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  1. #1
    Believe.
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    I know all the guys that post here are big pimps so I thought this would be the best place to ask this question and get some advice.

    My girlfriend and I, ahem, ex girlfriend, dated for about 5 years off and on. It was more off and on towards the end, we just couldn't make it work and fought too much. I've now been trying to get back together with her for like a year because we are two different people now and I know we can make it work. She loves me but is not so sure just because of all the problems we had in the past. Too make matters more complicated and emotions more intense, we have a child together.

    I'm ready to start/be a family now but she is just nervous because she wants to know 100% for sure that she is making the right decision. What can I do to help convince her?

    I've done all the obvious things: improve myself, always be there for her and our son, be a good provider, in good with her family, etc etc.

    What I'm doing wrong I think is kind of pressuring her a little too much sometimes, telling her I love her all the time (too much), not playing hard to get, being unnecessarily su ious of her and how she spends her time away from me (my mind creates these ridiculous ideas about her ing other guys or dating others guys - I know it's not true, but it's the only reason my overactive imagination can come up with for why she is dragging her feet and doesn't want to be with me).

    What do all you guys and girls think? Be cool, give legitimate advice or gtfo.

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    I ♥ adrienne&ashbeeigh vato loco's Avatar
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    i'd bet money that she's ing someone else

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    Veteran cantthinkofanything's Avatar
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    Send me a sawbuck and I'll tell her to go home.

    Also, I went ahead and started you a family in her.

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    Believe.
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    Nah, she's not ing anyone, she's always either at work or with me

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    Veteran cantthinkofanything's Avatar
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    Nah, she's not ing anyone, she's always either at work or with me
    right...at work.

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    Veteran cantthinkofanything's Avatar
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    You may be OK though. Most of the families I tried to start were in her mouth or butt.

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    Mr. John Wayne CosmicCowboy's Avatar
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    You are probably OK now. apalisoc_9 locked her out and is swearing he won't open the door again.

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    Orange Whip? Orange Whip? Viva Las Espuelas's Avatar
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    Nah, she's not ing anyone, she's always either at work or with me
    You should read Findog's last thread.

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    Believe.
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    Her having sex with others is honestly an unrealistic concern I have. I just have an overactive imagination, so let's move on.

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    silverblk mystix
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    i'd bet money that she's ing someone else
    Yup.

    but here's the solution....is she hot?...nevermind who am I kidding-I'd a rattlesnake if you hold it's head...

    Send her to me....I'll turn her out for you ...really good...for about 6-9 months....then I'll treat her like .....


    she'll run right back to you because you are a safe bet.


    You're welcome.

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    Believe.
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    Lol so far everyone who has responded has never even seen a girl naked in real life, minus cosmiccowboy, strip clubs don't count. Any real men have some advice?

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    silverblk mystix
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    Lol so far everyone who has responded has never even seen a girl naked in real life, minus cosmiccowboy, strip clubs don't count. Any real men have some advice?
    Ok...here's the truth...

    Forget about her. You can never go back home.

    It is better to start new with someone new....you and the ex already had a shot...this can never be erased and women can never forget.

    Once you find out she did while you were apart ---you won't forget either---and you sound like you would harass her until she told you the truth but you don't really want the truth....you REALLY don't want the truth and you REALLY can't handle the truth.

    So, be smart....find some fresh meat. When you do find something new, don't things up and you will always have someone that you can respect and that respects you...this is something that you will never recover with your ex...respect that is.

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    Klaw apalisoc_9's Avatar
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    You are probably OK now. apalisoc_9 locked her out and is swearing he won't open the door again.

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    Believe.
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    Ok...here's the truth...

    Forget about her. You can never go back home.

    It is better to start new with someone new....you and the ex already had a shot...this can never be erased and women can never forget.

    Once you find out she did while you were apart ---you won't forget either---and you sound like you would harass her until she told you the truth but you don't really want the truth....you REALLY don't want the truth and you REALLY can't handle the truth.

    So, be smart....find some fresh meat. When you do find something new, don't things up and you will always have someone that you can respect and that respects you...this is something that you will never recover with your ex...respect that is.
    We've lost each others repect? When did that happen?

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    TheDrewShow is salty lefty's Avatar
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    Believe.
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    I'm hung, our sex life was great, next!

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    Believe.
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    Actually, what I meant was is great, we still sleep together

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    above average height mavs>spurs's Avatar
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    ex's are ex's for a reason brah

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    Believe.
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    If we didn't have a kid together, maybe I wouldn't feel this way. But the heart wants what it wants, and I want her.

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    above average height mavs>spurs's Avatar
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    weak pussy n1gga

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    Believe.
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    Being in love is some weak pussy Luck_The_Fakers_Luck_The_Fakers_Luck_The_Fakers_Lu ck_The_Fakers_Luck_The_Fakers_ ? OK

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    TheDrewShow is salty lefty's Avatar
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    I'm hung, our sex life was great, next!
    Uhoh

    I think I struck a nerve



    So she did leave you for you tiny

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    Believe.
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    I just said no, lefty. Not everyone is tiny like you.

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    Klaw apalisoc_9's Avatar
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    If we didn't have a kid together, maybe I wouldn't feel this way. But the heart wants what it wants, and I want her.
    When did you guys break up?

    Do you really want to do this? A couple of years ago, I wanted my ex back badly. I was inlove and was doing all sorts of just to get back with her. She was Perfect..Good looking, Intelligent, not your typical dumb . But The more i tried the more i realized it was over for us.

    Srsly though, if she doesnt want it dont force it. You would only put yourself into heartache..

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    The Wemby Assembly z0sa's Avatar
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    you don't.. i mean, it's either gonna happen or it won't. right now i'd care more about making sure your kid is gonna be alright through this.

    and you won't get any (more fine) women unless you change your at ude and start acting like you've got a pair, homie. theres tens of millions of women out there you would like, ya dig

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