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Parents that use belts on kids are sick. A coat hanger works much better.
I think DF meant she would have called the police if the Mom was out of control beating her little kid.
Parents that use belts on kids are sick. A coat hanger works much better.
Only if it's wooden, Mommie Dearest!!!
It sure does take a big person to hurt a little person.
Some people just have kids to beat them. It makes no sense to me to make sweet love to a woman, have her bare my children...then let her whip/spank our creation because she has failed, ON HER END, to raise a conscientious child that will not act a fool in public. Not in my house, woman.
Buncha poons in this thread.
Maybe the Mom should actually be watching a five year old who is outside in the front yard. The fact that she did not even see him doing this and had to have someone call her and tell her...
This is something I have a problem with as well. Almost all of my neighbors seem to let their kids roam the neighborhood unsupervised for long periods of time. It's a pretty safe place, we've never really had crime on our street, but I feel overprotective sometimes being the only parent actually watching their kids when they are playing outside.
She failed . . . on HER end . . .
And what about your Mr. Bell, how about YOUR end?? Are your kids not your responsibility?
I do have a small problem with this. I guess I feel like I shouldn't have a problem with this because 5 years old was about the time that my friends and I were allowed to go out by ourselves (just to eachother's houses which were all within 2 blocks of eachother), but since it is a different time, I guess this shouldn't be the case.
My thoughts exactly ...
You don't have to beat your child to teach a lesson.
Whats a 5 year old doing outside unsupervised in the first place.
Nothing wrong with a bit spanking, now a belt is a bit too much. Ordinary spanking is normal, that's just how nature is.
I cant stand these new softie generation of parents who try to have civilized conversations and meetings, evaluations with a child and expecting that the child; a. gives a , b. understands what they are saying and c. being on the same level.
Spanking is normal and effective and yes also tell him/her what is bad.
Giving Mr Bell the benefit of the doubt, I believe me means in that instant, when she whips out the belt and starts hurting her child, she is failing to control her anger and show the child compassion. I completely agree with what he said.
Well he is saying that she failed on her end to raise a conciencious child, and since he was talking about the raising of the child which takes much longer than that "instant" I questioned his role in the raising of his children.
sorry but kid raising isn't traditionally the man's errand in American and most European countries, which differs from the sissy land you're from.
you have to agree with someone who speaks to the truth instead of one dumb sissy ass, despite how much fetish you have for dumb asses. Beating kids sometimes just works as women's gimmick for pissing off their men or for drawing attentions from the males, while the innocent kids are always rammed into the horde of victims. no man could ever get a clue how a woman thinks, I think.
Which makes American men sissies. Raising kids is hard.
At least I know why kids today are such assholes and little s. It's because you gots are too pussy to discipline them and rely on "a stern talking to."
While I agree with much of the sentiments recently posted (some women projecting their frustrations on children, men being told they need to take more responsibility of their children when women are so often awarded custody like it's an automatic and, my favorite, women doing dumb things instead of watching their babies then getting pissy at the kids for the woman's own shortcomings)...I do think it's possible tap into how a Woman thinks and feels, and that's part of the "creation" process you have with that Woman (or Women, in some cases). If she knows that you want to bring love into this world through her, and she wants to share and bare in that love, SHE WILL FEEL how wrong it is to bruise that creation in the event of a disturbance in the force.
Alls I'm saying is, hitting your babies teaches them to be FEARFUL instead of WHY certain things are not good. They learn to avoid consequences, not bad actions. But I'd never call the cops on anyone, it's not MY baby getting hit AND CPS seems to do more harm to children these days.
Once again, you are focusing solely on the woman's part in the raising, dads are part of the raising too. Woman aren't the only ones who spank, men spank too. You seem to keep shying away from your responsibility as the father for your kids' upbringing. Very telling.
As to peetee, even though I know you are a troll, I will say this; what flag is next to my name?
If you are dug that deep in your own agenda to see what I wrote, then anything else I say will just feed your criticism irregardless if I'm even making a marginally sustainable point that applies to more people than myself.
I don't know your situation, but it seems like you have bigger issues with this topic so I'll refrain from being a stand-in for the men in your life that shy away from "responsibility."
Parenting is a tough job and most don't agree on what type of discipline, if any to use. I've spanked my kids , not beat or abused, but I have spanked them and I've also used "time out" and also take away privileges as part of the consequences of their actions. Kids respond differently and as a parent one must learn to use and adapt to what works best for them and their child. There are no absolutes, IMO, when it comes to discipline.
lmao
There is no emotional anguish from being spanked. The kid shouldn't have been ing around. It's teaching a lesson not physical abuse. There's a difference.
i am down for kicking kids asses; two ways they will learn... fall and hurt yourself or get spanked
No emotional anguish for getting your ass kicked. Maybe if the kid is a pussy.
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