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You are right. If I had only lied more to her instead of telling her about my LARPing she might still be here.
Wwwwwhhhhhhhyyyyyyyyyyy didn't I lie?!
If that's the case, then you have the full explanation for why you and your boyfriend may be having problems.
You are right. If I had only lied more to her instead of telling her about my LARPing she might still be here.
Wwwwwhhhhhhhyyyyyyyyyyy didn't I lie?!
Time IS ticking because like I said, if she s another guy then we will never be together again. This is a great girl and if I don't lock her up now then I may very well lose her for good. Time is of the essence.
and you don't know what it's like to not be able to wake up every morning in the same house as your son and woman you love. I feel like I miss so much, I probably don't since I'm with them all the time, but missing anything is too much for a father.
Man, everything I do and think is for that little guy. He and his mother are the two most important things to me in the world. My motives are righteous, I promise you.
Good lord troll. Suck it up. At least you get to spend time with them. What about all the children who never met their parents. Or the parents that had to bury their children. Enjoy the life you live, not the one you think you should have.
Not sure the point of ing someone you can't have a conversation with.
What do you mean?
So basically you are just trying before she gets ed down? Lol that's sad.
Uuuummmm any young single guy's dream
I mean that it sounds like this is a problem you're trying to solve more through game playing and manipulation than conversation.
Whether you're trying to manipulate her into taking you back, or she's manipulating you to get what she wants without giving you the same, nothing is going to change if you stay the course. Talk out. Let her know what you want from the relationship, and why, and what you're willing to give, and encourage her to let you know whether or not she's interested in the same. If she is, move forward. If she's not, or she refuses to make her intentions clear, then it ain't gonna happen and you need to be the one to walk away.
Good advice, but things could be so much better with them in my life permanently. I mean he is in my life permanently, but she may not be. Life is good now, but it could be everything I want it to be if we could just be a family.
You get what you get and don't throw a fit.
Funt I'm glad you responded because you remind me a lot of her. We talk all the time about where our relationship is going and I've dug it into the ground. She knows I want to put a ring on her finger and knows how much I love her and how I'll do anything for her. It is no secret and we talk about it all the time, to the point where she is annoyed by it. Like I said I need to stop pressuring her and just let what's going to happen-happen. Maybe you could give me some advice on what you would want to hear or see from a man in this situation if it were you.
Again, I don't know why people think I'm trying to manipulate or trick her, I'm completely up front with her about everything. I have no secrets with this girl.
That's right, and I'm trying to be a man about it, there's gotta be a way to get what I want though. Oddly enough, this thread has helped, I've got a pretty good idea of how to move forward from here.
Aye papi! I missed your ass so much too! Which little puto is yours again? Let's have another one and .
Did you guys attempt the domestic-bliss-loving-family thing back when your son was born? If not, why not? And if you did, who broke it off? If she was the one who resisted/ended it, then I think it's safe to say that maybe she believes that is just not the life for her and there's probably nothing you can do to change that. If you were the one who resisted /ended it, then it may be a trust issue. She may not be convinced that you would never leave her again.
Also, you swear you love her and your son, but in her eyes (as well as mine) it could appear that you are driven by the desperation of not losing your son. She might see all your actions of trying to keep her as "just for show"; because as long as you keep her close, you are able to have your son.
It's a tough situation you're in, that's for sure, but I don't see a quick fix for you. Clinging and pressuring absolutely won't work. You've got to concentrate on being a good, caring person and put your efforts into making a good life for your son. Who knows, she may need to explore another relationship in order to know more clearly what she wants. And when she compares you to someone else, you'll have a huge advantage because you will have demonstrated you are a good father.
You pull har out of tha traa...
"domestic-bliss-loving-family thing"
What is this exactly? We have never been so close to being a couple in the past three years since we broke up as we are right now. I was trying to be a family at that time but she was still out of love with me because of the hurt I caused her when I broke things off with her.
And I'll never lose my son, I've already proven to be one of the greatest fathers alive (in her eyes) and likewise, I've never seen a better mother. I think she's pretty well convinced that's it's not all about our son and it's her that I want to be with. She brings up sometimes well what happens in 18 years when he is gone? It'll be just the two of us, I want to make sure that we'll work when it's just us two.
Sorry... Riddler style response... swapped the letter "a" with the letter "e"...
LMAO@ Sancha....You really are from La Puente CA right?
Then walk away. The next move is hers.
Yep, you're right WC
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