Ummm...it sounds like you've broken the ice.
So, next time, maybe try a simple "Hey, ______. How's it goin? Cool, cool. Now, let's have a look at that snatch."
Darn, Im so freaking pissed at myself right now. Ok, here's what happened. There's this hot chick in my history class that I've wanted to talk to for a while now. But I wasn't sure how to approach the chick, today though I decided I was just gunna make something up so I could have a reason to talk to her.
After class, I went up to her and I was like "Hey, do you have a brother named Stephen? Because, I have a friend that looks like you". From there on we were talking and stuff. I asked her alot of basic stuff like her name, where she was from, etc. So everything was going good, I had her blushing and stuff but then for some reason I just said randomly " I'll talk to you later". It just came out of nowhere, Idk maybe I was nervous but as soon as I said it I just started walking off. Then like a minute after, I realized I just Effed up what was starting to be a good conversation with that chick.
Fvvck man, Im not sure what to do now. I have class with her again on Wednesday but Im not sure If and how I should talk to her again. Any tips?
Ummm...it sounds like you've broken the ice.
So, next time, maybe try a simple "Hey, ______. How's it goin? Cool, cool. Now, let's have a look at that snatch."
yeah, you said you'd talk to her later....so talk to her later.
and ask her out...
pull out your penis next time
you did good, always leaving them wanting more. next class go sit next to her
good job. that's ing textbook man, i bet you know a lot more about women than you think. you gotta make her want you extremely badly without ever giving off any hints about you thinking about her being more than a friend, and you just started it nicely by ending the conversation before she would have liked. just be friends this next time but throw in a couple compliments, something you'd waste on a coworker and not more - then, judging her reactions and your own abilities, get her number by mutual interest and move in. your manhood should take care of the rest
and about resparking that conversation, just say hi ______ and reference something you talked about previous as it gives you a good starting point, even if that reference alsts roughly two sentences you should be able to move on to something different. and don't hesitate to sit next to her if the sparks are flying
dude that's a perfect starter for the next time you see her, just say "hey how's stephen?" or something lol
You didn't really up man. You did good bro, could of been better but good none the less (you made her blush/ you must of made an impression?). You don't want to be all over a chick the first time you start talking, or your going to seem too desperate and insecure.
rules to bang her by the end of the semester:
1. Be confident: majority of Girls don't like pussies, they like s! But don't be an arrogant asshole either.
2. Don't complement her looks/superficial beauty: Well, not just yet, but compliment her other facets of her personality/ talents she might have, interests, etc. Believe me, this is what gets girls going. You could compliment her all you want when you have her in the sac, and your ing all over her face.
3. Have a good sense of humor and don't be afraid to take small jabs at yourself at times. But don't overdue it. Girls like a guy that could them laugh.
4. Bull : Not big ass lies but things like, "I like art or I'm down for a tear jerker movie. Twilight/New Moon,etc even though you don't. Girls like Guys who are confident about their emotional well being.
5. block: Hey, your in college, and if you think your the only one who has set your eyes on that girl, think again. She is probably having conversations with all sorts of dudes, throwing her different kinds of "game"
Be Dikembe Mutombo and finger wag your way to her panties if you need to.(i.e. Hey I saw that guy doing coke in the restroom, etc.
6. Invite her for a bite to eat: Don't be afraid to ask her out on a date. Food always gets girls in the mood.
7. Don't be afraid to fail: If all fails, there's millions of girls out there and one of them is bound to bite on your bait. Keep Fishing!
Last edited by Ginobilly; 09-14-2009 at 05:56 PM.
lol.....
Bingo! Take notes from Zosa Red Hawk. He knows what he's talking about!
Tell her you thought you were gay for Stephen until you met her, and now you're starting to wonder if she's close enough.
since its a history class you should have said lets imagine its early modern europe. now come to my home you or you will die. then do as i tell you and finish her off
I'd be more worried about the fact it sounds like you started a conversation by telling her she looks like a dude.
"Hey, do you have a brother named Stephen? Because, I have a friend that looks like you".
hahah wtf?
i bet you know a lot less about women than you think.
girl: "Stephen's great. I told him I met another gay guy in class and that the two of you should hit it off"
On a scale of 1 to 10, rate the girls' looks and personality. If you really like this girl and/or want to bang her, you need to seal the deal because a lot of other guys might want to hit that. You might miss out if you're too slow on wooing this girl. Just don't come off as a stalker, needy, or clingy.
Just relax. Don't overreact, that's the worst thing you could do in this situation.
Just talk to her next time. Have a couple of fallback comments in case you don't know what to say, open-ended things she might want to talk about. Ask her how her classes are going, that kind of thing. See if she drops any hints about wanting to hang out with you more or anything along those lines.
If she's interested, she'll probably respond positively to the things you say. If she's not, you might be wasting your time to begin with.
Be nice, approachable, and relaxed. Just freaking talk to her. Don't overthink the situation.
i bet you're 35, married to some dumb , and balding.
This.
But other than that, I think it was a solid go. Without a phone or instant messager, the only thing you really could tell her was "talk to you later." Next, you need to find out if that is smart so you can study with her. Or maybe she's stupid and you are smart, then you can also study with her then. Find a way to make her success in class dependent on you, it's all in the game.
Watch some Saved By the Bell, seasons 3-4. Zach Morris works that like a pro and has good lessons for these brutal, modern times. Believe.
Hey thanks to everyone for the advice, I have class with her tomorrow so i'll make sure to tell you guys how things go.
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