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Thanks and your quite welcome.
congrats to you buddy i hope you the best
sorta feels weird that im worried about some of my close friends forcing the marriage issue, especially when one hasnt even been dating for a year yet and is getting ready to propose....my parents date for less than a year before they got married and they are extremely happy 31 years later, maybe you know when you know ?
Thanks and your quite welcome.
don't worry about the rest of your life bugoy.
take care of today, prepare for tomorrow...the rest should take care of itself.
when you meet the woman that makes you happy...and you want to spend today and tomorrow with her...you'll know...
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Marriage isn't for everyone. Besides, just because your friends are married doesn't mean you have to get married right now. Avoid the peer pressure.
yeah im thinking that also, marriage isnt for everyone, when i say that i get the weirdest looks from people, and plus....theres girls i wanna date....and girls id want to marry....two different types of girls
Way too young. I waited until I was 45. got the wild oats sown and settled down. My 5 year old boy keeps me hopping; got my orange belt in karate last month.
Always listen to EricB when it comes to relationship advice. He is the authority.
I'm the same way. I can't even date nowadays - all women piss me off when you're around them all the time. I just want pussy, I'll be honest. No relationship. That might change if I grow up one day, probably not.
I call bull on there being someone for everybody. It's nothing more than a fairy tale.
I got married at 19. That was 35 years, 2 kids, and 6 grandkids ago. That said, don't let peer pressure make you do something you aren't ready for, but don't be afraid to do what you really want to do.
Of course there is someone for everyone, there's some 6,000,000,000 people out there.
The problem is you'll very likely only go through 0-400 at best.
exactly, and it drives me crazy how irrational the decision making is for a lot of women i know and how they make decisions based on emotions rather than logic
quality > quan y my friend....
As a man, although a young one, I see females as a major part of my life. I think without females, aside from family there's no other point in living. Everyone's different, but I want to get married and have someone to share the rest of my life with. It gives you a reason to get out of bed in the morning. Just my opinion
I'm still gettin' plenty of tail!
Wise words. Marriage is a big commitment, kids an even bigger one. Neither are for people who have even the slightest bit of doubt.
I found the love of my life at the age of 34 and I too thought I may not find someone but I always thought it would happen naturally and then one day my future wife walked into my life and we've been on a journey together ever since with ups and downs and I love it. Good luck to you.
I think a lot has to do with age. You get married have kids at say oh age 25. 18 years later your kid is out of the house and your 43. You do the same at 35...dude your 53 maybe 60 when your kids leave. Big diff huh..
But most people are right...don't marry just cause other people are doing it. Is this high school?
Yeah, I did think I was getting up there in age when I thought about kids and about being in my late 40's and perhaps not being able to certain things but as the years have passed I've come to realize that age isn't really a factor, at least not to me, when it comes to children. Heck, I'm 48 and my mother still treats me like I'm 9 and babies me when I'm sick and although I left the house at 18 I've always enjoyed going back home and to this day so do my parents.
Did you vent the day you got v-owned on Spurstalk?
Everyone is right don't get married becuase your friends are doing it or because your 26 or 46 you should do it when you feel that its the right person and she feels the same. I agree that most people take marriage lightly and say it if it doesn't work out we can just get a divorce. My ex-GF and I just ended things last week after being together for almost 3yrs because she wants Marriage and kids and I am not ready for that nor do I see it within the next few years and I'm 31. Don't rush into things just enjoy yourself.
A poster from here once bet that I'd be married by 25. I turn 26 in five days and I'm still not married. Single, actually. So, I win.
I can't imagine being married any time soon. But I do hope that one day I'll be with someone I want to spend every day with. We'll see.
I can't imagine anyone being dumb enough to think that you, of all people, would be married by November 6th, 2009.
I know, right? Actually, this person was dumb TWO TIMES. First at 25 and then dumb enough to bet again by 26. Dummmmy.
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