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    So that's why Bigzak hit me up to buy like $300 worth of weed.

    It all makes perfect sense now.

    And he didn't share. Selfish prick.

    Neither did you. er.

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    Neither did you. er.
    Did too. Obviously you were too high to remember.

  3. #28
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    Did too. Obviously you were too high to remember.
    Ahhh. No, I remember that time. I'm talking about this exchange between you and Zak. No sharing.

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    Ahhh. No, I remember that time. I'm talking about this exchange between you and Zak. No sharing.
    Not my fault you didn't tag along. There was room in the car after mouse ed out because he was too chicken to ride in a vehicle with an expired inspection sticker. That was some good weed too. We were on the moon before we even got out of Travis County.

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    Not my fault you didn't tag along. There was room in the car after mouse ed out because he was too chicken to ride in a vehicle with an expired inspection sticker.
    I have no idea what you're talking about. I wasn't even invited.

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    I have no idea what you're talking about. I wasn't even invited.
    Maybe if you didn't break Bigzak's heart, he would've have invited you. Not my problem.

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    Maybe if you didn't break Bigzak's heart, he would've have invited you. Not my problem.
    Point taken. You don't have to be an asshole about it.

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    There was room in the car after mouse ed out because he was too chicken to ride in a vehicle with an expired inspection sticker.
    He was already high, can you blame him for being paranoid?

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    I always want the ones I can't have.

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    I like a good thread derailing as much as the next guy, but my advice to the OP is to tell her. Speaking from my experience and the experience of a number of friends, the odds are stacked against you on this one but it's the only play that offers any sort of real resolution. In a perfect world she'll dump the dude she's with and run into your arms. From a more realistic standpoint, you're not going to be able to get over her without telling her the truth at some point. The 'what ifs' will eat you alive if you let them.

    I've been on both sides of the equation and am still close friends with both the girl I once told (she ended up marrying the guy she was with at the time) and the girl who once told me. It's like any monster secret: the truth will set you free.

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    Rapper, have you met Katy?

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    I have loved me quite a few taken ladies.

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    I always fall in love with the wrong people.

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    I like a good thread derailing as much as the next guy, but my advice to the OP is to tell her. Speaking from my experience and the experience of a number of friends, the odds are stacked against you on this one but it's the only play that offers any sort of real resolution. In a perfect world she'll dump the dude she's with and run into your arms. From a more realistic standpoint, you're not going to be able to get over her without telling her the truth at some point. The 'what ifs' will eat you alive if you let them.

    I've been on both sides of the equation and am still close friends with both the girl I once told (she ended up marrying the guy she was with at the time) and the girl who once told me. It's like any monster secret: the truth will set you free.
    SFIE is right, you have to be honest. Get it out and if she's not interested, get over it. When it happened to me, the only thing I could do was say thanks for being honest, but I don't feel the same way. Then cut off all ties because I didn't want anything hanging over the relationship I was in.
    Either way it's not easy. Once you tell her if she says she loves you too and wants to be with you, the right thing would be for her to be honest in her relationship and break it off. If she says she has feelings for you but won't do anything about her relationship, you have to suspect that she might just be playing you. In that kind of scenario, it is entirely possible that she is a game playing manipulative . If she's in a relationship that she is not willing to break, there has to be something there. Maybe just security, but it's something she won't give up. Before suspecting that she is being deprived at home (love, sex, etc) by a man she won't leave, I would suspect that she is just bored at home and has fun having a fool to toy with.

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    Rapper, have you met Katy?
    No, he hasn't had the honor.

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    No, he hasn't had the honor.
    May I inquire discreetly how one earns such an honor?

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    Oh no I totally agree with you man. It is hard and you can't just turn your feelings off for a person like that at a drop of a dime. Especially if you are still in contact with the person regularly, and all the stuff you love about that person is still like right there for you to see or here everytime you talk to them. Its just hard all the way around. Was this girl a longtime friend of yours before and she just happened to get a bf along the way? Or when you met her she already had a bf?
    Man , she already had a bf when the first time i met her, but i didn't know that. she is very pretty, kind, gentle,active,positive,smart, the greatest girl i've ever seen.we had had a good time during this summer, we experienced the ups and downs to each other.when i knew that she had a bf i was extremely shocked by that,i choose putting this secret inside my heart over telling her cause i'm afraid of losing her

    I just wanna be her best friend even though i love her very much.

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    Man , she already had a bf when the first time i met her, but i didn't know that. she is very pretty, kind, gentle,active,positive,smart, the greatest girl i've ever seen.we had had a good time during this summer, we experienced the ups and downs to each other.when i knew that she had a bf i was extremely shocked by that,i choose putting this secret inside my heart over telling her cause i'm afraid of losing her

    I just wanna be her best friend even though i love her very much.
    Hm. How far into your relationship with her did you find out she had a boyfriend?

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    Hm. How far into your relationship with her did you find out she had a boyfriend?
    Almost 2 months

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    Women want what they can't have. When they have it they'll tire of it and want something new...preferably something they can't have. Its cyclical.

    If they grow a conscience about being a cheating or thinking about being a cheating they're redirect and morph those emotions into sympathy for themselves. Then refer to it as being trapped so they can self destruct the relationship as a way out. A less guilty plan I suppose.

    Women are far worse than men specifically because its agenda based and tactical with them vs. a man just wanting whatever is available when available.

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    Almost 2 months
    That's odd. If I was becoming friends with someone, especially a guy, and was in a committed relationship, that someone would know. How could something like that not come up in 2 months?

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    That's odd. If I was becoming friends with someone, especially a guy, and was in a committed relationship, that someone would know. How could something like that not come up in 2 months?
    The same way a 15 year old hides a pregnancy for 9 months and then takes a dump at the mall out of nowhere. Women are sneaky.

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    Women want what they can't have. When they have it they'll tire of it and want something new...preferably something they can't have. Its cyclical.

    If they grow a conscience about being a cheating or thinking about being a cheating they're redirect and morph those emotions into sympathy for themselves. Then refer to it as being trapped so they can self destruct the relationship as a way out. A less guilty plan I suppose.

    Women are far worse than men specifically because its agenda based and tactical with them vs. a man just wanting whatever is available when available.
    I hate to say it, but there is quite a bit of truth here. But it does go both ways. If someone in a relationship tells you they love you but can't do anything about it, run as far away as you can. Only a fool would take it to heart.

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    That's odd. If I was becoming friends with someone, especially a guy, and was in a committed relationship, that someone would know. How could something like that not come up in 2 months?
    Well ,i think different person has different at ude in love especially in China
    It's too hard for me to explain ,but one thing i can make sure is that she was unwilling to tell me she had a bf, the reason why i finally knew she had a bf is a friend of mine saw her with a guy on a street hand in hand

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    How old are you?

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