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thats pretty disgusting
Within a couple of days, next weekend tops, I'll have slept with a girl who's seven years my junior (she's 19, I'm 26). I have no interest in anything but her sexy-ass body. I have no idea how long I'll remain interested in that.
FWIW, for months I've held out, desperately trying not to take this foul-mouthed route... but man, the gods just kept flinging this teenage girl at me like a piece of meat to a hungry carnivore and well, like most men, I could only resist so much for so long. I caved last night, got a bj and I'm taking her out tomorrow. Now I'm literally panicking about the deprivation.
Obviously, this will not end well. There will be consequences for both our psyches; she'll feel used, I'll feel guilty for acting on a creepy troglodytic impulse. Ideas on mitigating the inevitable damage? Do you think she even knows what this is? Thoughts or advice in general?
thats pretty disgusting
It's just ing sex.
remember she's acting out on an electra complex and youre just being a man. if you can get that thought instilled in your head and nothing else, it's alot easier to brush her aside. do it quickly, too, because if you hang out with her long enough, you'll start thinking like a 19 year old teenager.
call her, tell her it was all a misunderstanding, and smoke a bowl to clear your head. good luck.
I wouldn't feel bad if I were you. Unless you promised you would marry her, lol, you don't owe her anything.
Have you ever heard of Savage Love? Savage talks about the campsite rule when it comes to these situations (although he means more of a Mrs. Robinson type scenario).
Always leave the younger party in better shape than you found them.
Most guys will probably disagree with me, but honesty is always the best policy. If you are honest with her that you aren't interested in anything more than a fling, you both go in with your eyes open. It might mean that you don't get to sleep with her, but then at least you avoid the fallout too.
Now that is a great rule. Corrupting youth is not a policy that helps anyone.
Showing her this thread and the ensuing responses will most likely suffice.
I'm too into my own head, so I'm going to go get some beers and watch Utah lose and then I'll check this thread again when my mind is more... limber. Thanks for the advice now and in advance.
I still don't see where God fits in all this.
This.
Tell her up front your not looking for anything past what happens that night. If she walks, she walks, but at least you will be free from your guilt.
Just don't get her pregnant. Then things will begin to suck
...or you could read the OP.
We need some female commentary in here. Surely a woman's perspective on the best way to approach situations like this would be valuable.
I'll say it again though, like most situations in life, honesty is what leads to better long-term outcomes.
Stop being a wuss and hit it and quit it.
Hit that , hit that and don't look back
...which, from the way he describes the situation, would be totally ignoring her feelings. It sounds like she's into him and he knows it, but he's not into her, so he'd just be putting on an act to stick his in her, thus the conflicted situation. If he wasn't conflicted about it he wouldn't have brought it up.If negotiating sex works for you, then great, but most girls don't want to hear "I only want you for sex, and nothing more."
I don't "negotiate" sex, but I am clear about my intentions, that way no one can get hurt regardless of what happens. It might mean that you don't get to sleep with her, but then at least you avoid the fallout for both parties.
you should give do an old fashion bukkake and take a pic with your phone while she's still in the throes of passion
I'm not sure your advice was all that sound because it ignores the fact that he's already written her off, while she may well be trying to impress him with the head to "lock him in". The unknown here is how innocent she is. His heart is already not in it, and that is the genesis of this thread.I never knew it was that serious. , she already gave him head, so we know what her intentions are.Sounds likes he's just being passive about it and may have some respect for her, especially since he's taking her out. If she's doesn't ask what his intentions are, then it should be played by ear. Me personally, I'll tell them I'm interested in marriage if need be, but I was just giving him some sound advice.
You have to be careful with young hearts.
ain't you the same mother er who was going to slit his wrists cause you didnt have a with which to deposit your semen
Maybe 10 years ago, today, no. I grew up.
Reckoning is on his way to Utah right now to swoop inremember she's acting out on an electra complex and youre just being a man. if you can get that thought instilled in your head and nothing else, it's alot easier to brush her aside. do it quickly, too, because if you hang out with her long enough, you'll start thinking like a 19 year old teenager.
call her, tell her it was all a misunderstanding, and smoke a bowl to clear your head. good luck
"do what you want with her and then broom her fast"
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