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I would divorce/leave her period.
with a kid of someone else, how would you deal with it. The imagined situation is your wife has confessed the affair with another man and she's sure the kid is not yours, but she's willing to give a life to this kid. genuinely she solicits your forgiveness and your permission, not only for herself but the kid. Would you accept this kid regarding it as an adopted child, or would you insist that you wife should abort this shameful pregnancy?
I would divorce/leave her period.
I read a couple years ago that "experts estimate" that 10%+ of babies of married couples don't have the unknowing legal father as biological father.
Good thing both of you guys are gay...
Unless the couple is white, and the baby comes out looking like Shaq with a fro and a 5" junk.
Damn, what a buzz kill.
That.
Granted she didn't threaten me with aborting the baby if I did.
i wouldn't give a either way. i'd push for a speedy divorce!
I wouldn't risk the life of the baby. I couldn't allow her to terminate life.
If she is broke, leave that hoe ASAP.
If she has money, forgive her and milk that money. At the same time start an affair with her sister/cousin/best friend. Use her money for s, booze, etc. Have a great time, you will never get a chance to have such a good time than this. Also spoil the little bas as much as you can.
Once the little bas becomes unbearable, or you get tired of her sister/cousin/best friend(whichever comes first), break the news to her and say bye bye.
Last edited by in2deep; 08-10-2010 at 09:42 AM.
didn't you read. It's not yours.
so in exchange you're pretty much aborting your life then? why would you give her the satisfaction of knowing you're not man enough to break it off? doesn't make much sense to me but whatever.
like i said before, i'd split in a heartbeat! i don't go for cheaters.
I wouldn't want her to abort but it is not like I couldn't allow her to.
I'm with you on that.
Yes
I didn't say I was going to stay with her. I'd definitely leave her.
I know. Neither could I. It's her choice. I value life. If she were to have pulled that I would do my best to convince her otherwise. After a while I'd know I did everything in my power to make her not abort the baby. As long as I know I did my best, it wouldn't matter to me what she did with her baby. That's all on her. Adios.
elaborate, what exactly would you do?
That.
Cheating is the point of no return for me.
I don't have details but I would do my best to try and talk her out of aborting the kid. That is if she threatened me with that when I tell her I'm out. Sorry, man. I can't give you the this and the that.
so you would have a talk with her. well she is an adult and since you are not the daddy will just take your opinion as a friend's.
I thought you meant you would stay with her until you convince her.
chances are that you'll end up paying for that baby.
Oh, no.
That is a correct statement. Sucks but it is true.
If you couldn't or can't (EVER) stop a woman from cheating on you, what makes you think you can stop the stupid from having an abortion.
Or stop her from doing anything for that matter.
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