I hate abuse towards woman. I hate husbands who come home and beat their wives senselessly drunk or whatever. They are the s of the earth.
On the other hand, i despise to a much lesser degree, women who take advantage of a double standard in society and use it to humiliate men.
The lesson here is, treat a lady like a lady, and give her no reason to provoke foolishness. And to the ladies, act like ladies.
Now, if the guy was gonna beat the lady senseless, then you go in there and beat the guy. But there comes a point where manly men like Cosmic Cowboy will have to drop this mid 20th century notion that women should never be hit under any cir stances, much also sissy cukold s like JoeChalupa, that if a female were to ever wield an object that could end your life. You'd know these classy gents would throw all those rules out the window.
A guy beating his wife senselessly and this situation are not the same.
Also, my advice to anyone, is that if you're in a relationship and the person is abusive, LEAVE.