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eh, she's too young to know what the she is talkin about.
she will be fine though. modern society forgets humans were having babies at 11-13 years old for millions of years.
AN 11-year-old girl has become a mother after going into labour during her wedding to her teenage boyfriend.
Kordeza Zhelyazkova was still wearing her wedding dress and tiara when she arrived at hospital and gave birth to little Violeta.
The schoolgirl, of Sliven, Bulgaria, fell pregnant within just two weeks of her 11th birthday.
She gave birth last week with 19-year-old husband Jeliazko Dimitrov at her side,
"I'm not going to play with toys any more - I have a new toy now," Kordeza told Britain's News of the World newspaper.
"She is so beautiful, I love her. Violeta is the child and I must grow up. I am not going back to school - I am a mother now."
Kordeza met Jeliazko in the playground of her gypsy school when he rescued her from bullies.
Just goes to show True Love conquers all
Their daughter was conceived within a week.
Kordeza admitted: "I haven't had sex education classes and I didn't know how to get pregnant. I'd never had a boyfriend and I'd never heard of condoms.
"I didn't know I was pregnant until my grandmother saw I had put on weight. I just thought I'd eaten too many burgers."
The pair had a traditional Roma wedding - but now Jeliazko is facing up to six years behind bars for having sex with a minor.
"I'm scared. I want to look after my wife and child. Instead I may be going to prison," he said.
"I made a mistake but I am not going to apologise for that because now I have beautiful Violeta."
eh, she's too young to know what the she is talkin about.
she will be fine though. modern society forgets humans were having babies at 11-13 years old for millions of years.
remember that thread someone posted about how a 6 year old girl gave birthbut really it was about a little girl who had fetus in fetu??
That is one sick dude. 10 years old, are you kidding me??? How the are you gonna have sex with a 10 year old?
The only saving grace the man has is that he married her. Is he really in love??? I have no idea.. but no excuse to have sex with someone who is still in elementary school.
Man that is disgusting.
yeah its pretty disgusting no doubt
stupid eastern european countries
That's sick. This happens alot with Roma Gypsy families in Serbia, Bulgaria, Macedonia and Greece.
Why stupid? Has nothing to do with it. These are not the populations from the country. These are not ordinary Bulgars. For the ordinary bulgars and other populations from the Balkans, this is sick too, they find this disgusting too. They dont do that. It's just common with the Roma gypsy's who settled in the Balkans.
Don't label other people, who think the same as you do about these situations, by your lack of knowledge.
/tlongII thread
Sorry to be such a stick in the mud, but I just don't see the hilarity in this story
That's because there is none.Sorry to be such a stick in the mud, but I just don't see the hilarity in this story
Eh, pretty standard for gypsies...
Sigh. I knew I shouldn't have opened this.
This is the kind of story that makes it really difficult for me to maintain equanimity and not be bitter about my son. It makes me angry and sad and makes me want to cry.
what did your son do
As the thread indicates, my son Gabriel was born prematurely in August as a result of preterm labor, most likely caused by a placental abruption. It was the third pregnancy in a year (my fourth total, no living children), and the farthest I've ever carried a pregnancy and Gabriel was healthy and perfect until he was born. He was simply too premature to be saved (21 weeks gestation).
I realize this poor girl is a victim and a child-mother, and I am very sorry for her and for this child. I realize our situations are in way linked, I just find it difficult to reconcile losing our son, a child very much wanted and very loved, with bad things like this in the world. Some days it is difficult not to feel bitter and angry, but I generally try to avoid that, because it's unproductive.
I feel terribly for this little girl and for this new child. It is such an unfortunate situation, and I'm sad for them.
They seem happy. Why are you sad for them?
what do you think of gypsies?
do they roam around in caravans aka trailers?
are they like snow birds?
Because an eleven year old child has had a child. Because her family thought marrying her off to the guy who impregnated her when she was 10 was the appropriate thing to do.
That's terrible. I can't imagine the new baby will be raised in a good environment, given how things have gone with her mother. At least, the odds are against them.
if it was an 11 year old American girl i could see your point. something tells me little gypsy bulgarian girls are a little better equipped to handle something like that. They both speak as if they are in love, they got married, the "guy who impregnated her" was only 8 years older than her.
I am pretty sure the guy knew exactly what he was doing, just didn't give a and wanted to get his load off. He is 8 years older than she is after all.
I like to think things in terms of mental age. She clearly had no idea what the consequences of having intercourse could do. Therefore the guy has no business taking advantage of her like that.
Thinking that it was only an 8 year difference is only a numbers game. They can be deceiving. I mean if a 15 year old boy was having sex with a 7 year old girl, would it matter that it was only an 8 year difference?
If she was old enough to know better, then I wouldn't have a quarrel.
Its pedophilia in reality
No they don't. These Roma's in the Balkans often stay on one place in or around a city. Roma's in other parts of europe are roaming though. They are very poor people who are living in their own communities, in very bad cir stances with houses made of junk. Most of them don't have any education or proper job. They live of begging, selling things on markets, criminality, collecting old iron etc...
They are definitely supressed in many countries in the Balkans and nobody likes them. They are isolated and have their own values and customs, like this, marrying on young age.
I dont hate them or something, I dont look down to them as many here do. I strongly disagree with their way of life, like these disgusting things. But they just need to develop and be educated. That's a process.
It's getting better though, especially in Macedonia. More Roma people are getting education and jobs now. Macedonia is also the first country to let them have their own political parties and be active in the government. They have alot of rights in Macedonia. Also they are responsible in their own communities.
But, for countries like Romania, Bulgaria, Serbia, their situation is very bad.
that's actually really interesting, thanks for the insight!
I am sorry for all you have been through, Easjer.
It is great to have you back on the forum.
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