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i think you need to call this guy
he has the answers
So here's the deal. My wife moved out of my place April 8th. I told her I wanted a divorce because of infidelity on her part. Since the day she moved out, she has called and texted me every day telling me how much she wants me back, how much she still loves me, etc. Most of the time, I just ignore the texts. When I ignore her, she starts to get paranoid and asks me if I'm seeing someone. Then it goes into full on accusations of me "cheating" on her. For the record, I'm not seeing anyone. I haven't seen anyone since she moved out. I never cheated, never screwed around, whatever. So her accusations are completely baseless. When I finally text her back, everything's back to normal. An interesting recurring thing we kind of have. I would just change my number but she'll call my parents' house looking for me, causing me more drama than I care to deal with. So I just let her text me endlessly and tune it out.
Of all the many things she continuously tells me, one is that she doesn't want "the guy" with whom she cheated. Says it nearly every day. Well, I got home from work this morning and hadn't received any texts. I usually do before I get home. Didn't think anything of it. As the day progressed, still nothing. Started to notice the oddity of my silent phone. So I popped off a text around 3:30 simply saying "u ok?" She replied and asked to see me when she "gets back". Hmm, that's weird. She never goes anywhere. I inquired, she ignored. I continued to inquire, she continued to ignore. I called her phone. Straight to voicemail.
Ok. She's now avoiding me. She never avoids me. EXCEPT when she's with "the guy". Now I know what she's doing. Keep in mind, I no longer care if she sees "the guy". I no longer want her so as far as I'm concerned, she's free to do what she wishes. I'd just like her to act like an adult and just tell me straight up. After nearly 10 years of marriage, I don't think I'm asking for something unreasonable. And the fact that she repeatedly accuses me of having an affair annoys me a bit since she's obviously being just a tad hypocritical.
So, as far as I see it, I'm free to see other women since she's back to/still seeing "the guy". She wouldn't be able to say peep about since hasn't a leg to stand on. I know she'll get mad if I start dating but I really don't care. As long as she's doing what she's doing, I'm free to do the same.
Am I wrong here?
i think you need to call this guy
he has the answers
Who the is that?i think you need to call this guy
he has the answers
Ah. No need. I already know she cheated. That's why I asked for the divorce and for her to move out. Little late for that dude.
Still doesn't answer my question, by the way.
no i only got into cheaters recently, watching that alone in my bedroom saturday at 12:30 pm makes me smile a little bit, before the darkness sets in, then i cry
She was a ho.......fo sho!
First of all, you need to go to Mexico and check out the donkey show. After you get back home, sit on the couch and watch the entire Back to the Future trilogy. Next, go to Taco Bell and grab a couple beef and potato burritos.
Problem solved. It's just that simple.
FTP.
that puta! You're doing nothing wrong as far as I can see brah.
I only have a B.A is psychology but i am working on a Masters and PHd, but here is how i see it. I think you are either afraid of your wife or still have some feeling toward her, that is why you have not gone out even after you know she is cheating, you are looking for a few people to validate your view online, so you dont feel alone when you make your choice to date other women. If you are really 31, thats means you got married at 21, marriages at that young of an age, that are not arranged, fail more often then the 50% rate failure rate of all marriages in America. If you truly have no feelings toward your wife anymore, then start with a legal separation and proceed with a divorce ask fast as you can. Also are there kids involved? Pre-nup? Use her infidelity against her in court, with proof, and you might have a better chance at not losing half of your things.
Don't you need your masters before you work on a phd?
no you can go from A BA to a 5 year PHD program if you are accepted, Right now i am not in school, im in between doing GRE and other stuff, if i cant get in to a good PHD school, then i can go the MA route then 2 year PHD. thats why i dont know if my next degree is gonna be a MA, or a straight PHD, but all of this is years away.
Then you aren't working on a masters or a phd. You lied. Liar.
I never claimed i was in taking classes, but i believe taking the necessary exams, and etc is in fact working towards my one day goal of a PhD. If you dont consider that work, i would ask you to try it, getting a good recommendation letter is harder that being the only virgin in a Sex Psychology and day of the week.
Sooooooooo........if you wanna be a big ass shrink how come you're le is: "I Hate you"???
Are you going to end up paying alimony?
If so, it's in your best interest that she continues seeing the guy and you continue seeing no one. It will look better for you in court because the marriage dissolving will be her doing.
Oh and as for your question... I don't think you are "wrong" but you have to really stop caring if she's still seeing the guy or not. After she said texted about when she "gets back", you should have just left it alone instead of trying to continue contacting her.
Sooooooooo........if you wanna be a big ass shrink how come you're le is: "I Hate you"???
i am playing the role of a bad boy so i can get chicks
+1
The fact that you continued to inquire is suspect to me. No reason to text her if she had not text you (if you truly want nothing to do with her) and even less to keep inquiring further after she gave you an obscure answer.
Strike, if you live in Texas and have no kids go for it Brah. Screw her Mamma, her sister, whomever. She's still going to get 1/2 of what ever you aquired together in the last ten years, debts included!!! If you do have kids, Keep your "Johnny Joe" clean, cuz if she gets custody, she'll run you over!
Oh thanks...............that's how I pick my shrink!!!
Wwojd?
haha... i smashed taht to b!
Is it true that she'll automatically get half? I don't think so if she's the one who cheated and he didn't.Strike, if you live in Texas and have no kids go for it Brah. Screw her Mamma, her sister, whomever. She's still going to get 1/2 of what ever you aquired together in the last ten years, debts included!!! If you do have kids, Keep your "Johnny Joe" clean, cuz if she gets custody, she'll run you over!
Oh thanks...............that's how I pick my shrink!!!
It is if they live in Texas!!! Community property, no fault, state, if they have no kiddos!!!
Hmm.. I know someone else here who the husband got everything because the wife cheated.
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