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He's a nurse ... and you were surprised?
possibly gay.
Okay, just to make a long story short, me and three other friends had a party at a friends house. My friend let us borrowed his house while he worked overnight, he couldn't attend because he is nurse and works long hours. So we're in the middle of an intense poker game and all of a sudden my friend who arrives late brought some bud with him. We roll the and everything but then find out nobody had a lighter. So then me and my other friend go searching for one in his room. As we're going through his stuff we all of a sudden we find nurse boi's gay porno stash.(I know we ed up going through his stuff but we were drunk as ) That sucked the life out of my friend and I. We know this cat since middle school and then it turns out he's possibly gay. What should I do? Should we confront him about it, or just wait till he comes out officially?
He's a nurse ... and you were surprised?
Your friend being a male nurse didn't ever raise a red flag? You've known this guy since middle school and never got a clue that he smokes pole? On the reverse side, he does you the favor of letting you use his house to party and you repay by going through all his personal ? This sounds like a troll job but if it's not then confronting him is definitely the way to go. Tell him that you don't associate with s, especially ones who have fooled you for such a long time and that if he ever takes another to the mouth this friendship is over!
Just how close of a friend is he?
They were lots of signs of signs throughout the years but we ignored them and didn't think much of them. He does have that Richard Jefferson girly kind of voice though.
Do you think he is going to have sex with you?
If not, why do you care?
Not really that close. We hang out maybe a few times a year at bars and restaurants. I told my girl about it, and she tells me,"I told you so". I refuse to believe it! Maybe he was just holding it for a friend or something? We did find a twilight DVD though his stuff.
I guess my gaydar sucks.
I have nothing against gay people, but I guess he has his reasons for keeping his sexual preferences secret. San Antonio is not a gay friendly city like an Austin or San Francisco.
who gives a ? its not like you just found out hes an alien
Nothing, what can you do? If he is a good friend, Maybe he'll tell you himself one day. ty situation though.possibly gay.
Okay, just to make a long story short, me and three other friends had a party at a friends house. My friend let us borrowed his house while he worked overnight, he couldn't attend because he is nurse and works long hours. So we're in the middle of an intense poker game and all of a sudden my friend who arrives late brought some bud with him. We roll the and everything but then find out nobody had a lighter. So then me and my other friend go searching for one in his room. As we're going through his stuff we all of a sudden we find nurse boi's gay porno stash
The ultimatum. Give him the ultimatum, man. It's you or the .
but you have nothing against the ghey.
I'm not gay.
Not that there's anything wrong with that.
WGAF what other people do in the bedroom, as long as it's legal and consensual?
Oh no, it's the end of the world.
I hate gots. Always have, always will. They're just gross to me. I had a close friend who told me he was bi once, the only reason we're still cool is because he has never acted on those urges, he actually hates that part of himself and has a GF in fact.
Well if you're thinking of waiting until he comes out, I assume you're OK with it. It will likely be weirder to wait until then, since you might be uncomfortable having that information and not telling him. Guess it depends on how you think he'd react.
He's a nurse ... and you were surprised?
that's the first thing I thought too...
is your friends name jefferson?
I bet girls are gross to you too.
The only way it would have been more obvious is if he had told you he was a cosmotologist.
This thread tells us a lot more about you than it does about your friend.
If he's your friend, you've probably known him for a while. If he was attracted to you, it's likely that he would have made a pass at you before. Yet this didn't happen, and you weren't aware of his preferences before you chose to violate his trust by invading his privacy.
So it's crystal clear that he regards you as a friend only.
Now what do you really want? It's not clear you want a friend, for violating someone's trust and privacy is not an act of friendship.
It seems to me like you want something else...
Unless he was cheating on you, there's nothing to confront. If you're really his friend and it doesn't bother you, tell him that. If it does bother you, that's probably part of the reason why he has kept it from you. Respect his privacy.
Did you call the express news or kens 5?
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