So what was this thread about? Don't you have to say a line from FP to get FP'd?
LOL... Man, I need to use that "I've really lost faith in you" line on my wife for something small.
So what was this thread about? Don't you have to say a line from FP to get FP'd?
I'm at least partly certain this is bull , and largely certain I don't really give a what happens with your relationship one way or the other, but...
Time for you to realize and accept that maybe it's not a problem you can solve. Your helping might be hurting. Let her ask you for help and tell you what she needs, because she can probably do a much better job of communicating that to you than a bunch of strangers on the interwebs can.
My honest, for realisies advice? Couples counseling, or break up.
It's obvious from previous threads he's ultra controlling, keeps her locked up in the house with him, etc so it's no surprise that he feels the need to try to control every aspect of the relationship, including trying to solve every problem, no matter how obvious it is that it's not a problem he can solve.
You can not fix somebody else's mental problems. They have to work them out for themselves. I have had three relationships where mental issues was the main reason for the break up. It's especially difficult to keep a relationship going when somebody is going through a mental crisis. The relationship is no longer a priority, but the mental problem is. Sometimes, the relationship can make the mental problem worse (even if the other person is being supportive) because relationships are generally stressful. I think the best idea is to give your gf some space. If you two are meant to be, you will find each other down the road.
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