there might be some es who seek sex for fun just like most guys do, es may go down on well-built guys w/o charging no fee and that's why "you don't need to get married to have some kids in america". a badass would just them hoes for fun and show them the ing door the morning after. but that's not the centerpiece of our discussion here imho.
marriage, or a long-term relationship which can be regarded as a de-facto marriage, are only the luxury for the richest people in our society of present day, which's the key point i wanna make. say if you're a prince of the british royal family, you have every right to get married to whatever you like best. while if you're a broke ass college graduate with a near-zero bank deposit, you better not even consider getting married before the age of 30, as the respectable talkshow host Tom Leykis often says. guy in his 20s should keep improving himself in the pursuit for his dreams, rather than get his life committed do a and tedious relationship issues tbh