Cheating

[Fpoonsie]

This thread reeks, but not of validation...Having Tyson_Chandler, Blake, and Fpoonsie discussing women is like having the three kids that didn't get chosen in the pickup basketball game sitting on the bench and arguing about who is the best athlete...

I never claimed to know a THING about women.

And TC/Blake are having a side-discussion with which I'm not involved.

[Blake]

This thread reeks, but not of validation...Having Tyson_Chandler, Blake, and Fpoonsie discussing women is like having the three kids that didn't get chosen in the pickup basketball game sitting on the bench and arguing about who is the best athlete...

I always wondered what kids like you discussed while sitting on the bench.

[Winehole23]

Couldjoo dumb it down a bit? How exactly did I "lie down and play dead"?

Perhaps that was a bit loosely put.

The possum game essentially consists of exposing the (alleged) details of one's personal life to a brutal and uncaring message board, then appealing to its sensitivity and basic humanity.

[Fpoonsie]

Perhaps that was a bit loosely put.

The possum game essentially consists of exposing the (alleged) details of one's personal life to a brutal and uncaring message board, then appealing to its sensitivity and basic humanity.

OOOoooooh. Hmm. Yeah, I guess maybe to an extent.

I think, moreso, I just severely underestimated ST's...sense of morality?

[leemajors]

I could understand that, I suppose. I DO think (my conscience aside) that cheating on your HUSBAND/WIFE as opposed to cheating on your BF/GF are too very different things.

Try selling that to your next gf.

[Winehole23]

@Fpoonsie:

Not sure what you mean. I see plenty of crabby moralizers.

[Blake]

I was curious if other people had some experience, and wanted to know other poster's thoughts/advice on the matter.

meh, you know right and wrong.

Seems to me you are just confessing your sins here.

Whatever helps to ease the guilt.

[Fpoonsie]

Try selling that to your next gf.

Point taken.

I still maintain that I'm good in a relationship. Outside of the initial overlap, I was feverishly faithful. And since then, I haven't participated in anything even loosely resembling "extracurriculars."

I'll grant you, though, that this thread wasn't my best ST personal ad.

[Fpoonsie]

@Fpoonsie:

Not sure what you mean. I see plenty of pissed off moralizers.

I guess that was precisely my point. I didn't expect such an uproar with regards to my exploits. I expected more The Reck, and less Viva...but obviously, my assumptions fell flat pretty quickly.

[Winehole23]

I thought you got off easy. Confessional threads can get really ugly here.

[z0sa]

Yeah, when one person is in a relationship and their on the side isn't, there's only one cheater present. If you don't like your relationship, or just wanna whoever you want, stop playing stupid and get out of it.

The buddy-boyfriend situation increases the complexity dramatically, but if you tell him she's coming on to you and that you didn't her for his sake (the truth, in most cases), he still hates you and may even think you're a liar. Might as well get laid. Think you did the right thing tbh

[Fpoonsie]

I thought you got off easy. Confessional threads can get really ugly here.

Don't get me wrong. That wasn't my masochistic attempt to get reamed for what I think "I deserve." Just (cautiously) pointing out my surprise.

[Fpoonsie]

Yeah, when one person is in a relationship and their on the side isn't, there's only one cheater present. If you don't like your relationship, or just wanna whoever you want, stop playing stupid and get out of it.

The buddy-boyfriend situation increases the complexity dramatically, but if you tell him she's coming on to you and that you didn't her for his sake (the truth, in most cases), he still hates you and may even think you're a liar. Might as well get laid. Think you did the right thing tbh

Ha! Well, right or wrong, he's married now and the guilt (at least as far as THAT situation is concerned) has more or less subsided.

[Winehole23]

Volunteering intimate details of one's personal life to a message board is of course optional, but do reflect that the teasing can last for years.

[Winehole23]

Can I get a YEAH, Blake?

[Winehole23]

Wc?

[Winehole23]

(cafftats?

[Fpoonsie]

(cafftats?

Didn't know 'bout that one yet?

[Phillip]

lol kalft@ts

[Winehole23]

Ha! Well, right or wrong, he's married now and the guilt (at least as far as THAT situation is concerned) has more or less subsided.

I wasn't aware it was a contest.

[Winehole23]

Didn't know 'bout that one yet?

The notoriety reached my wine cave somehow.

[Fpoonsie]

I wasn't aware it was a contest.

Coincidentally, it always kinda was with him.

In the end, looks like he won.

[Winehole23]

This thread reeks, but not of validation...Having Tyson_Chandler, Blake, and Fpoonsie discussing women is like having the three kids that didn't get chosen in the pickup basketball game sitting on the bench and arguing about who is the best athlete...

The prevalence of locker room backchat creeps me out in this thread and every single one like it.

[Fpoonsie]

The notoriety reached my wine cave somehow.

I was merely referring to its recent Sean Elliott (with one "t") type qualities...

[Stringer_Bell]

What about emotional cheating? Like, for example, not saying this happened to me, cuz even if it did I wouldn't admit it, but...

You had a friend that wasn't real close, but friendly nonetheless, and you and his on/off girlfriend form a real deep non-sexual bond, then she breaks up with him after a year of knowing you, then you two start ing around and take it to the next level...is that cheating too? Am I a homewrecker?