Anyone ever walk right into a marriage?

[cantthinkofanything]

rationalizing why you're not married

[redzero]

doesn't think that prenuptial agreements can and will be thrown out
thinking that divorced couples didn't love each other, too, before their marriages fell apart

divorce attorneys would love your stupid mentality

[redzero]

Oh yeah, I forgot:

still thinking that couples need to get married to love each other

[redzero]

stupid enough to not consider the consequences of a failed marriage
gullible enough to think that your marriage will somehow be special and won't end badly because you'd love your spouse

And are you now changing your argument to: "Marriage is okay as long as you marry somebody who makes more money than you do"? Is that what you are arguing now?

[redzero]

now advocating being a gold digger
still too stupid to understand that being against marriage and being against love are not the same thing
dumb enough to not consider the negative consequences of your decisions

now resorting to personal attacks that make even less sense than the ones that you were using before

[DMC]

I should have had a few s in there....huh?

With that candy ass approach, you better get your s in here, you won't be getting them out there. You will be the best friend type, "I don't have sex on the 1st date" type, while she's ing everyone else without a date type.

[redzero]

Serious question:

Is being against marriage the same as being against love?

[redzero]

Then why have equated them several times in this thread?

[2Blonde]

My husband & I got married 5 1/2 months after we met. We will clebrate our 15th wedding anniversary in September. Worked for us!

[BlackSwordsMan]

My husband & I got married 5 1/2 months after we met. We will clebrate our 15th wedding anniversary in September. Worked for us!

I hope me and sourcandy are as fortunate

[SpursWoman]

My husband & I got married 5 1/2 mont
hs after we met. We will clebrate our 15th wedding anniversary in September. Worked for us!

User & I lived in sin for 7 years before we got married. Nothing much has changed, although I love having his last name ...it's unusual and difficult for people to pronounce and it cracks me up. At the doctor's office I'm now "Christine ....hhh ... Christine?" Lol

I got kicked in the teeth not being able to file head of household anymore, though.

[redzero]

lying and claiming that you weren't equating being against marriage to being against love numerous times in this topic
still too stupid to consider the consequences of your actions

[redzero]

Hemann82 is too stupid to understand that one doesn't need to marry in order to find love and be in a long-term relationship.

can't get consensual sex from someone for longer than 6 months

never experienced love

didn't mean to make you sad over your lack of steady romantic companionship

I. believe. that. you. will. find. someone. someday.

but i think we all have figured that out by now. sometimes what appears to be unattainable becomes the object of scorn

but remember. i believe in you. you will find love someday, if you first learn to love yourself

no love in your life

can't imagine the prospect of a lifelong relationship

you'll find someone someday

doesn't believe in lasting love

but but this marriage will certainly end in divorce and ruin me b-b-b-because I DON'T BELIEVE IN LOVE OR PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENETSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

but i guess your deep-seated phobia of being hurt probably stems back to some sort of anal trauma regularly inflicted upon you by a father figure of some sort

and then maybe you can gather up the pieces of your shattered ego and learn to live again, and learn to love yourself again, and eventually someone may learn to love you

Keep in mind that I not ONCE criticized love or relationships in general. Not a single time. This moron is too dumb to understand that one doesn't need to marry to be in a loving relationship, so he interperets being against marriage as being against love, then makes several unfunny personal attacks.

too stupid to understand something so simple
lying and claiming that he wasn't equating being against marriage to being against love/relationships

[BlackSwordsMan]

or me and caska AMIRGHT REDZERO BRO?

[redzero]

Getting into relationships with re s is messed up, bro.

[Giuseppe]

^
- "Got to hit 'em. Keeps 'em humble."

- Eric Roberts - "The Pope of Greenwich Village"

[redzero]

doesn't realize that there can be cheating in long-term relationships too
thinks it's dumb to consider the consequences of your actions

Now I'm just wondering how long it will take for your dumbass to realize that being against marriage and being against relationships are not the same thing. It's taken three days, and I'm starting to wonder if you'll ever get it.

[Giuseppe]

^Get your ing ass into the NBA Forum.

[redzero]

still can't argue without using strawmen

Relationships can end, too. I'm not criticizing marriage just because it can end. I'm criticizing marriage because divorce can screw people over.

Still waiting for you to use an argument that isn't a strawman.

[redzero]

You almost have it. I see that your reading comprehension has slightly improved.

[redzero]

Are you honestly trying to argue that one should not worry about something like their ex getting the house and part of their income?

Is that what you are honestly trying to argue? That that isn't important and should not factor into o'neal decision to marry or not?

[redzero]

so you don't have a goddamn reason to get married.

Let's review:

• You tried to argue that one can have a party.
- I explained how re ed it is to want to get married just to have a party. Furthermore, one can have lots of parties without getting married.
• You tried to argue that there are financial incentives to getting married.
- I explained that the risks (e.g., divorce, alimony, etc.) outweigh the benefits.
• You tried to claim that one can get free sex.
- I responded by stating that one doesn't need to marry in order to get free sex.

The rest of your arguments have been strawmen. You equated being against marriage to being against love/relationships numerous times.

So, can you tell me what reason one should have to get married instead of just staying in a relationship?

[redzero]

Another strawman.

Again, do you actually have a reason to get married?

[redzero]

Again, another strawman. You're just trying to oversimplify my position.

Again, do you actually have a reason to get married?

[Why?]

Again, another strawman. You're just trying to oversimplify my position.

Again, do you actually have a reason to get married?

Why can't love be the reason people get married? Why can't you just accept the fact that marriage is not for you but others still believe in it and leave it alone?