I have some idea of what this cat went through. My older brother died in an accident and a bully at school used the opportunity to rub my face in it. Called my dead brother every name in the book in an attempt to get a reaction out of me. It sucked and still haunts me to this day that I was the bigger man, ignored him, and didn't beat him senseless. Dude spit on me, pushed me, and even insintuated that my brother killed himself to keep from having to live with me. I always swore that one day when I saw him again, I'd Will Hunting his ass.
Now, having seen this....
I'm really glad I went about it the way I did.