Haha, nice to hear.
With the once the cheater line...I would agree for most people, but for this particular girl I dated, I honestly don't believe so. She's extremely mature now and has been through a lot of in her life...and she was even really mature back when we dated. Hardcore Christian throughout childhood, her parents were (they are no longer b/cus divorce early in girl's childhood) evangelicals basically. Her parents split because her dad (even though a former pastor) had affair(s), and that has always hurt her..not just growing up through that, but the reasons they split. Also, the same year she cheated on me, one of her best friends was cheated on by her bf and my ex didn't hesitate to throw harsh words and let the dude know what she thought. So, in summary, really ing strange because from past experience has always been against cheating. However, both time were when things were mildly shaky, she grew insecure of how much longer I wanted a part of the relationship, and she was trashed during both times. Hence the 3-month secrecy.
Oh well. I'm having fun now. Cannot be too regretful, because if I ever am cheated on again, I'm much better prepared on dealing with it afterwards.

..I ed the girl who cheated on me, while she was dating her next bf(the guy she cheated on me with), twice, during their relationship..once a cheater, always..
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he called me dumb
at accountant wannabe internet tough guys.
