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start by taking pictures of her house on the internet.
This chick comes into my work all the time flirting and smiling and we always small talk but the problem is she is 5 years older than me. (I creeped on fb lol). I'm 18 and she's 23, tbh I just wanna plow her but idk ways to get her number without it being awkward.
Idk if she has a bf or not but she flirts hard so I'm guessing no. And I already know her number because it's in the computer system at work but how should I go about asking her out to get coffee or something without coming off as creepy
start by taking pictures of her house on the internet.
Don't take this as being a bro, but you got no chance. She definitely wants older guys, especially since she just had her fun in college (assuming she's graduated). Ask her out anyway tho, for the opener practice...you've got nothing to lose
why would it be creepy? A 23 yr old girl consistently going into McDonalds by herself while you just happen to be working could not be a coincidence. She's obviously in to you, though I don't know why
Smart man.
all jokes aside
THIS
Dd is right, no way to find out but asking her out.
Show her your
A McGill University study shows that women who are 5 years older like men who pull it out
While true many girls like older guys, age won't matter if you have game. Just try not to come off as being 18
DD is right.
When I first read the tread le I thought you had a chance if the women in question was or approaching milf status but since she's 23 your chances are slim.
Chicks at that age aim for mature men and stability.
If your game is strong however, who knows. Give it a shot.
Run some game, son, stop being a sissy and just make your move. In fact, you may have already ed up by not making it sooner ... a wise ladies' man once told me that the the first time you see a chick you dig, the second you make eye contact you've got 3 seconds to make your move or your "stock" starts declining rapidly. Additionally don't steal her phone number or else. Just ask her to lunch after youre off or some . Try to keep the ball in your court although that'll be hard now, why? Because women, especially if they initiating the flirting, want you to take the situation by the balls and start mackin on em already.
some people say you've got nothing to lose; i always think of it as you've got everything to gain tbh
Glue some pubes to your face and pretend you're 24.
it wont be awkward unless you make it so.
but first i must ask, do you flirt back and respond to her non-verbal cues?
Although z0sa is dropping truth bombs,being 20 years old I can tell you this.It's easier to a 30 year old chick than a 23 year old one..
But hey,the 3 seconds rule is the real rule of thumb,go for it.Ask her out,ask for her number etc..
And remember the other golden rule,"call on the 3rd day".
Yeah I do an she knows that I'm recently out of HS so I assume she knows my age. She went to unt but lives here in McKinney so it's somewhat reasonable. Nex time she comes in I'll give it a shot. I think I'll just casually ask her if she has any plans later that evening idk. We will see. I've never had success with older women before tho, everyone's been younger. It's uncharted waters for me imo
No,asking the woman out for the same night is bull . Just ask her number so you can call her and schedule it..Make her wait for you son,don't beg for the pussy.
The waiting game doesn't apply here.
The stacks aren't in Lincoln's favor to begin with so he shouldn't attempt the alpha way of things.
But you're right. You cant ask her if she has any plans for any specific time because you haven't even stablish yourself yet.
All you need to do is show interest and let her know what's what.
You can slip into that dreaded friend zone without even realizing it. it might be too late but what the .
MD, your chances are slim but here's what you do/say...next time she comes in start yakkin it up like you always do. Once you have her smiling or laughing and there's a brief pause, say something like "so where are we going tonight," or "where am I taking you tonight"...some like that. Say it cool with a smile on your face, in a half-kidding manner. She'll think your ballsy and funny, but may still reject you...all the same you're pressing the issue and looking confident as well...That'll make it hard for her to shoot you down too.
aight aight.
sounds like your plan is solid. Zosa and TherealCB dropped a few gems so i'd go with what they said. she's older than you but she's not older older. she's still young herself and still at that age where she's down for whatever.
True story: I lost my V-card at the ripe ol' age of 18, chick was 23. Roommate of some friends of mine. Pretty much came around at a very specific window in my life where I had just decided to just say " it" and went on sort of a tear like Jim Carrey in "Yes Man". I knew it wouldn't last, it didn't, but I didn't really have anything to lose in the process. So yeah, DD is probably right. Take your shot. What's there to lose?
lol can't go to a bar though...looks like you'll have to sell her on sipping a virgin daiquiri at Applebee's
(Lincoln son I'm not a ladies' man so I'm the last guy you should hear,but since we're talking)
Imo a 23 year old won't fall for the "nice looking young kid beta male",she wants the real deal.That's why I think hitting on a 23 yo is harder than a 30.He has to show he's not intimidated and that he's the man.
Soo making her wait is the way to go? lol headgames.
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