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Sucks, bro. Happened to me before. Just go for it. What's the worst that could happen?
I've been talking to this girl on facebook (we know each other in real life, she lives in San Antonio and I in Corpus) on and off for the past couple of months.
A couple of months ago we saw each other at church and I hadn't seen her in years since she moved, so I went up and told her o since we had been friends on facebook before that. Well it was kind of awkward because she was really quiet and just kept smiling the whole time and I gave her a hug and told her it was good to see her, blah blah blah. Ok well after that, she starts messaging me on facebook.
She starts off by telling me "you looked good lol" and is, what I deemed, fairly flirty. So I think, "Wow what if she's into me". She's really attractive so I was fine with that idea. She infers several other things and makes me think that she's into me. I get interested and start messaging her too. This has been going on for a while.
Well today she messages me and we start talking and stuff. I mention to her that I'm going to San Antonio this weekend. She tells me to give her a call and I said "Well, I think I would have to have your number to do that haha". So she gives me her number, I text her and give her mine. Great, I'm going to call her this weekend and meet up with her and see how things go. WRONG.
A couple of minutes later, we are talking about her sister's wedding. She asks me if me and my family are going and I said yes (we have known her and her family for 10+ years). I asked her if she was excited and she goes "yeah i am. my bf is too". I was thinking "Ok...hopefully she means best friend but I doubt it". I casually go "Why is your boyfriend excited haha". And she responds "IDK he just is".
WTF?!?! Why would she be messaging me and being flirty (at least to my perception), give me her number, want to hang out...if she has a boyfriend?? That really pissed me off and now I'm in a bad mood because like this always happens.
Sucks, bro. Happened to me before. Just go for it. What's the worst that could happen?
maybe she's looking for a way out?
girls are strange creatures my friend :P (we are too anyway, but its about girls now) :P
Sounds like she knew you would run into her and her BF at the wedding and she needed a way to slip that BF info into the conversation-- like he is really excited about a wedding!
Honestly. You should just be straight up with her and tell her that you didn't know she had a boyfriend, but you have absolutely no interest in her other than romantic. Maybe she'll break up or cheat on him. What do you have to lose?
Some people just really like to recieve attention. She probably liked the idea that you liked her and was flirting with her. Maybe her boyfriend isn't paying her enough attention/spending enough time with her.
However, if she mentioned that she has a bf to you and didn't say that things weree going downhill with him, I don't think that you should persue it.
She is just looking for some kind of attention/validation.
Girls like this just get by on looks and game. She likes to play with things when she's bored in other words.
I've gone for girls that have had boyfriends before, knowing that they had boyfriends and stuff, and it's always ended really bad for me. I've never won one over, that's why that was an instant turnoff. Just more frustration and nothing good ever comes out of it, at least for me. I know for some guys they can still get the taken girls. Not me.
And ploto, you are probably right. But it came right after she gave me her number...she was the one who told me to call her which gave me the opporutnity to ask for her number. So I mean why would she even do that?!? IDK WTF.
yeah that sucks. i don't believe that if you're with a woman she shouldn't have guy friends or anything like that. at least throw that out there so we know what angle to use or even if we want to bother with the whole situation.
It's been a couple of months since she was flirty about the church incident, right? Perfectly reasonable that she would have gotten a boyfriend since then. How flirty has she been with you in the past, say, week?
wow. you jumped on my case for telling you that.
Maybe she was just being nice and you misinterpreted it.
Really she was probably just having fun and playing with you. As long as you were out of town, you were safe and she could keep having her fun. Just stay away and she'll fine someone else to play her game with.
Not very. We hadn't talked in about a week actually. The church thing was, I want to say early February. So that's almost 2 months. You're right, she could have but even then, why would she keep talking to me? She messages me more than I have messaged her.
sound advice
She was doing a heat check.
A. Girls love attention and affection from any male period
b. Girls love the excitement of being able to talk to someone flirtaciously without their significant other knowing
c. Its not cheating if its in another area code!!!
d. Just bang her and get it over with.
you have a transcript of these messages? ask her bf what he thinks about it at the wedding...
I picked up this absolute Grade A hottie while I was in college at a bar...she was out with some of her friends...we ended up back at her place and spent the night making out...didn't go all the way but got each other off several times...
About 5am she looks at the clock, jumps up, and says " , you gotta get out of here...my parents will be here in 30 minutes!"...
I was like..."uhhh...what the heck are your parents doing showing up at your house at 6am on a Saturday?"
She said "Well, I'm getting married at 10 and moms gonna help me get dressed...."
Maybe she likes you still. It's not like she's married. But at the same time it's not like she's going to avoid dating other guys in favor of a Facebook buddy.
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if she doesn't respect her boyfriend then see if you can make it happen.
I didn't jump on your case bro.
Just saying if this girl is like he says, and depending on the time frame from the church meeting to the I got a bf comment, she is running game. And it's probably just natural, she doesn't even know it's game. To me anyway.
I slept with the love of my the night of her batchlorette party
the question is, how did you feel when she told you that?
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