I resigned from my job at the mall

[ploto]

I will gladly change my perception the day that Bo comes in here and posts that she is sacrificing for him to have his dream- that she is doing something that is NOT what she wants so that he can do what he wants. Until that day, it pretty much appears that she is the one getting what she wants while he puts aside a goal he worked years for and while he works his tail off to be the sole support.

I definitely have a control issue. I am always advising Bo...

But it is ridiculous of how I am always giving him constant suggestions, and instructions, and vetoing or adjusting plans he's made.

...still I constantly interfere and advise and correct.

[J.T.]

I will gladly change my perception the day that Bo comes in here and posts that she is sacrificing for him to have his dream- that she is doing something that is NOT what she wants so that he can do what he wants. Until that day, it pretty much appears that she is the one getting what she wants while he puts aside a goal he worked years for and while he works his tail off to be the sole support.

Homey did what he had to do to get laid.

[remingtonbo2001]

I will gladly change my perception the day that Bo comes in here and posts that she is sacrificing for him to have his dream- that she is doing something that is NOT what she wants so that he can do what he wants. Until that day, it pretty much appears that she is the one getting what she wants while he puts aside a goal he worked years for and while he works his tail off to be the sole support.

Everytime she steps foot into my parents house. That's a sacrifice in and of itself.

Being serious for a moment. Veronica offered to work while I pursued to complete my education. God obviously had a different plan in store for us for the time being.

It is my belief and desire for Veronica to be at home. I have had this belief and desire before I met Veronica.

Honestly, Veronica is the most caring person I know. Personally, I'm shocked by some of the opinions I have encountered. It's obvious some of you have no clue who she is.


Finally...

Joshua 24:15 (NIV), “But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.”

[Bukefal]

Ploto, that is enough!

Given that 95% of your and my discussions have been Rasho or Raptors related, I find it surprising that you presume you have so much inside knowledge into Bo's and my decision making process.

You do not know what you are talking about.

Assume away- but make no mistake, that is all you are doing.

I would like to be on good terms with you but if we cannot communicate honestly then there really is no point.

I was the one who first suggested marriage.

In fact, I was the individual which pushed the issue time and time again.

Veronica was cautious about marriage.



Veronica is a wonderful blessing in my life. Furthermore, the decision for Veronica to spend more time at home was discussed and decided by the both of us. It's a shame that someone would think otherwise.

Everytime she steps foot into my parents house. That's a sacrifice in and of itself.

Being serious for a moment. Veronica offered to work while I pursued to complete my education. God obviously had a different plan in store for us for the time being.

It is my belief and desire for Veronica to be at home. I have had this belief and desire before I met Veronica.

Honestly, Veronica is the most caring person I know. Personally, I'm shocked by some of the opinions I have encountered. It's obvious some of you have no clue who she is.


Finally...

Joshua 24:15 (NIV), “But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.”

I dont want to join your discussion and all. But what I dont get is, why the are you two throwing your personal/private life and matters out in the open on a freakin forum? And afterwards wondering why people say some things you dont like and being shocked of peoples responses and them not knowing how you are. It's a matter which means much to you and to others.

[leemajors]

It is my belief and desire for Veronica to be at home. I have had this belief and desire before I met Veronica.

Bo = God?

[J.T.]

why the are you two throwing your personal/private life and matters out in the open on a freakin forum?

Because there's a little attention in all of us.

[gollum]

whatever helps you sleep at night man.

[angel_luv]

Bo, thank you very, very much for your kinds posts about me. You are my hero.

[angel_luv]

I just do not get the notion that if things turn out the way someone wants, then that equates to God's will. Whose to say that you are supposed to be all complacent and comfortable. God should be making you uncomfortable at times, in my view.

The end does not mean that the journey was the correct one.

Ploto, I will admit that the tone of your posts to me in the past few months has both stung and suprised me. I considered you and I to be friends of sorts- in the regard that we have corresponded so much about the Raptors.
But to me the language of your posts gives no indication that you find me tolerable, much less likeable.

I am sure that were I to set my hurt feelings aside, I would find wisdom to be gained from your posts. That has been very difficult for me to do so far, but I plan to keep a better perspective in the future.

[benefactor]

Because there's a little attention in all of us.

In psychiatric circles we call this "channeling your inner borderline."

[mouse]

The Snagit page got in the way and I am not on that laptop anymore but you can see in the background the software.

[desflood]

Wow Angel, did you ever think that such a simple announcement - "Hey guys, I'm quitting my mall job," - would lead to such venom? For a self-professed "good girl", you sure have a talent for stirring up trouble.

[mouse]

this is a prototype badge we may use, I was drinking beer so don't mind the mistakes.

[DisAsTerBot]

this is a prototype badge we may use, I was drinking beer so don't mind the mistakes.

it's a sign!!!!

[mrsmaalox]

I don't really have the patience to participate in these back and forth pissing contests, but I have been reading, and whatever Angel's reasons are for quitting that job, it seems like a lot of people think that her ulterior motive is to live a leisurely, fantasy life while Bo sacrifices and works his fingers to the bone to support her. She's only quitting one of her two jobs.

[clambake]

why don't you work at a church?

[Blake]

You can even assure yourself that quitting your job was the right thing because you made a meatloaf.

I loled

[spursfan09]

And Bo seems like a big boy capable of making decisions. I'm sure they worked it out before telling us. I don't see the problem in quitting one of her jobs. Why stress over 2 jobs? It's not like she couldn't get another one. Anyway, some woman like to stay home and take care it. That's fine! Just don't judge those that can't. LOL. Like me.

[Pero]

why don't you work at a church?

Because she's not a little boy.

[clambake]

Because she's not a little boy.

zing

[MannyIsGod]

This thread delivers.

[clambake]

This thread delivers.

yes it does.

he says they made the decision together.......yet she admits to manipulating every aspect of their life.

[Blake]

I didn't get pwned and humiliated brah, you know how many people contacted me outside the forums congratulating me and laughing their asses off about that whole thing?

i never said anything that wasn't 100% true throughout that entire battle, IMHO.

yes you did, whether you and the thousands of your slappy friends know it or not.

you trying to "battle" the owner of the message board is pwnage from the start.

but yeah i've lightened up on the trolling, in a totally unrelated set of cir stances. people are stepping their game up on this board or as timvp likes to call it "raising the bar," so there's less idiots for me to with and more intelligent conversation to participate in. simple as that

you've lightened up in a totally unrelated set of cir stances?

that's funny.

Keep telling yourself you won the "battle".

[MannyIsGod]

Veronica will learn the lessons may of us have learned eventually: there is some you just don't post on the internet.

I don't think she's a bad person at all, and I'm sure she's try to gold dig Bo so she can sit at home and eat bon bons, BUT I LOLed when Bo said that he was the one who brought up marriage etc etc. We all do what we gotta do for sex.

I think Bo and Veronica are good people even though they strike me as bat crazy. Then again most of the world strikes me as bat crazy and at least I can count on them to procreate the child stars of Jesus Camp 2: The 2nd generation which will provide me with some good entertainment.

[symple19]

Veronica will learn the lessons may of us have learned eventually: there is some you just don't post on the internet.

I don't think she's a bad person at all, and I'm sure she's try to gold dig Bo so she can sit at home and eat bon bons, BUT I LOLed when Bo said that he was the one who brought up marriage etc etc. We all do what we gotta do for sex.

I think Bo and Veronica are good people even though they strike me as bat crazy. Then again most of the world strikes me as bat crazy and at least I can count on them to procreate the child stars of Jesus Camp 2: The 2nd generation which will provide me with some good entertainment.