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Don't get depressed and look on the bright side of life.
I truely beleive she still loves and cares about me, but I don't know why all this has happened. Please give me some advice, or a comment, or if someone knows of the problems with depression, please help me out.
Thank You
MiamiHeat
Last edited by MiamiHeat; 10-02-2009 at 11:45 AM.
Don't get depressed and look on the bright side of life.
depressed? ummm go out on front lawn and scratch your face YO.....
seriously plenty of fishes in the sea yo
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Tell her you will help her take on whatever problems are causing her depression instead of her taking meaningless pills that will do nothing but prolong the depression.
Just let her talk to you and listen and then attack whatever the root is so that she can overcome the negativity.
Life generally does suck. You have to work hard to make it not suck. If you two do love each other, there is not much else to be depressed about. That is pretty much the one thing in life any of us can hope to obtain before we die.
/dr phil
Is this the pizza girl?
I WAS being serious. Depression is a serious issue.
are you a wack job or just full of ?
this is a time of sadness for me, i dont need insults please
have compassion plz....
Seriously bro. I think she just wanted to let you down easy. She used her depression as an excuse to date again. Sure, she may be depressed, but its probably because she does love you to some extent, but there are other guys she wants to see.
Ive actually been where you are. I was here in Saytown and my g/f of 4yrs went to school at UT. After about a yr. of dating long distance, she wanted freedom to date. Some guys at UT asked her out. Well, we broke up...........she called back about six mo. later wanting to give us another try.........too late, I met someone else.
Dont sweat it too much, if she really and truly loved you...........yall would still be together no matter what. Go out and date again. There are plenty of single ladies to go around.
depression is cured if you dont put urself in that state in the first place...stop thinkn of negative things and go out be active...clear the fkn mind....
Yeah, you've shown plenty of compassion in the past. But I hear ya.
joechalupa i curse thee to the darkest depths of , locked forever in a pit with mouse.
oh noes, I got called out and my only reply is that I am sad and don't want people to be mean.
so ur alone posting this up and feeling down?
i know a cure, most guys on this site do it in front of the comp late at night....go surf porn and have a wank man.....
I don't buy this one either.
Thanks. I don't know for sure if she did that or not, use depression as an excuse. I would say probably not, because she stays home a lot and doesn't want to meet anyone.Seriously bro. I think she just wanted to let you down easy. She used her depression as an excuse to date again. Sure, she may be depressed, but its probably because she does love you to some extent, but there are other guys she wants to see.
Ive actually been where you are. I was here in Saytown and my g/f of 4yrs went to school at UT. After about a yr. of dating long distance, she wanted freedom to date. Some guys at UT asked her out. Well, we broke up...........she called back about six mo. later wanting to give us another try.........too late, I met someone else.
Dont sweat it too much, if she really and truly loved you...........yall would still be together no matter what. Go out and date again. There are plenty of single ladies to go around.
but as you say, I need to get ready to move on. It will be hard for me. I am very good man with good heart, my heart cannot live on forever and go on like in the celine dion song anic.
I tried my best to help her. I am going to keep trying until I know for sure what is going on, but at the same time, will take your advice and prepare to move on.
You don't believe in .
You can always pray for her.
You should just pay her a visit (not thru the phone) sit her down and ask her if she really loves you, than you tell her that together you will come thru this, together everything will be ok, let her feel comfortably and show her that she means so much to you, that you cant give it a break.
so what happened to your wife?
give chris brown a call, he will teach you how to treat a fine lady...
Wow, what a response!!!! First of all, I have to say thank you so much to those who replied to my post and for those who continue to reply.
I always talk about my problems to people... I don't have a problem with that, but I was having real trouble dealing with/understanding what was going on.
Basically from reading what everyone wrote, I have had the power to feel better. Thinking "That my relationship with her doesn't exactly exist now, but it still might not be over if she can work things out", really made me feel good, not helpless. I still love her and that wont stop. So knowing that there is still hope "through the opinions of strangers" and that I should just get on with life and if love was ment to be it will happen... made me actually really happy today.
Thank you NoOptionB, for letting me know what is happening to me has happened to others and is even common, but that does not mean that she doesn't love me anymore.
lebomb, telling me to prepare to move on is great advice, I really took note of that.
I sent her an email. I really feel better now and feel like I have done all I can do for now, it is now up to her. And yes I can't wait for her. If it will happen it wil happen.
I now understand that my girlfriend needs this space right now to deal with what is going on with her... I also understand that there is a possibility she wont be able to deal with it and I will be forced to move on, and it the mean time it is healthy for me to go on with my life, but not shut the door, or my heart completely (but that wasn't the plan anyways).
I hope all of you check back here and read my thanks, also I want to thank those who will give me any additional advice. I found this whole experience very helpful and I will be checking back often to learn more.
THANK YOU
MiamiHeat
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