Hanging out with another guy/gal alone during a committed relationship.

[mrsmaalox]

A woman in an honest, trusting committed relationship is not going to be taken advantage of unless it's a case of drugging/rape. A woman is going to do what she wants to do; the setting, who she's with, or what you permit or don't permit make no difference at all.

[Koolaid_Man]

Unless my GF's guy friend is full on gay, then no. That's how people turn into cucks...by letting their guard down tbh. Yeah, if your girl is gonna cheat she is gonna cheat eventually, but what the is the point of allowing her to be put in such a situation?

^ that's the key..I dance for women in my spare time and Imma tell you they CHEAT CHEAT CHEAT like it's no bodies business..there is not a faithful woman on the planet in my view..it just depends on the degree with which they cheat...many of them as LakaLuva once pointed out engage in what we call emotional ing...once that happens it's over I don't care how married they are them panties coming off...

but here's the secret to maintaining a somewhat "happy" relationship --> Stay Sexy..as in "Magic Mike" sexy...all my female friends tell me they just love to death a man that can dance sexy for them either nude or with a g-string...they simply love it...and most important even more than a good is abs...nice abs is the key to a woman's heart...them wanting to you starts with abs

I dare any woman to come on here a dispute me

[Koolaid_Man]

A woman in an honest, trusting committed relationship is not going to be taken advantage of unless it's a case of drugging/rape. A woman is going to do what she wants to do; the setting, who she's with, or what you permit or don't permit make no difference at all.

I agree the issue is they want to cheat..I think as humans monogamy is just unrealistic....they're gonna other dudes..I'm more than sure you've cheated at some point in your life...I can tell by your post....

[Koolaid_Man]

DPG is like the relationship king..dudes been cheated on so many times I fully expect him to write a novel on this thread....

[mrsmaalox]

No the issue is not that they want to cheat. The issue is that if she is in a truly sincere, committed relationship (on both sides), she will NOT cheat. Doesn't matter how many hunky dudes dance naked for her or where they do it, she just won't be into it.

[TE]

mrsmaalox forgets that not every women is as loyal and legit classy as she is; a trait common among more mature (and older) woman.

A lot of woman I know play the classy card which's been trending for the last 5 years or so tmk only to be outright s when the occasion permits itself.

[apalisoc_9]

No the issue is not that they want to cheat. The issue is that if she is in a truly sincere, committed relationship (on both sides), she will NOT cheat. Doesn't matter how many hunky dudes dance naked for her or where they do it, she just won't be into it.

Ignoring the physical temptations.

I love my girl, but whose to say i would be able to fight the physical urge if a smoking chick spreads dem legs to me...I probably have enough will not to, but why put yourself in that situation?

[mrsmaalox]

If you can't fight the temptation for the person you supposedly love, what's the point of being committed to them?

[apalisoc_9]

If you can't fight the temptation for the person you supposedly love, what's the point of being committed to them?

why fight the temptation when you can avoiding fighting it?

[mavs>spurs]

wow, so this is how bad it's gotten as a society that we're actually having this conversation

[TE]

wow, so this is how bad it's gotten as a society that we're actually having this conversation

lmao exactly

[Trill Clinton]

if you live in san antonio and watch the news, then you should be familiar with this story about a lady at a "male friends" house who found out her "bestie" was secretly recording her take showers and . keep being naive and pretend that you can have a male friend and kick it. that only flies with ugly es, true story. if a man is besties with a woman, there is an ulterior motive there.



http://www.woai.com/news/local/story...jg.cspx?rss=68

[TE]

why fight the temptation when you can avoiding fighting it?

good question tbh...

Another good question would be: why would a female feel the need to hang out with another man if all she needs is her significant other tbh

[mavs>spurs]

if you live in san antonio and watch the news, then you should be familiar with this story about a lady at a "male friends" house who found out her "bestie" was secretly recording her take showers and . keep being naive and pretend that you can have a male friend and kick it. that only flies with ugly es, true story. if a man is besties with a woman, there is an ulterior motive there.



http://www.woai.com/news/local/story...jg.cspx?rss=68

yeah and i'd venture so far as to say that if as a male you allow that potential rival to move in on your girl and you let it go on, she will start to respect you less and less at a primitive, subconscious level until it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy and something actually does happen. men are supposed to be protective over their women and bring them comfort and stability, its hard wired into our brains. real men don't allow that type of stuff and real women don't even hang out alone with other men, just out of respect.

