They hate us because they are phobic, misogynic and zenophobic...
IOW, they hate us because of our liberalism...read some of Usama and clan's speeches sometimes, they talk about sexuality, having no gods and no morals.
That's why it's tremendously ironic the way the war split went in terms of who supported it and who didn't...if there is a segment of American population they want to behead and slaughter, it's our s, s and atheists..I mean , look at what happens to those people in that part of the world. Want a clip to the 16 year old s being hung in Iran?
Probably aren't too crazy about our decadent hollywood celbrities either...you know, the guys that understand their side of things.
Yet those are the Americans trying to suck them off and be nice to them, which kind of proves their point about why they don't want a segment of the population like that among their numbers....even more to the point when it was pretty much the conservatives attempting to fight for liberalism in that region of the world all the while having to deal with American liberals biting their ankles., and screaming we're the problem, we're the problem, every step of the battle....
I think the liberal battle cry was, death to the Republicans, it's not our problem, let's gtfo, they're savages...etc.
That's why they hate us....because they don't want their society being like that.
IOW they really do hate our freedom, Much like most oppressive regimes do.
As for the leaders' motivation, it's no so much hate as it is power. The leaders look and see them getting their asses kicked by Israel and basically being reduced to third 3rd world inspite of being in the most minerally wealthy region of the entire planet and those with a knowledge of history know that during the time of the Ottoman Empire it was the peak of Muslim civilization and they want to return to that. The return of the Ottoman Empire and a powerful Muslim Superpower able to stand up to the Western and Eastern world powers...and get the West the out of their region of the world.