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Ladies, do you guys call up your X's just to pick a fight?
Why are X girlfriends always such a pain in the ass. I was having a GREAT day till I got a text from an X. Maybe im an idiot for responding and being nice but X's know how to just piss me off. Do you guys stay friends with X's? Should I just say go yourself and be on with it?
Ladies, do you guys call up your X's just to pick a fight?
It depends on the X.
With some X's, I just say GTFO and take the trash out while you're at it
With others, I try to be patient
For me, it'd solely depend on how ed up the break-up was. If we had a civil, mutual break, then I wouldn't mind staying in contact w/ them. However, REGARDLESS of how smoothly it ended, there's always a span of time where NO contact should be made, simply to avoid any mistakes.
Xs or Exs?
I saw a comic strip once where these two kids were discussing X's. The little boy said to the little girl "I know why they call them ex's"; she says "why", and he replies "it's because there's an X thru their face in all the pictures in the photo album!"
Ex's are ex's for a reason. Cut the ties and move on. Hardly ever does anything good come from remaining "friends" with an ex. The fact that you responded to the text gave her exactly what she wanted - attention from you and an opportunity to piss you off.
Now that's a good question
I broke up with my last "ex" when I was 16. I never want to even think of her again, she drug my heart through the bramble.
I haven't dated since, and don't plan on it anytime soon, because of that .
EX's ash why does everything always have to be an English ing paper for you?
They only text or talk to you so you can never forget them. It sucks. them.
I normally make it a rule to remain civil with my exs. However, there are 3 of them I cannot stand. The 1st one is probably the love of my life who I was engaged to at some point, but she decided that it was better to return to her ex that was abusive and quite frankly, half the man I am. C'est La Vie on that one I guess, but she really did a number on my confidence and sent me back into a s . The other two were just pathetic in the way they approached things.
I do, however, concur that it can be difficult to get a text/call/email from an ex. No matter what stage of life your at it can throw you for an emotional loop.
LOL yeah well the only ones I still even bother with were the ones that actually meant something to me. Lately ive been getting from 2 different "EX's". The one that pissed me off today was a pretty ed up scenario. We dated off and on for 7 years, talked about marriage, had really bad breakups, and the final straw was she was sleeping with myself and a new boyfriend that I had no idea about at the same time. When I found out I told her to go herself. I didnt talk to her for 2 years after that and found out she had a daughter around 2 and thought to myself. what if its mine, well I got in contact with her to find out and it turned out it wasnt but she has been emailing, texting, and calling me since. That was a year ago. She still tells me she loves me and what not but I know I dont trust her so Im always like yeah yeah sure you do. Well she wants me to stop by and see her next week. I dont think its a good idea though.
Yeah man I hear you on that. My situation is similar. I am fine without her but she knows how to piss me off. Its not even to get a rise out of me, I think she just likes to fight with me.
ex's. Even if you break it off nice and try to be friends with them they act like little es.
Really? How old are you?
This is a prime example of a "toxic relationship" Atrain. It would be better for your sanity and emotional stability to stay away from the girl. She isn't providing you with anything substantial to be in her life. If she was sleeping with someone else besides you at the same time she professed her love for you--it rarely will change. You would notice if this girl is genuine from the get-go. I say don't see her and finally move on with your life before you get caught up in something you really shouldn't.
hit it and quit it
Yeah thats the thing I have moved on from her. Its just hard not to want to see her cause after all the problems aside we were really good friends. When we were just "friends" at a period we could talk about anything and she could do the same with me. I dont miss her as a gf cause she was a ty gf. I guess i miss her more as a friend but I know its never going to be like that again.
Im not gonna lie......but that thought has crossed my mind. I just feel bad for her bf or whatever he is. Its still the same guy but he has only stayed around cause of the baby.
Then set the ultimatum, Atrain. If you want to be just platonic friends then say that. However, in my experience love relationships that once were awesome platonic relationships rarely ever fall back to that stage. There is a saying, "Once you see someone naked; you see everything." Meaning that there is so much exposed when you go down that path that it is hard to replicate the feelings of what made a great friendship, great. I don't know you two too well to make a total judgment, but I do say this: Be careful either way.
As a poorly voiced, South African accented Leo DiCaprio once said...
"You Americans, always wanting to talk about your feelings."
I've always stayed away from exes, even the ones I've still cared about.
ATRAIN this is not the first time you've started a thread about this exact person, exact same situation. And everyone has told you the same things. She's a needy psycho who likes to get attention from you any way she can. You give her what she wants so she keeps coming back. You are in control here, you have to be the one to change it.
Yeah I agree I dont ever seeing it go back that way especially with her saying she loves me and misses me.
Really. 20.
break her off son, then bounce
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