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more videos of bullies getting owned
i was never bullied in school due to the fact that i was friends with some of the worst people at school. so when did hit the fan and some chump tried to get in my face, i'd have a couple bigger dudes i knew come to me and ask me to point those fools out and the matter was taken care of. plus, like you CF, i went about my days not being noticed per se.
i can tell you though, not all bullies are the same and just as CH pointed out, some will bully you right out of school.
also, the best solution is never the one mommy and daddy told you, "just walk away". the best solution is to stand up tall and don't back down! i believe in self-esteem, self-worth and if you don't have the self-esteem to stand up tall or the self-worth to stop the bs, then you deserve the pain.
at that boxing gym i was part of we had kids roll through there who thought they were the from the get go. those kids would bully the regulars for no good reason and when my instructor had enough of it, he'd pair those kids off. guess what happened? the bullies got beat the down in the ring and finally learned their place.
i'm all for fighting as long as it's to prove you're not a pussy and you won't take no bs from anyone who sees you as a target.
Yep. I'd be willing to say most.
Sorry CF, this entire post is complete bull .
You, nor I, have been bullied. But I wasnt bullied because my response was always outrageously disproportionate to the attempt at bullying.
I knew more bullies than I care to admit, devious like shoving a popsicle, stick and all, up some poor kids nose on the playground then beating them to oblivion. Unprovoked all-out assaults on totally fearful prey, beating them into unconsciousness for no. damn. reason. at. all.
There is only one way to deal with a bully and thats to completely overreact with a disproportionate response that they'll never forget. The "bullied" will never have to worry about it ever again because that stuff resonates throughout the school in a hurry.
Much the same as a hungry lion wont even try to fell a water buffalo because the risk-reward ratio isnt right.
The Ender Wiggin response.
CROFL those vids are awesome, especially the last... s him while he's down
the first one would've been the best if he finished him off, the second nearly made me jump out of my seat yelling "YES!" and the third I've already seen even on this site
Why is youtube acting so butthurt over all the videos on this?! They've even taken down the joke versions of this. WHY?!
Because cyber bullying is not good. Just think about what Ritchard feels whenever he sees the videos. Poor boy.
"His black belt reflexes took over"
What a creative way to say "he threw the first punch"
Do you think he should have waited?
He ended the fight before it even started. He didn't seriously injure the other guy, just wounded his pride. Perfect strike, IMO.
When some crackhead in' junkie fights out of his shirt, past a panicked pros ute to come to, I don't think the question of who threw the 'first punch' is really all that relevant. Dude needed to get knocked the fugg out. He pretty much did.
My son (14) is head and shoulders taller than all but a handful of kids at his school and it's amazing to me how much the smaller boys like to talk a lot of to him to get him to react. And he's not a scrawny guy--or a sissy--either.
He's gotten a lot better at blowing them off than he was when he was younger, because it's never really been anything more than talk. I absolutely would support him for defending himself the best he would need to against violence, but encourage him to instead find an adult if at all possible.
Fighting in JISD will not only amount to suspensions, alternative school, expulsions and/or arrests ... but up to a $500 fine and a court appearance for the parents.
That being said, I would have paid the $500 fine for Casey.
Upon reading DRs post I reevaluated my position. I came from somewhere that if you didn't stand up for yourself the beatings would not only continue but they would get worse and you'd get all your jacked daily. You had to make it painful for them and if I could have body slamed them like Casey did then I would have so I can't knock the kid one bit in retrospect.
Then WTF is he being bullied for? There's ALWAYS some underlying reason, I highly doubt they just randomly chose him. Is he a bag?My son (14) is head and shoulders taller than all but a handful of kids at his school and it's amazing to me how much the smaller boys like to talk a lot of to him to get him to react. And he's not a scrawny guy--or a sissy--either.
He's gotten a lot better at blowing them off than he was when he was younger, because it's never really been anything more than talk. I absolutely would support him for defending himself the best he would need to against violence, but encourage him to instead find an adult if at all possible.
Fighting in JISD will not only amount to suspensions, alternative school, expulsions and/or arrests ... but up to a $500 fine and a court appearance for the parents.
That being said, I would have paid the $500 fine for Casey.
lol, in all seriousness, what do you think is the most probable reason..or has your son told you why?
That Casey kid would have no problems in prison, not that he's going there.
Can't read the whole thread, but as much as I despise and discourage violence of any kind, I think that what some are calling an overreaction, may very well have been the only thing that big kid could have done. I agree that bullies are just trying to evoke a reaction, but I don't agree that ignoring it makes the bully back down.
Having never been punched in the face, I can only assume that it can be disorienting to say the least.
It's a shame they had to resort to violence, but I'd be surprised if it's an action the big boy will ever have to repeat again. And clearly the little runt needed to be knocked down a peg or 2 and ideally, will never need to be "reminded"
I've actually asked him if it was because he acted like a .
He said no ... he's just a big white boy in a predominantly hispanic & black school, and that it happens with all the bigger guys. The little runts like Ritchard thinking they are all kinds of tough because they don't think they'll get a response. Fortunately, my son thinks they are all "re ed" and knows he could hurt them pretty badly if he wanted to. And he could ... that's that I know. There's also been a huge overall fighting problem at that school for the last couple of years, and I can't wait until next year when he's out of there.
It's a tough situation as a mother ... you don't want your son to be a big pussy, but you don't want him to get hurt/in serious trouble ... or seriously injure someone else, either.
Fortunately, my son didn't have to do anything to one of the little ers. The boy got busted starting a fire in one of the bathrooms of their brand new building and has been expelled ... and is currently sitting in juvi.
maybe u should move out of the ghetto
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