Should I tell my girlfriend that I find her weight gain unattractive???

[spurster]

If you under 200lbs and taller than 6', that is skinny.

6' 2" and 190 lbs. is between 24 and 25 BMI, and 25 is the BMI overweight threshold. Yes, I know BMI has a lot of problems, but 24 is not skinny.

[Big P]

Any updates?

[lefty]

I know !!!


You can email her this link: http://www.spurstalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=113553

But be careful, she might stumble across the thread you have started about her

[tlongII]

Iv decided to play the waiting game...

Based from the info iv gathered from weight gain, she might have some sort of disorder. I'm posting this via my blackberry in fear she might find this thread in my laptop....

I'm going to probe her a little, without hurting her feelings.

Any tips?

Disorder??? LMAO! She eats like a pig and doesn't exercise! I didn't realize being a fat lazy slob was a disorder?

[DisgruntledLionFan#54,927]

Tell her? Of course not.

Continuing to lie to her always works in the long run.

Always.

[I. Hustle]

-You could rig your living room floor to be one huge treadmill. Just hook up the light switch as a start switch and when she goes to turn on the light the treadmill will start.

- put some healthy snacks in a tire and as she flips it over to play with it the snacks will fall out.

- Grease up a chicken and have her try to catch it. I can all but guarantee that after a few months of this she will eat lightnin' and crap thundah. Just be careful she doesn't eat it once she catches it.

- Put a bucket of wings at the top of a hill. Make sure there are fruits and veggies inside though and not actual wings. Once she sees what they are she won't touch them. Put one on the bottom once she reaches the top and just keep repeating. She will be so full of hope that at least once there will be wings that she will keep going for them.

- Put a tray of cupcakes in the middle of a pool and have her swim to it. Make sure you tie a rope to the tray and floatie though so that you can pull it as she gets closer.

[Oh, Gee!!]

tell her very bluntly--you shouldn't hide your feeling if you love her.

[clambake]

tell her to lose weight or you'll go back to your wife.

[JamStone]

Tell her? Of course not.

Continuing to lie to her always works in the long run.

Always.

Ok, say your girlfriend is extremely gorgeous. And, while that's not the only reason you're with her, it's undoubtedly a reason why you're so attracted to her. Say she's on the level of a Beyonce. Now, she starts gaining weight for whatever reason, and gets to the level of of Monique. Continuing to lie to her and telling her that you still find her attractive is going to work in the long run? I'm sorry, but if I started with Beyonce, no way in would I want to end up with Monique. And, having Monique would not work out in the long run for me. Looks aren't everything, but damn, come on.

[DisgruntledLionFan#54,927]

Jam, I wasn't being serious.

I'd have pulled the rip cord and ejected a few months ago.

[Blake]

-You could rig your living room floor to be one huge treadmill. Just hook up the light switch as a start switch and when she goes to turn on the light the treadmill will start.

- put some healthy snacks in a tire and as she flips it over to play with it the snacks will fall out.

- Grease up a chicken and have her try to catch it. I can all but guarantee that after a few months of this she will eat lightnin' and crap thundah. Just be careful she doesn't eat it once she catches it.

- Put a bucket of wings at the top of a hill. Make sure there are fruits and veggies inside though and not actual wings. Once she sees what they are she won't touch them. Put one on the bottom once she reaches the top and just keep repeating. She will be so full of hope that at least once there will be wings that she will keep going for them.

- Put a tray of cupcakes in the middle of a pool and have her swim to it. Make sure you tie a rope to the tray and floatie though so that you can pull it as she gets closer.

- dangle some tasty treats on a string as you circle around her tank at sea world

[ShoogarBear]

Jam, I wasn't being serious.

I'd have pulled the rip cord and ejected a few months ago.

And we all remember what you're willing to put up with.

[circ]

if you're the type that can lose weight easily, maybe you can gradually gain some weight yourself. Then, ask her if you're getting fat and that you're concerned about your own health. just hope she sees the light at that point. if she's good at the fps on xbox make up some bs and challenge her at paintball, then other games she plays but not in the virtual world... basketball, tag/tackle football yadda yadda.

[DisgruntledLionFan#54,927]

And we all remember what you're willing to put up with.

Well, her weight gain was definitely less than 40 pounds.

I wonder if he's a full blown she now.