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The hotel thing is VERY odd; how the are they gonna do sleeping arrangements? Very, very odd IMO.
My sister has two teenage daughters. 14 and 12. She is really involved in her 14 year olds 'boyfriend' life. She texts the boy her daughter is interested in and visa versa. According to her, which I believe, nothing inappropriate. I believe her. Well, this weekend, she is taking her daughters to a soccer tourny in out of town. They are going to have to stay in a hotel. She is bringing the 'boyfriend' with them, and they are all going to share a room. She says that she is the adult chaperone, and nothing inappropriate will happen....
I happen to think the whole situation is INAPPROPRIATE. I don't care if it's harmless or not, I think a 40 year old woman has no business texting a 14 year old boy... 2. I won't even start on the hotel thing....
My question is this.... am I wrong?? Is this ok? I need some serious feedback so I can approach her.
The hotel thing is VERY odd; how the are they gonna do sleeping arrangements? Very, very odd IMO.
yeah i dont really get inviting him on a trip
the whole point of having a teenage daughter is you can stop her from being a , not put her on the road to teenage motherhood
either way this dude probably thinks hes the return of the mack
I agree with you, Paki. Even if nothing flirtatious is happening between them, I think it's inappropriate.
Where's this lil' dude's parents? Other family? No way any of my nephews would be be texting 40 year old women, let alone sleeping in the same room after the texting trist.
What the is wrong with people?
Thanks guys... I'm going to show this to her... Which will probably result in WWIII.. Hope she realizes its cause I love her.
thats hot,
for real though, you should leave her alone, she is not going to take your advice.
sure you did
What is the context of the texts?
Is she one of those "trying to be my kids' cool friend/mom"?
Okay Pak..........I'm a going to step back & look at it from an unbiased point of view. Your Sis is gonna say the BF is gonna sleep on the floor, whatever. If that be the case, then cool.
The realist in me says, WTF are his parents??? Are they going up to the tourney with ya'll, and get a room for them & sonny boy???
If not................I guess your sis might very well be a grandma at 41!
Cheers!!!
lol, wow... Some of yall are ridiculous
1. This whole thing is so sad and so funny at the same time.... you aren't really gonna take advice on something like this from the internet are you? Then you're gonna use it as exhibit A in your gy little lecture? lmao... "Look at what my e-friends are saying about this".... I'm sure she'll really respect you and take you seriously
2. I don't see whats so "inappropriate" about it
She's involved in her kid's life, that's a good thing. She's smart enough to know that her daughter is probably gonna have a boyfriend, so instead of having it going on behind her back, she's able to be involved and supervise it.
Saying that she's texting him is a vague statement... but i don't see the big deal in that either. Everybody texts these days. And if she's involved in her daughter's life like that, and he's always around, she probably looks at him as almost one of her own kids.
I'm sure the guy will sleep on the floor
Buy your niece some rubbers. She's gonna need them with a mom like that.
It maybe an innocent, best intentioned gesture on her part, but pushing so much togetherness on 14 yr olds could be dangerous. It's probably a first boyfriend thing so it would be wiser, in the long run, to teach moderation.
And I hope your relationship with your sis is a strong one, because unless she asked for your advice, she'll probably tell you to go to . Good luck.
is she a milf? oh well.. dude it most likely loving it. If i have a daughter(which i don't plan to)...i'd be strict but... texting her friends? negative.
The mother of my first g/f at 15yrs old.................allowed me to sleep at their house sometimes if it got late...........on the couch no less. My g/f would sneak from her bedroom over to the couch and I she would lay in front of me, and we would screw spoon style right then and there. The end.
She's probably just trying to keep a tight hold on things. Unless you know exactly what the text is about you should assume that you're being too presumptuous.
I've had many sleepovers in my early teens. Wasn't a big deal. No one got pregnant or diseased.
Now if you find out that they all hopped in the bed together for the night. You might be concerned. If she's texting him inappropriate things or flirting openly. You should take notice.
I think further investigation would be prudent before a confrontation.
I respect most of what you said.... and I'm asking for advice here, because I DO know alot of the posters here.... and I welcome advice from those that I don't... but thanks! I appreciate what you had to say.
just tell your sister that you can't wait til your boys are old enough so you can have a reason to start texting 14 year old girls and get them in a hotel room in another city...with purely innocent intentions of course. maybe she'll get the hint.
Thanks! I think you're right.
Seriously though..............my g/fs mother was wonderful and had great intentions, but little did she know, she gave me the combination to her daughters panties by letting us spend the night together under the same roof. Looking back on it, I would never allow my daughter to have her b/f sleep over. NO WAY!!!
What does she text the boyfriend to say?
I can't imagine what the mother would have to say to the boyfriend via text. If she wanted to ask him something, wouldn't she just tell the daughter to ask him?
If she texts something like, "Well pick you up at 8" then I understand that (maybe?)... but if she is just texting for conversation, then that's beyond strange.
+1 I don't do the "friends" kind of parenting and I don't buy in to the "well, I'd rather have her have sex here.." argument either. But that is just me.
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