Not true, real women WANT to be dominated. Not in the asshole controlling way, but they like a man with leadership and who is king of his household. Nobody said that just because a woman earns half the money that must mean she wants to be a man. Because she doesnt. Deep down, she's still a woman and wants a man who can provide for her not just monetarily. Sexually, monetarily, keeping her safe, protecting their children, etc. Women like a man who's assertive, that doesn't mean you have to beat her or be an ass. Women aren't attracted to beta males like you, luckily though your wife settled a long time ago and stepping out is just too much trouble.