My fiancee just left me

[BUMP]

when we grow up and deal with women, it's too late and some woman has us by the balls, ripped our heart out and leave us a s of our former self.

Never let that happen. Problem with most guys is that they're so scared of losing a girl that they will suc b to being whipped. That's why you gotta make them 'chase' you. You gotta know how to pull the strings but not pull too much. Rarely ever text them first, short funny responses, and give em their space. Basically, act like you don't give a and they will be begging for the . Always works for me.

Sure, some girls will not play my mind games, and leave me but losing one girl bothers me about as much as gum at the bottom of the shoe. Other guys act like it's the end of the world.

Of course, this is totally different than Findog's situation which is a lot more serious. I wish you the best my friend.

[Gutter92]

Never let that happen. Problem with most guys is that they're so scared of losing a girl that they will suc b to being whipped. That's why you gotta make them 'chase' you. You gotta know how to pull the strings but not pull too much. Rarely ever text them first, short funny responses, and give em their space. Basically, act like you don't give a and they will be begging for the . Always works for me.

Sure, some girls will not play my mind games, and leave me but losing one girl bothers me about as much as gum at the bottom of the shoe. Other guys act like it's the end of the world.

Of course, this is totally different than Findog's situation which is a lot more serious. I wish you the best my friend.

What if I just got my first text message from a girl. Should I try what you said, or should I be completely interested because I don't wanna go on a 18 year dry spell again?

[Giuseppe]

Seriously, BUMP, how can there be any trust or quality using your methods & protocol? Where is the love in your scenarios? How would recognize it if it were even there, BUMP?

[NRHector]

What if I just got my first text message from a girl. Should I try what you said, or should I be completely interested because I don't wanna go on a 18 year dry spell again?

18 yrs? damn now you got issues there my friend

[HarlemHeat37]

Sucks to hear Finny, break ups are disgusting..also, even though it's cliche, the fact that she would leave you without even giving a reason looks really bad on her, you might be better off..

[Giuseppe]

the fact that she would leave you without even giving a reason looks really bad on her, you might be better off..

Har is accurate. It's reprehensible.

[DeadlyDynasty]

Seriously, BUMP, how can there be any trust or quality using your methods & protocol? Where is the love in your scenarios? How would recognize it if it were even there, BUMP?

This isn't the 50's...What was once romance and "wooing" is now stalking.

Plus, you just don't wanna look desperate.

[BUMP]

Seriously, BUMP, how can there be any trust or quality using your methods & protocol? Where is the love in your scenarios? How would recognize it if it were even there, BUMP?

Cubby, it's just to start off. You're not gonna fall in love with somebody you're first text messages lol. Then again, I'm not an expert in TRUE relationships. I feel like it's kind of a waste of time in college at the moment.

I've had a fling with a sorority girl for almost a whole year but we've never fully gone out, and we've messed around with other people and it doesn't bother us at all.

No heartbreak or drama, the way it's supposed to be.

[MiamiHeat]

1) All women are crazy

2) Love them, but never take them seriously

[Giuseppe]

This isn't the 50's...What was once romance and "wooing" is now stalking.

I guess. I threw a snowball at Katie-girl 40 years ago because I wanted to meet her. It worked.

[BUMP]

What if I just got my first text message from a girl. Should I try what you said, or should I be completely interested because I don't wanna go on a 18 year dry spell again?

If she texted you first, you're in a great position. She def. likes you. Just go with the flow. Don't text back anything crazy or serious . Just keep it light throw in a "haha" with your messages (works every time) then they will feel comfortable.

I see guys all the time act like creeps or freak girls out by telling them all your personal after you know them for like a day.

[DeadlyDynasty]

I guess. I threw a snowball at Katie-girl 40 years ago because I wanted to meet her. It worked.

that would land you a couple days in the slammer with an assault charge now

[Giuseppe]

1) All women are crazy

Yes. It's the menstrual thing that drives 'em.

[DeadlyDynasty]

If she texted you first, you're in a great position. She def. likes you. Just go with the flow. Don't text back anything crazy or serious . Just keep it light throw in a "haha" with your messages (works every time) then they will feel comfortable.

I see guys all the time act like creeps or freak girls out by telling them all your personal after you know them for like a day.

Bump is wise

[HarlemHeat37]

I'd like to hear Darrin's advice on this subject, TBH..

[DUNCANownsKOBE2]

I'd like to hear Darrin's advice on this subject, TBH..

I'd rather hear Aaron's, tbh.

[HarlemHeat37]

yeah above all else you can't let these girls dictate your life..really you should have had a "routine" and been hooping and doing things you enjoy all along..

I don't really understand guys that change their lives around, TBH..

I've been with my girl for almost 5 years now..we've gotten in a lot of fights due to me ditching her and not calling, or being late and whatever, but neither of us have actually "changed" any part of our "routines" or hobbies or whatever for the other..ya, sometimes you obviously have to do something you aren't interested in doing, but I do see a lot of people in relationships that neglect their boys or stop showing up to , just to be with their girl all the time..if you have to do that, your relationship is going to end badly at some point IMO, it's a given IMO..

I know 3-4 guys that stopped showing up to games/street in favor of a girl in the past year..

[Giuseppe]

What does she look like, Har? Is she proportionate?

[Ace]

Cubby, it's just to start off. You're not gonna fall in love with somebody you're first text messages lol. Then again, I'm not an expert in TRUE relationships. I feel like it's kind of a waste of time in college at the moment.

I've had a fling with a sorority girl for almost a whole year but we've never fully gone out, and we've messed around with other people and it doesn't bother us at all.

No heartbreak or drama, the way it's supposed to be.

Its actually how I met my wife. She's the one who stuck around while I BSed around. Its like a filter.

[NRHector]

I don't really understand guys that change their lives around, TBH..

I've been with my girl for almost 5 years now..we've gotten in a lot of fights due to me ditching her and not calling, or being late and whatever, but neither of us have actually "changed" any part of our "routines" or hobbies or whatever for the other..if you have to do that, you're relationship is going to end badly at some point IMO, it's a given IMO..

you sound like if you are married already, are you?

[DAF86]

Best way to deal with a breakup is to don't isolate yourself. Get out of your house, go see your friends, do stuff and go out at night.

[HarlemHeat37]

you sound like if you are married already, are you?

Nope, we don't live together, it would probably break us up..

We're already in agreement that the next breakup is the last one..

[benefactor]

Sucks to hear that bro. The right one is out there. , if someone will put up with me for 9 years then there has to be someone for everyone.

[Giuseppe]

Best way to deal with a breakup is to don't isolate yourself. Get out of your house, go see your friends, do stuff and go out at night.

DAF, the voice of reason & moderation in troubled times.

[NRHector]

Nope, we don't live together, it would probably break us up..

We're already in agreement that the next breakup is the last one..

great, keep it like that