How is 6'2 190 skinny? I mean just wondering i'm the same height and bout 198, but when i was 190 i was bigger than most 6'2 guys. I guess it depends on how he's built and if he's just got a big belly and the rest is skinny or he actually is overall fit and works out...but 6'2 190 is a pretty damn healthy place to be at just by numbers.
And knowing myself I'd prob not tell her, just because I can be a pussy sometimes when it comes to like that.....but I think you SHOULD tell her before it becomes out of hand. Just all about the approach. All this get her active and eating better , but in a sneaky way is nonsense. Those are good ideas but a smart girl will pick up right away what your really trying to say.
Buying her a juicer would be a great gift that she will enjoy and you'll both reap the benefits.
This was the first reaction of one of my non-forum friends who read this. Spot on.
And I don't like pretty much everything that your chauvinist ass posts. I'm happy we're even.who wants to a chick that's 40+ pounds overweight? I don't like your solution of basically just "deal with it."
Better do it now while you still can.
If she has a mirror she knows what is going on.
Get her addicted to coke.
I'd recommend wearing a cup to the conversation, and to be prepared to fly solo for a while.
yeah. disneyland will be closed for a while if that bridge is crossed.
It's unfair to both parties in the relationship to continue on without addressing the problem. On one hand you have to ask yourself, why should the OP just keep his mouth shut and be with someone he isn't sexually attracted to? On the other hand, it's also unhealthy for the relationship and will only breed problems as time goes on and alienate the couple from eachother. It's not fair to the girl when it seems like the OP is growing more and more distant in their relationship and doesn't seem to love her as much as before because he simply isn't attracted to her and doesn't know how to say it. She will probably even grow insecure and ask herself why and think that it's her, when really it's him. It will just fester and cause insecurities for her and they will probably start fighting before long and the relationship will start to go downhill. The problem is one that should be addressed and not swept under the rug, I'm sorry if you feel that makes me some sort of chauvinist pig but it's the absolute truth and best for both parties.
Tell her she is fat
Are you still alive?
If I were you, I'd start by not being selfish. Rapid weight gain could be the result of physical and/or emotional issues, but you don't seem terribly concerned about that.
I don't know either of you personally, of course, so I don't know what her daily life is, but from your explanation it sounds like she works all day just to come home and veg out in front of the TV? Fun to do every now and then, I know from experience, but not particularly healthy or rewarding in the long term. Might not be a bad idea to tactfully and subtly urge her into new activities or hobbies that aren't necessarily joining you for a game of basketball. If weight hasn't ever been an issue for her previously, involvement in something engaging and rewarding would likely be enough to get her back on track in taking care of herself.
Don't let this happen to you!
Sometimes you just have to tell it like it is and then watch your back.
40+ pounds in 6 months is a very big weight gain. Has she gained a lot of weight before. Does she binge eat?
I think she may have a hormonal issue or is taking some kind of a pill that has hormones in it or prehaps induces more eating.
I said that a while ago and they ignored it. But, again...these are men we're talking about.
Nah. I think it's just you.I said that a while ago and they ignored it. But, again...these are men we're talking about.
Take her to Luby's and order her the Lu Ann platter.
Being told one is fat is bound to make one feel unattractive and become defensive so good luck.
I didn't read anything but the le. Here is my viewpoint. If her weight bothers you, it must be said. However, how things end up....
You know her better than probably everyone here. You must decide how to approach her on this. Just remember that women are hard to confront with some things.
I don't know OP, maybe it's time to just "move along". A big weight gain like that is not normal for most people, but for many women fluctuations (not this big, of course) are normal. If it's already happened, chances are it will happen again. Women gain weight with pregnancy and just age, and if you want to be with her long term you have to accept that this might happen. Of course it's possible she could make a realization for herself and make a major life change, who knows? What concerns me the most is your willingness to discuss the fact that she is sexually repulsive (she will see it this way) to you with strangers on a board, but also seem willing to lie to her that you are only concerned about her health. That it insincere and no one should be in a relationship like that. If the first concern you voiced was about her health it would be different. In a normal real love relationship, sexual attraction happens less and less in your eyes and more in your heart and mind. If you don't feel that is possible for you, why stick around, wasting both your time?
Iv decided to play the waiting game...
Based from the info iv gathered from weight gain, she might have some sort of disorder. I'm posting this via my blackberry in fear she might find this thread in my laptop....
I'm going to probe her a little, without hurting her feelings.
Any tips?
Maybe for San Antonians/texans. I mean i guess if everyone avgs 5'8-5'10 240-250 lbs i guess it would be skinny
change this song to the ringtone for when she calls you
You obviously haven't taken any of my advice but here is some more just in case you want to really take care of this.
Weight gain isn't something that is easy to deal with the good thing though is that you are dealing with a woman. You see a female brain is only about half the size of a male brain. They are easy to manipulate and control once you have tamed them a bit. You are going to need a car battery and a pair of jumper cables. I am assuming that you are smart and have already chained up the refrigerator so that you alone have access. Connect the cables to the battery and connect the other ends to her two forks at the dinner table (again I am assuming that she shovels food in two forks at a time because of the rapid weight gain). Everytime she is allowed to sit down and eat she will pick up her forks and she will feel a shock. After about a month or so of this she will start to realize "Hey, if I eat I will get shocked". Now sometimes they figure out that it's the forks and will just pick up the food by hand. SO you will also need a spray bottle filled with lemon juice. Once she grabs a piece of her food spray the lemon juice in her face.
I know, women are a lot of hassle and almost seem like too much trouble but you have to remember that they have a vagina. So take your time and work with her. Hopefully she hasn't grown a horn yet due to her size but if she has then just grab the horn and direct her to your penis. This will give her the satisfaction of having something in her mouth as well as working off some of her neck fat.
You really shouldn't listen to any of the advice in this thread ...
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