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I've never cheated on any woman and would never even think about it.
Lotta liars in this thread...
I've never cheated on any woman and would never even think about it.
if you dont believe in ur woman, buy a fkn padlock and lockd that up
doesnt matter how you try to protect ur women, some clown will always try to get into it....
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Until I cheat my self-righteous ass can ride on my high horse and it is only dangerous if you don't know how to ride it. Take your marriage by the reins and take control!!
In my life experience it is never just a One time up. I've never known a person, man or woman, to cheat only once and then never again. Infidelity in a relationship is usually rooted to a deeper problem than just "I was horny and it was there." I'm not saying it never happens but it is definitely the exception to the rule. The old cliché "Once a cheater, always a cheater" usually rings true.
If dude cheated once and got away with it, he'll probably do it again regardless of any personal guilt he feels.
If by that you are wondering if I am a cheater- no I have never cheated . But you never know where life will take you and acting as if it could never tempt you is dangerous and causes people to let down their guard. People who think they have perfect marriages are usually the most shocked when the cheating fairy arrives at their door.interesting
If you are not "shocked" when you find out your spouse is cheating your relationship/marriage was probably already on the rocks. If you are not interested in cheating on your spouse then your guard doesn't need to be up. I go to lunch with the ladies at work all the time and I don't have my guard up because the thought simply is not there. And yes, I do work with some MILF's but that is where it stops. I've even gone on business trips with a few of them. No damage done. Faithful marriages do exist out there.
There are plenty of people who do right by their marriages and still get cheated on. Guess I know too many supposedly religious people who claimed they were immuned but who ended up cheating on their unsuspecting spouses.
wasn't wondering nothing i generally thought it was an interesting post.... gosh guilt! haha nah..But true.. never say never ...sure u can think it... but never say it.
Nope, never been a cheater, that's just not my style. I'm faithful to my husband because we exchanged vows and I love him dearly. Even after 4 yrs of marriage, I love him more every single day.
I'd like to thank my EX-Drew for cheating on me, I wouldn't have had the opportunity to meet my husband.
Its not a false sense of security if the guy isn't a chronic cheater. If he ed up and never does it again she has the next 40 years to be justifiably right in trusting him and has all the security in the world. One up shouldn't cons ute a behavioral pattern.
I've known a few people to cheat once and never cheat again. Sometimes people do it without realizing the amount of guilt involved after the action.
Self control =
Yea, Oprah is beyond reproach.This is on Oprah all the time.A cheater only confesses to make himself feel better, not for the sake of the spouse. Keep it to yourself and keep your pants zipped next time.
Um, how many successful marriages has The Queen Diva of Daytime TV had?
That is a correct statement. Being cheated on is not the same as cheating though. I cannot control my wife from cheating other than being the best husband I can be and not give her reason to cheat. We've talked about this and I told her that if she feels she needs to cheat then just tell me before hand so we can either work things out before she goes that far or just end it before it happens.
But we are such great friends and talk every single day that I would hope we'd both be upfront about it. I'm just glad that I'm so damn fantastic in bed I don't worry about it.
Did any of you guys ever see the show called "The Mind of A Married Man" on HBO?
Well, there was this one episode where Mike Bender's character is confronted by his boss about his shennanigans with the secretary, Misty (who was very hot, by the way).
The boss doesn't ask him if he's cheating on his wife. Instead, he tells him something very unexpected.
He tells him that if he's cheated on his wife, or if indeed he's planning to do it, that he should never tell his wife. He tells him that he cheated once and that he confessed to his wife only to see her crushed by it. He said that from that moment on, she was a different person. He said that he regretted doing it.
Anyway, he may or may not have had a point.
Easy, cowboy. I was just trying to be funny. But seriously, every marriage counselor I've ever heard talk about this says that a cheater only confesses to make himself feel better. It's not good for the marriage. Whether having a cheating a spouse means your marriage isn't worth saving in the first place is a completely different subject.
So some fictional character on HBO is beyond reproach?
I can buy into that. Knowing about cheating is NEVER a good thing and to say knowing is not good for the marriage is a no-brainer and I don't need no PHD to tell me that.
I never said that those who confess do not have an alterior motive.
All I said, is that some may feel that the other person may have a right to know, regardless as to what damage it may cause.
I do think, however, that Oprah is full of .
Not the character, but what his character said.So some fictional character on HBO is beyond reproach?
I always found what he said interesting.
I was
I was making fun of you because you mentioned Oprah.I was
That bloated is the Rush Limbaugh of daytime t.v.
Except that she's not evil. Besides, it wasn't her advice.
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