Thank you- that is what I was wondering. How does someone have $2000 left over in GRANT money to spend on whatever he wants after paying for school, tuition, fees, and books? It should not be for new clothes, i-Pods, cell phones... The fact that he admitted it is really because the GF moved in is the breaking point for me. Many a college student has slept on an old twin bed. He does not NEED a new queen sized bed for college.
I get annoyed because I have seen students not buy textbooks with their money and instead buy crap. I think that all grant money should be sent to the school and only to the school- it should go directly for tuition, books and supplies at the book store, and room and board on campus. If you want more than that, get a job to pay for your new furniture or whatever else. I know there was a time when they did not just cash your check and hand you the money to do with whatever you pleased. He should at least have to pay taxes on the money if he bought furniture with it.