Cheating

[mrsmaalox]

What exactly do you want Fpoon? A relationship or the noncommittal "porn scene"? It seems to me that you are barking up the wrong tree either way

I think you are smart enough not to look to an involved person for something meaningful. And finding porn-like no strings attached sex should be easy enough if you are honest with yourself and the other party. Tons of willing ty women out there who don't come attached to other guys.

Kinda looks like you are getting a thrill from living dangerously. Deep down the possibility of getting caught adds to the excitement, but is it worth the risk to yourself and all of the other parties that can potentially be affected.

[Fpoonsie]

What exactly do you want Fpoon? A relationship or the noncommittal "porn scene"? It seems to me that you are barking up the wrong tree either way

I think you are smart enough not to look to an involved person for something meaningful. And finding porn-like no strings attached sex should be easy enough if you are honest with yourself and the other party. Tons of willing ty women out there who don't come attached to other guys.

Kinda looks like you are getting a thrill from living dangerously. Deep down the possibility of getting caught adds to the excitement, but is it worth the risk to yourself and all of the other parties that can potentially be affected.

I want...what I can get. However, I think/hope I'm level-headed enough to differentiate between what kinda person would fill each role. For instance, THIS chick that's coming over, I would never want a relationship with her. She simply said a few days ago that she's "a cheater" and "starting to get that itch" (granted, not the best choice of words when looking for some , but alas). I, on the other hand, am/was going through a record-setting dry spell. Lengthy enough, to where I think my hymen has fully grown back. I would like a relationship. I love being in a relationship. I just haven't had any luck w/ "that girl."

[Axe Murderer]

Lengthy enough, to where I think my hymen has fully grown back.

[silverblk mystix]

I want...what I can get. However, I think/hope I'm level-headed enough to differentiate between what kinda person would fill each role. For instance, THIS chick that's coming over, I would never want a relationship with her. She simply said a few days ago that she's "a cheater" and "starting to get that itch" (granted, not the best choice of words when looking for some , but alas). I, on the other hand, am/was going through a record-setting dry spell. Lengthy enough, to where I think my hymen has fully grown back. I would like a relationship. I love being in a relationship. I just haven't had any luck w/ "that girl."

I have seen this a million times...

You are setting yourself up for a lot of heartache...

If anyone would take my bet...I would bet the house that you will become attached to this girl after she convinces you...

that...she NEVER does this...

she really feels DIFFERENT...with you...

she really loves YOU...and would NEVER cheat on you...

then you will follow her around like a little lost puppy-dog...

until....

she gets that "itch" again....

then you will wonder why this happened to you...

[Fpoonsie]

If anyone would take my bet...I would bet the house that you will become attached to this girl after she convinces you...

that...she NEVER does this...

She's already insisted she's a "cheater", so I'm fully aware she ALWAYS does this. And I'm not arrogant enough to think that she'd change for me, even if I thought she WAS relationship material...have you missed my self-deprecating jokes?

[silverblk mystix]

She's already insisted she's a "cheater", so I'm fully aware she ALWAYS does this. And I'm not arrogant enough to think that she'd change for me, even if I thought she WAS relationship material...have you missed my self-deprecating jokes?

Not at all...I just know the complications that arise when you start banging someone...

it never fails...

things start out as no-strings, sex-only, nothing serious,etc...

but if I know anything in this life...it's that women need drama...and know how to reel in guys that are unsure of what they are doing...or guys that still have a little bit of a conscience...

and boy-are they good at it....

also...

within 5 minutes...a woman will KNOW exactly--how much she can get away with - with a certain guy...she will instantly know if she can put you in the palm of her hand at any moment...

I hope you resist...since you claim to already know her game...and I hope I am wrong about you...

but I have cash on hand....$$$$

[CuckingFunt]

So far, you're making the most sense.

Funny how people always go with the advice that gets them laid.

The idea that the person in the relationship is the only one in the wrong is bull , by the way. You're not looking for ethical clarification by starting this thread, rather justification for what you are already apparently planning to do.

To that end, more power to you if you think you can live with it. I'm not one to judge, especially since I haven't been innocent all my life as far as these things go. I will say, however, that being the person on the side usually ends up taking a lot of work and I've discovered over the years that I'm far too lazy to go to that much trouble. Even really good pussy isn't worth the energy it takes to sneak around, coordinate alibis, or get laid according to someone else's boyfriend's schedule.

[ALVAREZ6]

even more reason not to cheat. Most girls turn ing nuts when they find out if you cheated, if this girl was nuts in her normal stage.......



tbh, you just need to find hobbies that are more important than girls. when I was in high school, I was the exact same way. If a girl would ignore me, break up with me I would think about it for weeks sometimes months. then I discovered that playing basketball, running, lifting weights, etc just completely relieved all the stress. for me, just playing basketball has gotten me through a lot in life. not just relationships but every stressful situation

really good advice, I've especially used basketball, working out, etc. to relieve a lot of stress. When gets tough, you gotta go back to basics and just be a simple guy, enjoy the simple things in life while you still can.

