I really messed up this time....i don't know what to do

[MiamiHeat]

Ok

[exstatic]

To borrow a phrase, you're just not that into her. If you were, even with a few drinks on board, you wouldn't have cheated.

You seem to be blaming everything/everyone but yourself: the alcohol, the chica, no doubt the weather patterns. YOU DID THIS. If this is the way you're presenting it to her, you guys are done already.

My guess is that she dressed and followed you because she has had doubts for a while. I guess you confirmed them. You wanting to leave her at home and go to a party without her is a BIG red flag. I don't care if she has a broken nail and doesn't want to go. You call your cousin with your regrets, order a pizza, and go hit Redbox. Yes, even if she says "No, you go..."

[George Gervin's Afro]

Ok... so last night I went out to my cousin's birthday party. I went alone because she said she had a headache (period was on), so I told her just rest at home. Well, during this party, I just accidentally met and had normal conversation with this cute little latina chick. She got all into me....and I was a little drunk.... well, next thing I know, in my drunken state, we are in a bedroom in my cousin's house and we're in the middle of some "activities".....this girl was kinky and wanted anal....I was drunk, I don't know what came over me but I did it....well... we were in the middle of this as my significant other catches me... she actually got dressed and came to the party to be with me and apparently someone told her where I went. It was not my cousin, though.

Anyway, I don't know what to do. She is very upset at me, and I understand I messed up. It must be a graphic mental image burned into her brain....

I don't know what I can do to make her forgive me, I really messed up this time. She means everything to me and I want to fix this.

can anyone help? advice welcome, please.

you're f*cked.

[BRHornet45]

sons some dude's just lose their damn mind over the mud monkey

[exstatic]

sons some dude's just lose their damn mind over the mud monkey

...and their GFs, apparently.

[KEDA]

Open an account on EHarmony?

[benefactor]

My advice? Stay out of relationships until you are mature enough to handle the responsibility that comes along with them.

[exstatic]

My advice? Stay out of relationships until you are mature enough to handle the responsibility that comes along with them.

+1

1) If she tells you it's over. accept it as gospel. No stalking or begging.
2) everything that moves for one year. Be up front with the girls. No promises of a relationship. You'll realize what a hollow existence that is.
3) Look for a new serious GF, and BE serious this time.

[xXx]

most likely you're full of , but to play along, what you should do is give the cute little latina chick who let you ass pound her after a few minutes of witty conversation a call and see if she want's to go get a drink.

[Kermit]

Well done sir.

[Twisted_Dawg]

She is very upset at me, and I understand I messed up. It must be a graphic mental image burned into her brain....

First of all, is this story even true?

Second, if it is true....... yes she has a graphic mental inage burned into her brain. She will never get over that. How would you have liked it if you had walked in on her and she was deep throating some guy and she made eye contact with you? If she does elect to stay with you, she is the type that likes to be abused and you have all the power.

Last, I may have my players mixed up, but are you the one that was all pissed off at his girlfriend a few months ago because she was 20 mintues late warming your pizza?

[florige]

Well done sir.

Where are these girls in Baltimore?

[Viva Las Espuelas]

Eh. If you were in a different zip code then you're ok. Just bring that to her attention and everything will be allllllright.

[Whisky Dog]

Hot Latina wanting anal first night with you? Nope.

The self righteous responses were gold though. stay out of realtionships until you're mature enough young man!

[JoeyGreco]

You were screwed from the start.

[TDMVPDPOY]

she shouldve offered to join, well if she didnt, then wtf gives a if you burn a few rectums

hit that like you going to break that pelvis

[fraga]

Let her do anal on you...

[Dream Weaver]

Just be glad it was only a dream and you've got fantasies just like the rest of us.

[tlongII]

You ed your cousin? Dude, you're hosed.

[thispego]

anal on the first datE?!?! You better run down to the clinic and get your checked brah! That is once nasty !

But of course, the story isn't true, so you have nothing to worry about.

My advice to you is continue on like nothing ever happened.

[ShoogarBear]

Order her some pizza.

[mookie2001]

Dear diary


Today this 18 year old model made me crash my BMW

[BlackSwordsMan]

did you finish?

[jack sommerset]

Atm?

[robino2001]

did you show her your pimpin pt cruiser?