[AussieFanKurt]

Would not care one bit if GF hung out with a male friend alone.. need trust in relationships.. if they you over they aren't right person. Should be able to trust your partner with someone else...

[Reck]

Everything that I would have said has been said here already.

You simply cant have her on watch 24/7 and I assure you, she has friends you have no idea of whom they are. What do you really think a woman will tell her man absolutely everything?

That is some 1960s thinking you got going on there.

[JoeTait75]

By "committed relationship" do you mean GF, or do you mean wife?

Because if you're married you really have no business spending time alone with anyone of the opposite sex. Even if there isn't anything going on it's just disrespectful to your spouse. It makes it look as if they have no control over you- and if you're married, yes, you should have a certain amount of control over where your spouse goes and who they see alone. That goes for the husband and the wife.

And having "known" (in the biblical sense) at least one married woman in my single days, my experience says there is often a definite reason why she would want to be alone with someone of the opposite sex, and that reason isn't healthy for a marriage.

[thunderup]

Some of the posts in this thread are embarrassing to read as a man.

[thunderup]

Would not care one bit if GF hung out with a male friend alone.. need trust in relationships.. if they you over they aren't right person. Should be able to trust your partner with someone else...

If they indeed you over, do you expect someone with that moral code to tell you that they've ed you over?

Think about it.

[apalisoc_9]

Everything that I would have said has been said here already.

You simply cant have her on watch 24/7 and I assure you, she has friends you have no idea of whom they are. What do you really think a woman will tell her man absolutely everything?

That is some 1960s thinking you got going on there.

Am i missing something? Shouldn't couples communicate all the time? specially on a situation like this..

@joetrait75

What difference does it make if it's a gf or a wife? I agree with everything you've said but i just don't see any difference between GF and wife.

[The Batman]

Everything that I would have said has been said here already.

You simply cant have her on watch 24/7 and I assure you, she has friends you have no idea of whom they are. What do you really think a woman will tell her man absolutely everything?

That is some 1960s thinking you got going on there.

If you don't keep your guard up, you'll end up like BRHornet, hating everything about life. The cuck posterboy, you can tell his wife got plowed by big daddy Tyson.

[thunderup]

Everything that I would have said has been said here already.

You simply cant have her on watch 24/7 and I assure you, she has friends you have no idea of whom they are. What do you really think a woman will tell her man absolutely everything?

That is some 1960s thinking you got going on there.

This is such a terrible post I don't know where to begin to argue with you.

[Reck]

Am i missing something? Shouldn't couples communicate all the time? specially on a situation like this..

@joetrait75

What difference does it make if it's a gf or a wife? I agree with everything you've said but i just don't see any difference between GF and wife.

You made it sound like its completely forbidden for the woman to hang out with a male alone. Whether you know him or not.

First you need to know your woman and know if she's capable of some dirty shenanigans and second you must have trust in that relationship otherwise everything falls apart.

And no, there are certain things each party keeps from the other. Like Joe said, there is a difference in girlfriend and wife.

The latter you must have at least some control of what/where she is at all times wherein a girlfriend you cant exercise that power because you will come as an over bearing and jealous boyfriend.

[Reck]

This is such a terrible post I don't know where to begin to argue with you.

You dont need to argue with me, I wouldn't argue the point I just made because it happens to be true.

Or maybe you can tell me what's not the least true in what I said.

[Koolaid_Man]

mrsmaalox forgets that not every women is as loyal and legit classy as she is; a trait common among more mature (and older) woman.

A lot of woman I know play the classy card which's been trending for the last 5 years or so tmk only to be outright s when the occasion permits itself.

your a gotdam fool if you think msmaloox hasn't cheated at some point in her life....personally I don't trust a woman that says she's never had anal sex...it's also a false assumption that mature women are faithful.... you're a gotdam moron