[silverblk mystix]

Funny how people always go with the advice that gets them laid.

The idea that the person in the relationship is the only one in the wrong is bull , by the way. You're not looking for ethical clarification by starting this thread, rather justification for what you are already apparently planning to do.

To that end, more power to you if you think you can live with it. I'm not one to judge, especially since I haven't been innocent all my life as far as these things go. I will say, however, that being the person on the side usually ends up taking a lot of work and I've discovered over the years that I'm far too lazy to go to that much trouble. Even really good pussy isn't worth the energy it takes to sneak around, coordinate alibis, or get laid according to someone else's boyfriend's schedule.

You nailed it.

The effort & energy that it takes is way too high a price for a little pleasure.

There are more important things to invest so much of yourself on.

Yes, she is the one cheating on her boyfriend-but you are also contributing.

[tlongII]

If you ain't cheatin you ain't tryin!

[Axe Murderer]

really good advice, I've especially used basketball, working out, etc. to relieve a lot of stress. When gets tough, you gotta go back to basics and just be a simple guy, enjoy the simple things in life while you still can.

ya thats a good way of putting it

[tlongII]

But seriously...banging your best friend's girlfriend??? That's messed up dude. Even for me...

[symple19]

Are you so inept at getting pussy that you have to resort to piledriving some skank with an enormous boyfriend?

C'mon dude. You seem like a smart guy. Hooking up with chicks you work with is the ultimate in laziness. Get your ass out there and find a chick who's worthy of your time, not to mention single. Workplace fling rarely end well, in my experience.

1. If the BF finds out, he can track you down easily
2. If you break it off with her, and it pisses her off, she can make your life at work...rumors, backstabbing, etc, which may even lead to your job being in jeopardy
3. Since you work with her, you have to see her all the ing time. This is my personal #1 reason for having never dated women I work with.
4. Sneaking,alibi's,lying... all are pussylike traits. These are things you'll be doing

IMO, you're better off with your hand and some porn for now. Aren't you in school? I have no doubt there are a plethora of es closer to your peer group to be had. Get to some bars with your buddies, join an adult sports league, go to the gym. Don't settle for being "the other guy". In the end, it's just sad

[Bukefal]

trolling aside, dude cheating is the lowest of the low. don't ever do it. I never understood why somebody would ask out a girl then just cheat on her. Girls will find out, and it won't be fun,
.

This.

Plus it only makes you feel ed up about yourself and as said above, it takes too much energy, the lying and sooner or later the partner will find out.

I don't get the need to cheat either. If you want to have different girls every now and then, then don't start a relationship. Just be single and have a good time.

[mrsmaalox]

Oh well, Fpoon hasn't posted in about an hour.....I think we all know what he's doing.....

[MannyIsGod]

But seriously...banging your best friend's girlfriend??? That's messed up dude. Even for me...

What about your best friends sheep?

[JudynTX]

Oh well, Fpoon hasn't posted in about an hour.....I think we all know what he's doing.....

[The Reckoning]

bunch of idealists in here.

[The Reckoning]

youre all full of

[CosmicCowboy]

From personal experience, if you are going to bang attached women don't do it at their 2 story condo if there is ANY chance the husband/husbands will come home unexpectedly.

[ALVAREZ6]

From personal experience, if you are going to bang attached women don't do it at their 2 story condo if there is ANY chance the husband/husbands will come home unexpectedly.

crofl

[silverblk mystix]

What about your best friends sheep?

Is THAT a nice thing to say?

Knew you wouldn't last...

[Fpoonsie]

Funny how people always go with the advice that gets them laid.

I was only being half-serious; thus, the

The idea that the person in the relationship is the only one in the wrong is bull , by the way. You're not looking for ethical clarification by starting this thread, rather justification for what you are already apparently planning to do.

Yeah, I don't think I'm totally outta tha woods from a moralistic standpoint. I know I'm willingly a part of this deception, soooo...

To that end, more power to you if you think you can live with it. I'm not one to judge, especially since I haven't been innocent all my life as far as these things go. I will say, however, that being the person on the side usually ends up taking a lot of work and I've discovered over the years that I'm far too lazy to go to that much trouble. Even really good pussy isn't worth the energy it takes to sneak around, coordinate alibis, or get laid according to someone else's boyfriend's schedule.

I dunno. This, as well as some of the other posts, have made it sounds like more work than it's worth. But, again, this kinda dry spell can do a number on my "work ethic."

[Fpoonsie]

Oh well, Fpoon hasn't posted in about an hour.....I think we all know what he's doing.....

[guilty grin] She just left actually. I had to get ready for, well, work, coincidentally.

[The Gemini Method]

From personal experience, if you are going to bang attached women don't do it at their 2 story condo if there is ANY chance the husband/husbands will come home unexpectedly.

Words to live and die by...