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some of you say treat them like or worthless,
some nice guys just cant lower themselves down to that sort of behaviour, maybe its the way they are brought up in the family, values and discipline....
Just because you're bitter over a bad experience doesn't mean that nice guys always finish last. The only time that might be true is if you're just trying to get laid by some chick with a self-loathing complex.
some of you say treat them like or worthless,
some nice guys just cant lower themselves down to that sort of behaviour, maybe its the way they are brought up in the family, values and discipline....
Yeah, that's why women almost always prefer bad boys, at least until they hit their 30s and start looking for security
son then unfortunately for those guys they will have two options ...
1. Settle for some fat slob or butt ugly looking chick
2. Settle for the asshole guys sloppy seconds, thirds, fourths, etc.
sick world we live in.
son and by then most of those women are loose as a goose and on the downhill side looks wise. hence why they finally decide to settle.
This part is true. Being the nice guy forever has made me more aware of the hidden tendencies behind a woman's actions. This year someone I live with who isn't too bright was getting jerked around by a girl in a way I've never seen. Last summer, she needed a ride down to Phoenix, and knew he was driving to Phoenix. After making it very clear she had no interest, she all the sudden is interested again now that she needs a ride. Once she got the ride, she all the sudden needed more time to get over her BF. It was pretty obvious IMO, but I was the only one in my house who saw through her bull .
Sadly this is most often the case at least for the second option. You have to be really quick on the draw to get a woman who an asshole hasn't tainted yet.
Last edited by xellos88330; 11-05-2009 at 05:30 AM.
if you cant get a chick in ur country? goto a foreign country and get one hahahhaha
there you will find one loyal to you for a couple of years when she gets her green card, while in that time you better enjoy it all you can....and restart the process again....
Ah, one of the 'user' women eh? What was the reason/potential lie, for her to go to Phoenix?
Tell that to pay for the gas and food on the way down, or no ride at all. Your roommate could have at least got the expenses paid.
My guess is he gave the ride for free
exactly, the kind of women you have to strap a two by four to your ass to keep from falling in
a nice guy just wants to treat a lady how she wants or should be treated, if she finds you too nice and easily take advantage or walk all over ur manhood pride, thats when you busts out the kayne west how you should untreat a woman.
Kanye is cuckold bag. Only reason he has any women is because he has $$$$$$
She just needed to get back to her house and was in Cali with her sister who was staying for another week. First month of school, she's in our house after a party telling me to shut up knowing that everyone is trying to keep her happy because they think she's interested in our roommate who never gets girls, I turn around and put her in her place and made sure she knew where she was. Everyone I lived with got mad at me saying I was gonna ruin it, and I snapped back and said that if he wants to be pussywhipped by pussy he'll never get that's his problem, but in my house, I'll talk to whoever I want however I want.
A few weeks ago, it's her birthday, so a girl we all know conveniently picks a time where everyone besides me is home to ask if they can have a birthday party here. They then tell me, and I said, "That's not happening, until she apologizes to me for how she acted, she's not allowed in our house, and if either one of them tells you about how she is interested again, my answer is still no."
The same friend who comes over the first time comes over to ask me again, and as I called it, she said, "She wants to have a party here so she can get with your roommate. She is finally over her ex."
I say, "Fine, have the party, under the condition that if they don't have sex, you owe me $500," and that was the end of that
Good women are out there, just need to go to places where assholes don't convene.
son the main problem is the mentality from women (and most nice guys) is that the women are en led to be treated "special". that. I'm not saying that you shouldn't treat your partner special, but a relationship regardless of how serious it may be should be equal. many of these broads will walk all over the guy, treat him like a second class citizen, and then expect him to bow down and kiss her ass and the sad thing is many guys put up with it.
sons put your foot down and stop that the first time you notice that type of mentality from your broad. once she gets away with it once, she will never stop. but if you show this chickenhead broad who her daddy is from the start, she will respect you and be your personal sex slave. they hate to be told no, but they love it at the same time. the confidence of a guy to tell them no turns them on. as sick as it sounds, the stricter you are the better when it comes to this type of situation.
She just needed to get back to her house and was in Cali with her sister who was staying for another week. First month of school, she's in our house after a party telling me to shut up knowing that everyone is trying to keep her happy because they think she's interested in our roommate who never gets girls, I turn around and put her in her place and made sure she knew where she was. Everyone I lived with got mad at me saying I was gonna ruin it, and I snapped back and said that if he wants to be pussywhipped by pussy he'll never get that's his problem, but in my house, I'll talk to whoever I want however I want.
A few weeks ago, it's her birthday, so a girl we all know conveniently picks a time where everyone besides me is home to ask if they can have a birthday party here. They then tell me, and I said, "That's not happening, until she apologizes to me for how she acted, she's not allowed in our house, and if either one of them tells you about how she is interested again, my answer is still no."
The same friend who comes over the first time comes over to ask me again, and as I called it, she said, "She wants to have a party here so she can get with your roommate. She is finally over her ex."
I say, "Fine, have the party, under the condition that if they don't have sex, you owe me $500," and that was the end of that
She convinced him to make a 45 minute drive out to Irvine at 12:30 at night when we had to leave at 6:00 AM the next day. There were two cars, fortunately my other friend who I was with were in one, while stupid ass, user girl and her friend who managed to tag along for the trip were in the other car.
I feel for your friend man. He is getting played.
I was played only once. Never again.
The funny thing about the nice guy persona is the fact that if angered, the nice guy can become very very very cruel.
NOTHIN beats getting back at her with their sister, mom or best friend
I went 2/3 of that list you just put out. Sister and best friend. The best part of it was, that they would talk to her about it. She was pissed about it at first. Then she would start trying to get back with me behind the assholes back. Pretty amazing how much a couple of 'encounters' with people who are close to a woman your pissed at can change their view of you so quickly.
Since that whole birthday party incident, the hasn't talked to any of us. The only reason she talked to him in the first place is cause she saw someone who would give her attention and let her manipulate him. Now that she knows no using/manipulating is happening under my watch, she's got no interest. Yeah, it sucks to find out that's the only reason a girl paid you attention, but it's better to know.
The harder you get played the first time, the less likely it is to happen again. That's the one good thing about having a really bad experience early on in life, you don't let your guard down ever again.
Yea that is true. Your friend needs to get an air of confidence about him.
Nice guys biggest weakness is establishing a 'presence' in a room to get noticed.
i'm always nice and respecting to girls and it gets me somewhere occasionally
I feel bad for the guy. He's 5'7", 200 Lbs (while the 2nd shortest person in the house is 5'11"), and dumb as a brick. The problem is he's just too nice a person. Physically incapable of saying no.
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