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I thought that's what marriage was.
...for your own life?
I thought that's what marriage was.
Marriage can last a day...parenting lasts at least 18 years of your life
yes
Tell that to Casey Anthony.
Metaphorically speaking I'd say it's just the opposite of a white flag. It's like going to war in Iraq or 'Nam. No short term hope for victory, no clear goals or even definition of victory in the long term.
Beyond that (and I'm speaking with a grand total of five months riding that crazy train) I would still say no. There's absolutely no single event that will change your life more drastically, but it's only all over if you let it happen.
Of course not. You can have a whole lifetime of living your unfulfilled dreams through your child.
i think the OP mean's basically waving a "brown" flag due to the pigment of your skin turning brown after having the kid imho. the more kids the darker you get and therefore the tier your new quality of life, tbh.
Having a trophy is pretty much the worst thing you can do to yourself. Sometimes people who have kids IMMEDIATELY regret it and they'll do anything to get their old, better life back. The aforementioned Casey Anthony comes to mind or that fat beaner who super glued her house ape's hands together.
If you're dead set on having kids, do yourself a favor and just burn your money instead of wasting it on diapers and ty toys that'll get used for 20 minutes.
Pretty much, tbh. Kids (for the most part) are depreciating assets.
Depends on your station in life and your own sense of self-worth tbh.
If those are both on the low end of the scale, then most likely yes.
You can have an incredible sense of self-worth yet still be saddled with 18+ years of limited mobility and freedom.
It definitely delays things. I've been wanting to move away from the area I am in for a while but my daughter is 13, so I've got about five more years. I love her very much though and wouldn't trade her for a second chance.
you already surrendered the moment you agreed to a longterm relationship or marriage with the tbh, having children is more like the final sentence you receive in a martial court
if ur young and living that lifestyle u love to go out and partying and , with no responsibility....dont have kids in the prime of ur youthful life, cause theres a chance u dont even look after the children....
theres a reason why i hate bas parents who dont look after their kids and just dump them to the family or grandparents full time...fck them selfish bas s....
I'm not certain that a person with a high sense of self worth would see things in that light. Its really a question of whose eye is doing the beholding.
If you're still a kid yourself then forget about having kids.
So is that what went wrong with your parents then? Makes sense.
I'm not the one who needs everyone else to carry me, that would be you. My parents raised a guy who can stand on his own, yours raised a kid in need of others.
a smart man would never get stuck in any sort of a relationship with a in his 20s tbh, let alone having kids with her
Why not stick to the topic little fella, ok? Don't you get tired of the lameass ?
Ok done with you here. Stick to the topic...got it!
Another pessimistic suicidal thread from Deadly Dynasty.
Cloth diapers tbh and toys are cooler nowadays. Having a kid gives you an excuse to play with them. Lol
To answer the OP, it kinda depends on what you had planned. You still have personal goals, even goals with no relation to your kids, but kids are an extra consideration in the achievement of those goals.
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