Craigslist W4M?
I joined a local dating service today!
What can I say I work 18 hours a day sometimes and when I am not on the computer at work I am on the computer off work. The bottom-line I don't get out much. I do go to the local Valaro gas station everyday and flirt with the cashiers but they are Gay. And even if they weren't gay that is not what i call meeting people.
I already know most of the girls/women in this forum are taken so I didn't bother PMing anyone.
Well it only took an hour before my IN box was loaded with offers to meet someone so tonight I go on my first date, (the other dates were with computer people of this forum they were really GTGs) This is an actual date.
I hope it doesn't turn out like that lady I fixed her laptop last month and she gave me some wine coolers ....long story short... I almost had to change my cell phone number, she got like the fatal Attraction movie. You can read about it in the TRoll forum.
Anyway if your interested in my dates I will post updates. if your not, then why are you reading this?
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so you flirt with gay men and wonder why you don't get any?
Dude check out the forums.
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Last edited by mouse; 05-08-2010 at 09:57 AM.
Pm me if you want more details!
senior friend finder in the link? ew.
Buena fortuna on your search, Mouse.
Hope it goes well mouse.
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Wait, did you actually post your picture or did you photoshop one of your pictures? Be sure to talk yourself up about how many trolls you have on Spurstalk, that's usually a panty droper line.
I'm breakin' out the steel tips for this because surely this won't be easy.
What, you're leaving me? I thought we were happy together!
Signed,
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I don't know. I think Gas stations are a great place to meet men/women.
He hasn't replied back, he must be having sexual intercourse with a tranny right about now.
The date to me was a complete waste of time all I could think about was Kim. How long does a 14 year relationship supposed to linger on? Do I need to have sex to help speed up the process?
I was hoping after 80 dollars of over priced margaritas my date would say, "thanks, had a great time, see you online" But it didn't happen she had plans for my ass. She asked if we could swing by her place. Instead of a cab I got in her mini van. (red flag) She said come inside don't be rude I won't take long. We were a few blocks from the Mission drive in (red flag #2) I could hear her arguing with the baby sitter when I heard the babysitter say "that's not fair Mom!" (red flag #3) I heard the young girl say "who did you bring home this time?" (red flag #4)
I heard a never mind who I bring home and don't you try and him? Did I hear that correctly? Is that a red flag or a good thing?
WTF have I got myself into? She asked me to hold her 6 month old baby while she looks for her diaper rash cream and that's when I started to dial 222-2222 on my cell phone.
As soon as I saw an opening I laid the baby in the crib and walked out the back door where I could hear her on the phone telling some other guy to wait an hour and to come over with beer. The cab company needed an address so I just said Mission road and sw military dr. It was a good walk and I could see the cab had just got there so it worked out great. The funny thing was the cab driver asked to see my wallet. Apparently in that area lately a few white men have been getting robbed and calling cabs without any money on them. I wonder what their screen names could be.
In a way i feel bad leaving a half naked crying baby on a nasty out of date crib but I wasn't going to wait around for red flag #5
Sorry if my first date was boring and it did not live up to any of the hype I will try and do better next time.
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This is my first time commenting on this whole mouse issue...so forgive me if it goes on for a while....
Seriously, I'm all for openness online, mouse. I love me some social media. But in a very open searchable sports message board? I'm all for you moving on after a long term relationship. Go forbid you find some wonderful woman who tops the cherry to your sundae....I'm glad. But I don't need to know the details of the whole date. Swinging by some random thread and saying "Yah! Had a great date!" Is fine...but knowing all the red flags, her address, how many kids she had, and why she was a hoe....is not necessary. God only knows the site you've been pimping is going to be searched and is going to come up in google in this thread. And she'll find it...or so will some other potential date. You're a nerd..don't you google things before you use it? You're just hurting yourself by sharing all this stuff in an open forum, I think. And sure I could scroll past the thread..and I can...
If you want to share all this stuff get on facebook, myspace, etc. Something more private where people you can pick and choose who you share all this juicy information with. It's in your best interest if you're going to be talking about dirty details of post relationship dating. So potential dates don't find out you talk crap about them post date.
Yes, I might overshare here. You all know what type of work I do here. You may know the area of town I work in. You may know the part of town I work in. But you don't know the name of my company, what type of car I drive, what type of work my parents do, or my relationship details (or lack there of...honestly...) because there are some things that I don't think should be searchable for everyone in the whole world to find.
I'm just preaching caution. I overshare on facebook. Ask some of Spurstalk that are my friends there. They know too much about me (namely my obsession with Hanson and reality TV), but if you search my name on google you wouldn't know that...because if I was on a dating website those are kind of things i would want to tell my date...not something I would want them to know right off the bat.
I know it's your personality to share things here. And I may not help change your view on sharing the dirty details of every date or the failure of every date here...but I just want to know that it may be detremental to the future of your non-singleness to tell all of us about it.
And I doubt the feelings you have for Kim will go away quickly. I've never been married, been in a long term relationship, etc...but I've taken enough psychology classes, watched enough Lifetime movies and watched enough TLC specials on love to know that a month and a half, two months isn't enough time. Take some time for yourself. I know it's rough to be single. But ease into it. Don't think that the first date will lead to "Miss Right."
Wow who knew I needed to lose Kim and be-little myself with on-line dating to get ashbeeigh to reply to one of my topics?
I didn't mean to pimp any site I just wanted some to see this was a legit on-line date and I wanted to show where i got the date I apologize if Google sends some horny,undesirables to this site that was not my intentions I may delete the links.
Good advise i will remember this thanks!And I doubt the feelings you have for Kim will go away quickly. I've never been married, been in a long term relationship, etc...but I've taken enough psychology classes, watched enough Lifetime movies and watched enough TLC specials on love to know that a month and a half, two months isn't enough time. Take some time for yourself. I know it's rough to be single. But ease into it. Don't think that the first date will lead to "Miss Right."![]()
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It's not that I don't want to reply, it's that much of the things that I want to say have already been said.
And as far as easing into it, finding someone else, consider some type of classes, finding some other activities. I know you work a lot, but when you're not working get out and do something aside form computer stuff... The local school district (wherever you are living now) probably community classes in the summer. Sign up for something out of your realm of comfort, like art or cooking (you do eat fast food a ton). You'll meet lots of people that way. And it doesn't always have to be "hey let's go out on a date and do it." right a way. Let's go grab some coffee, etc. before.
And if you're really set on online dating check okcupid.com. I love that site (and it's free). It has a unique way of matching people based on your answers to questions and how you rank how you would want a match to answer the same question.
What a weird thing for Ash to rant about.
Exactly what I was thinking. Maybe someone "kissed and myspace dissed" on her once...
hahahahaha. No.
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