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her in the butt throw her over the bridge
Ok so there is this girl I that I like. The only problem is that her older brother is one of my best friends. I have known her for years, but we were/are more of acquaintances. I am in a rough spot because even if I want to ask this girl to hang out, how will I do it? They are roommates. The few times I have been to their place, I am hanging out with her brother. It will be awkward to ask her out right in front of him because it will be unexpected and it could make our friendship awkward regardless of her answer.
Now I don't know what she will say. I don't even know if she is seeing anybody else. Her response is one thing. It is just the risk I am taking here (my friendship with her brother) that worries me more than anything else.
Now I am NOT in love with this girl or anything like that. she could turn me down for whatever reason and I will move on from it rather quickly. Thing is I am interested in her (I kind of have been over the years) and I feel I owe it to myself if to know if this could go in my favor or not.
What would you suggest I do? Say it and ask her in person whether her brother is present or not. Or do I not take this chance due to what the consequences might be?
her in the butt throw her over the bridge
hoes b4 bros
@ the responses so far. Im being serious here.
Brah how old are you? You can't ask here to come to your place to kick it?
Talk to your friend??
Im 25 and yes I do have my own apartment. I dont have her number. That's why that option is eliminated.
Get it from her brother (killing 2 birds with one stone here)? myspace?
is back2basics online right now?
Brah I halfway expected you to start this thread, Ms. Spurstalk is My Myspace Bulletin.
She doesnt have myspace or facebook. I remember her telling me that.Good try though.
Rock and a hard place dude. You like the girlie but the brother is a friend. I'd tell him straight up that you're interested in her and gauge his reaction. Get that awkwardness out of the way. Take it from there.
Dude, more than likely it will have some I'll effect with your friendship, chances are you've been out chasing tail with this dude and maybe even gangbanging a chick or two in the process. He will remember these times and not be too happy about you wanting to bang his sister. There are plenty of hoes in the sea, if you've known her for that long you would have already known by now if she is interested in you. So I say pass.
Add he on myspace or facebook or whatever and ask her for her number.
You should do it cause if you don't then you might regret it later. Find out what she likes and take her to a place or event that interests her but don't seem desperate or nervous. Be calm and nice about it. You can do it. Believe in yourself.
Is she hot?
if you guys are all in the same age range and you're going to a club or something, simply say me and johnny(her brother of course don't know his name) are going to so and so "are you going to come with us?"
she agrees sees if you're fun/funny and then take it from there.
best scenario: if things go well ya'll will get friendlier when you go to their apartment
will progress naturally and her brother will notice if they're close enough they'll talk about it and you're in the clear.
but honestly i really don't know...
ok ignore them. Here is what you do. Call your friend Chet or D'Andre or Florencio or whatever his name is and tell him to meet you at some bar on the other side of town. Tell him that the first round is on you. Then wait outside his place until he leaves.
Then go knock on the door and when she opens ask if he is there. When she says no ask her if you could kick it there for a few minutes to see if he comes back.
Then start watching the real world or rock of love or whatever you s watch and say to her "You know what would be cool? If you slobbered all over this" then you pull out yer pinger. If her head drops to your crotch you are in if she says no thank you then you are getting your ass kicked by big bro. Either way it's win win.
Last edited by I. Hustle; 08-05-2009 at 09:33 AM.
If you have to ask for help then it's obvious she doesn't like you like that so ask her about her friends.
But do this first then report.
That's brilliant advice.
look dude love is complicated. The heart wants what it wants. The best advice I could give someone in your position is this. Put her hand down your pants and if she moves her hand around as if she was looking for something and laughs you have no chance. If she squeezes your junk then you are in. Try not to do this when her brother is there.
Try either one of the scenarios I threw out there and then post in here to let us how it went.
ask the guy 1st. just explain...make sure to explain you will be fine if she says no...so that way after your friend will not think you will be always hounding her is she says no. If he says it's cool... then go for it and hope she says yes too. If not she will feel weird ..but i'm sure she will get over it after a while. Your friend will really appreciate you asked him 1st.
or...
As a girl with four brothers (three of which are older), I'd say it's wise to ask the friend first if he's okay with it.
Interesting advice coming from the resident pimp.
I say all is fair just don't bone in their place. Especially if she's a screamer. More than likely though she doesn't want to touch your penis.
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