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Definitely sounds gay. No normal straight dude keeps a stash of gay porn.
I would just keep quiet about it and not say anything unless he brings it up.
son you're a little bit excessively prissy IMHO. It seems like you're somewhat concerned about your friend being gay who possibly even regards you as his targeted sexual partner, but in reality you're being the pedant overreacting to such an accidental discovery IMHO, unless you would like to consider gay anyone who has broke back mountain stashed in his computer. come the friendship my suggestion is, don't ask don't tell... nothing happened on the serious level son.
Definitely sounds gay. No normal straight dude keeps a stash of gay porn.
I would just keep quiet about it and not say anything unless he brings it up.
Wgaf?
You snooped through his stuff and think confronting is even a possibility?
Its like catching your parents having fun in their bedroom and confronting them about it. They're going to find out you messed with their stuff. Also, you shouldn't confront them unless you're after a part of the action. Why else would you want to know?
You were going through his underwear drawer but he's gay? Why not just go to the kitchen?
I wish I was a Sigmund Freud troll instead so I could tell you the truth with a little more credibility, but anyway...you're concerned because you're worried that next time you "hang out" you'll be the one trying to subconsciously suck him off. If you confront him with friends, there's less of a tendency for you to go down on him right then and there.
I think him hiding it helps his friends/family feel less awkward or burdened with mixed feelings about his sexuality. You're "shock" and "confusion" only reinforces his decision to keep it a secret, because you're not accepting that he could have butt sexed you on several occasions and chose not to. Just because you may have had girlfriends in the past doesn't make you heterosexual, lots of men have kids with women, get married, and are active in church...and still manage to be gay and do coke off of male strippers. Denial is more than just a river in Egypt! /freud-mode deactivated
Notice how the op quickly defends his manhood by stating "my girl". Either this is a troll, or the OP is a confused got.....Not really that close. We hang out maybe a few times a year at bars and restaurants. I told my girl about it, and she tells me,"I told you so". I refuse to believe it! Maybe he was just holding it for a friend or something? We did find a twilight DVD though his stuff.
No because him and his other got buddy were drunk so that makes everything alright....
oh ok that makes sense. If beer makes them go through dudes underwear drawer I don't want to be around them when they are drinking liquor.
Sure hope your gay vaccinations are up to date. It's catchy as .possibly gay.
Okay, just to make a long story short, me and three other friends had a party at a friends house. My friend let us borrowed his house while he worked overnight, he couldn't attend because he is nurse and works long hours. So we're in the middle of an intense poker game and all of a sudden my friend who arrives late brought some bud with him. We roll the and everything but then find out nobody had a lighter. So then me and my other friend go searching for one in his room. As we're going through his stuff we all of a sudden we find nurse boi's gay porno stash.(I know we ed up going through his stuff but we were drunk as ) That sucked the life out of my friend and I. We know this cat since middle school and then it turns out he's possibly gay. What should I do? Should we confront him about it, or just wait till he comes out officially?
Yep. I think it's pretty clear what's going on here.
Maybe, when you're strong enough, you'll learn to love yourself.
It's 2010. People can be sexuals. If you are really his friend then you will accept his gayness and still be friends with him.
Start a band, y'alld be huge.
StArt your next convo off with "So, I sucked this huge the other day..." and see where it goes from there.
its only a question of when he sexually fantazises abbout u orf have any pics of you or male friends with stains on it
The painful part is probably the realization that his gay friend is just not that into him. Maybe he should have a makeover
Personally if that happened to me it'd be a little weird but I wouldn't care that much as long as he didn't try to hit on me or something.
BTW, I don't get this Spurstalk obsession against gays. It's almost as if it's in the Spurstalk rulebook or something.
Probably there really is something to the subconscious (or conscious...) fear of being gay yourself and you're now trying to do everything possible to make sure and/or make it seem you're not gay.
If the "nurse" profession didn't tip it off, this sure should have.We did find a twilight DVD though his stuff.
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Hahah haha haha, good one timvp. Damn you're funny.
have sex with him and if he likes it hes gay
The guy lets you use his house to have a party while he works and you rifle through the personal stuff in his bedroom?
Damn, you SUCK!
He may be gay but you are a ing asshole and don't deserve a friend like that.
There's some funny stuff going on in this thread.
But yeah, big deal. Even if he is attracted to you, big deal. The only way it's an issue is if you're insecure in your own sexuality and think you actually might want to explore things yourself. Otherwise, it's his business, whether he keeps it secret or wants to come out. And, if you're really genuinely friends with him, it shouldn't really matter.
And, yeah, how did you not know already? If he's already working as a nurse, I'm guessing you guys are in the early to mid 20s age range. You probably should know by now or have a good idea that he is.
Uhhhh guys...Nursing is a legitimate career choice for men and women and has nothing to do with being gay. Notice that macho man OP is "borrowing" the nurses house because he doesn't have a place of his own.
I thought all you youngsters were supposed to be "enlightened" and politically correct.
Yup, CC is right there are lot's of straight male nurses. It pays good, a lot less schooling than becoming a doctor, and you still work in the hospitals where it's rumored that everyone sleeps with everyone. I bet there are at least a few hot female workers in any hospital.
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