chick took one look at you and thought "damn, what a sexy beast"?
Maybe she looked at you and thought "is he gay? I could use a gay-boy friend.......I know, I'll send him a facebook request with my boyfriend on the front.......if he answers back, then I'll know for sure.
Yep. So you need to ASK HER what the deal is. Why do a lot guys always end up complaining about women and "mind games", but never feel like they should ask a direct question that might clear things up?
this can't be for real.....
somebody is trolling around
what are you, like 18 or 19?
you honestly think this chick took one look at you and thought "damn, what a sexy beast"?
Maybe she looked at you and thought "is he gay? I could use a gay-boy friend.......I know, I'll send him a facebook request with my boyfriend on the front.......if he answers back, then I'll know for sure.
19.. Possibly, I have modeled before. So that is a possibility, but its mostly not. I need to know what her deal is though.
Sounds like a stalker to me. She stares at you,looks up ur name on a attendance sheet, searches for you on the internet,leaves you messages before she even says hi to you or introduces herself and has a boyfriend. Ding,ding,ding you have crazy stalking you.Move on before she bites ur off.
I 100 percent agree.
this can't be for real.....
somebody is trolling around
Well I asked her if she was in my classes because I couldnt remember where she was from. Then she replied and yadiyada.
I can't believe you guys haven't jumped on this!
1.) Don't EVER put the pussy on a pedistal.
2.) If you are worried about her cheating before you even make a move, then maybe this isn't something that should be viewed as long term from the beginning. Why would you even consider it long term when her profile pic has some guy on it? Obviously, if she's into seeking something else, and she hasn't informed her distant man, then she has communication issues.
3.) Stop being scared to initiate something. She initiated this with you, REMEMBER? What is the worst that could happen? Um, yeah, we're just friends. She might just turn out to be one of those women who are just really touchy feely friends. Yes, there are women out there like that.
4.) There are alot of women on the average college campus, this is just one. I'm sure there are alot more, and out of those, there has to be more than one who looks better than this one. You are in college, why would you want to tie yourself down in a literal hot spot for women? W/e works for you, if that's what you want.
5.) Asking the right questions can get you far, FAST. Most often being a little subtle, but straight forward is just what the doctor ordered.
6.) Get some confidence young man. Acquire some dialed down swagger. You know, the quiet confidence. I'm not referring to being an asshole. You shouldn't have to go online to ask Q's about women, but I guess you have to start somewhere. Good luck bro.
That's my two cents. (Emphasis on 1, 5, and 6.)
I can't believe you guys haven't jumped on this!
Why is that a big deal?
It's not a big deal to me. But you haven't noticed how every thread takes the "you're gay" turn?
Thanks for the advice. Well I just transferred this second semester, and I have to commute. So I doubt I will be making that many friends or meeting that many girls this semester.
Funt's universal SpursTalk love advice:
A) Ask her/him what the situation is, rather than a bunch of strangers on a message board.
B) If you attempt to figure out someone's intentions in any manner that doesn't include direct communication, you have no right to accuse the other party of a mind .
C) Adherence to points A and B does not guarantee success, but failure to do so will almost certainly lead to frustration and confusion.
Yes, but its stupid to think that it is gay.
Ask her is she has a penis. If she replies "No", then ask why she wants to hang around with you because you saw that she has a boyfriend. If she tells you it's because she just wants to be friends, tell her you can't unless she's willing to blow you at least once a day, because otherwise it would make you feel like her "gay friend". Taking that into account, are you sure you're not becoming her "gay friend"? If she replies "Yes" to having a penis.....you're on your own.
+1 million Ask the girl herself dude. WTF.
This is true. But it's never stopped anyone before!
Sounds like she wants a buddy.
Don't ask questions, just roll with it.
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